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Almost 6 weeks PO! -Mount Vernon, WA

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I am a 37 year old mother of an 11 year old son. I...

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I am a 37 year old mother of an 11 year old son. I was morbidly obese for many years and had a c-section with my son. I lost over 100lbs through diet and exercise and have kept it off for 3.5 years. I had been considering a tummy tuck for a couple of years now but was too fearful of pain and a long recovery time to actually go through with it. I also felt guilty about spending money on something that seemed so vain. I did consult with a surgeon a little over a year ago and that one consult terrified me. First of all the Dr. gave me the impression that he might leave me disfigured with dog ears and a missing belly button. Secondly he reeked of booze at noon on a Tuesday. Scary!


After another year of prayer and consideration, I finally decided that I needed to go through with this procedure more for my mental and emotional well being than any other reason. Having this apron of skin and fat hanging around my middle has been depressing to say the least. I have faithfully worked out 6-7 days per week for almost 5 years and since having the weight off, nothing I do workout wise changes the shape or size of my stomach. I am an avid runner and also do crossfit.


Thankfully my husband has been more than supportive of my decison to have a tummy tuck. He has actually talked me back into it every time I talked myself out of it.


I had my procedure yesterday. It took about 4 hours and I was in recovery for about an hour and a half. I can honestly say that my pain thus far is way less than I expected. Walking hunched over sucks and my lower back does hurt. The drains aren't a big deal at this point, but the medicine ball of pain meds is cumbersome and annoying. I have been propped up in a recliner in my bedroom since I got home around 8:30pm last night, so a little over 14 hours ago. I had one block of sleep that was about 5 hours last ngiht and I work up pain free. I am staying on top of my meds by taking them every 4 hours on the nose, lol. I am not trying to be strong or heroic here, lol. If I can avoid agony, I will!


I have 3 weeks off from work. I wait tables part time, about 30 hours per week. I am praying that I will be ready to go back to work as scheduled. I plan on taking it easy with the lifting when I do go back but the job is still very physically demanding. I work anywhere from 5-9 hours per shift with no break or sitting down at all. I am on my feet and walking, sometimes running, the entire shift. My boss did tell me to take more time off if I feel I need it, which is nice.


I plan on taking some post-op pics tomorrow when I remove the gauze and dressing from my wound as per the doctor's instructions. I will post them asap!

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James A. Edwards, MD

James A. Edwards, MD

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September 6, 2012
yay, sounds like your doing well so far!
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September 6, 2012
Wow! That is an impressive story! What it must take to lose 100 pounds and keep it off, not to mention your dedication to working out, speaks to your attitude and character! I am so happy you decided to do this for yourself. Boy, do you deserve it! Bravo!
September 7, 2012
thank you. it did takd md quite a while to come to that same conclusion...that i do deserve this.
September 7, 2012
This sitting around and doing nothing is going to kill me! I am bored out of my mind! I don't really feel up to doing anything in particular bug being cooped up like this sucks!
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September 7, 2012
Yes and then I read an article a Dr. wrote on here saying do not do anything for two weeks no matter how bad you want to! But after the first week, I could go outside. I drove my car on day 9 , I think. Just short outings because I can't believe how fast I get tired.
September 8, 2012
seriously. i folded a few towels this morning and it wore me out!
September 7, 2012
I am planning on staying put as long as I can stand it. My husband is taking care of everything and I am up in our room. I'm hoping that whatever chaos is happening to my nice clean house will be cleaned up before I ever have yo ho down there!
UPDATED FROM kellma699

TMI-but I would really love to be able to pass gas...

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TMI-but I would really love to be able to pass gas and/or have a bm. Lots of cramps and bloating today! I never thought I would say this but pooping and farting are things I will never take for granted again!

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OMG!! I just went through some seriously intense...

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OMG!! I just went through some seriously intense moments. My husband took my garment off so that he could take off my gauze. As soon as the gauze came off I started dripping with sweat, got dizzy,light headed and nauseous. I had yo sit on the toilet seat for a few minutes and do some deep breathing or else I was going to vomit and pass out. Then we had to get the garment back on! That was an ordeal in and of itself! Now my husband is gone at a job fair for the day. I will be here alone until our son gets home from school at three. Unfortunately the garment feels too tight and feels like it is rubbing on my incision. There is no way I can get this beast off and back on again all by myself. I will have to tough it out. On a brighter note, my stomach looks pretty good and incision seems even and low. I managed a few glimpses inbetween the sweating and deep breathing!

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September 7, 2012
LOL. All my kids are grown and out of the house, but after I cleaned and mopped EVERYTHING I could find before going in, I surrendered to the fact that my husband was not going to do things the way I would and just let it go. I knew better than to walk into the kitchen.
September 7, 2012
I know my husband will do his best but like you said it's not the way I do things. My husband is in the process of retiring from the navy and is on terminal leave right now looking for employment. Anyway, he is basically doing my "job" whiles I am out of commission. Yesterday was his first full day of housewife duties. He actually came upstairs last night and told me he was so tired hecould just fall over. Lol I told him "just think babe, I do all this AND go to work all day long. Oh yeah and I have been doing it alone for months at a time during your deployments for YEARS." If nothing else comes from this at least maybe he will get a true appreciation for how much work I actually do to keep our lives running smoothly. Men truly are the weaker sex, lol. Seriously though, he's doing a great job.
today he is going to a hire america's heroes event for the day and my son will be at school. i will be alone from about 9:30 to 3:15. i think i will be fine. my husband is going to leave a salad in the fridge for me for lunch and he will make me breakfast before he leaves.
September 7, 2012
as far as how i am feeling, this morning i am in very little pain. i went almost 5.5 hours between pain pills last night and even when i did take my dose i wasnt really hurting bad. i just want to keep taking thr pills and try to stay ahead of the pain. the most painful thing at the moment is my back from walking hunced over and being in this reclined position for so long. i might try to sit straight up in the chair for a bit today and see if that helps
the back pain.
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September 7, 2012
Agreed. Men can not magage without us! What kind of work is your husband looking for? What does he do?
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September 8, 2012
Today my husband decided he would mop our floors. 3,000 sq. ft. of hardwood. I've always done it because I'm a picky control freak. You shoulda seen him sweat. He said, Wow! That's a lot of work! I just smiled and said, Don't forget the stairs. ;)
September 8, 2012
Love it!
September 7, 2012
he is looking for anything that will pay him well! seriously he has done lots of security in the navy. so hes applied for law enforcement. he also is qualified to do QA. he's applied for management positions at boeing. we are hoping he will get hired at an aviation company in michigan where my stepfather works. i would love to live close to my mom.
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September 7, 2012
Oh wow. My husband has worked in the aviation field for 25 years. He was with Rockwell Collins for 17 years and is now with Satcom Direct, as satellite communications company. He is currently the Director of Activations and Support. He is always looking for people. Unfortunately, we are in Florida. But get this, my husband is from Michigan. LOL!
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September 7, 2012
GO BLUE!!!!
September 7, 2012
Too funny that your husband is in aviation!