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27yo, Mother of 3, So Scared - Montgomery, AL
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I have wanted a TT for 9 years (since my first...
candace71306April 22, 2015
WORTH IT$6,500
I have wanted a TT for 9 years (since my first child was born) my youngest is 2, that's 3 c-sections, over a 7 year span, and had my tubes tied with the last one. I work really hard to maintain my wt, and feel proud of myself for doing so, but I have this very unhealthy obsession with my bulging tummy. every morning I wake up and rub by belly hoping by some miracle it will just dissappear over night, but nope, always there. My husband tells me everyday how crazy beautiful I am and I know I am so blessed with my family and my health. But I haven't been clothes shopping in over 4 years, and my family lives on the river and have a beach house. Needless to say I don't look forward to the family get togethers, I am scheduled for my TT in 6 days ! I feel like my dream is coming true! Only I can't get over this fear of something happening to me and leaving my family without a mother over this vain, selfish, and expensive want. my PS said I'm a textbook candidate and my risks are minimal, I'm in great health, but I can't get over this fear, any comments, thoughts, input would be helpful please!
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in or out
candace71306April 23, 2015
I think I have changed my mind 500 times today, I have read every risk article I can find about TTs and death rates and DVTs and all, I'm a nurse, looking at my history I know my risks are low, maybe because it's not needed only wanted and I fear the worst I don't know if this is normal or not, I want this so bad, but so scared, and it's not helping that my bf, and mother are both telling me they wouldn't risk it, gerrrr!
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June 9, 2015
U have to make this decision for you and not for anyone else or what they think. I wouldn't even talk to them about it I never told anyone what I was doing except my husband and bc he was taking care of me after surgery I can't tell you how glad I am that I did it. I'd sign up again tomorrow if u needed to. I just had an awesome experience that has changed my life and it was well worth the cost to me
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TT eve
candace71306April 27, 2015
So tomorrow's the day, in so nervous, I keep telling myself I'll be ok, it's so hard though, I am trying to find the excitement I had in the beginning, I'm not a very frightful person and I have no clue why this is getting to me, prayers please!
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April 27, 2015
Good luck. You will be fine. I had mine three years ago. Just happened to go on this site. Haven't been in awhile. Best thing I did for myself.
April 27, 2015
I was the same as you, I canceled my tummy tuck twice and was looking for a reason to cancel for a third time. A couple weeks before my procedure I went to so many appointments got all sorts of tests done to make sure I was completely healthy to go through the procedure. I spent many nights crying myself to sleep asking myself why would I do this to myself and family! I for sure thought I was going to die. And now here I am almost 8 weeks post op almost 100% healed and am so happy with my results. I would do it again in a heart beat. My only regret was all the stress I put myself through before hand. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and see you on the flat side!
April 28, 2015
Thank you so much, that helps! I'm on my way now, still worried, but getting more excited, just doesn't feel real! Will keep posting! :D
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