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Getting started! I can't accomplish much more without surgery

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Getting Started!!!

FreshEvolution9
45 yr old mom of 2 c-section babies. My weight loss journey began in 2013 and now in 2019 I've reached the point where I can't accomplish much more without surgery. I began at 260lbs and naturally loss 105lbs with the exception of 13 weeks of HCG to begin a journey that has completely changed my life. Step one was figuring out what I wanted and then narrowing it down to what was actually possible. What is realistic and necessary for me to externally reflect how I feel on the inside is a breast lift NO implants, Tummy Tuck with muscle repair, liposuction, and a Mini thigh lift. So here are my stats 5'2" , 155 lbs, 28% BMI my goal weight was 145 lbs however after 3 surgery consultations I was told that my weight loss was sufficient for my post surgery goals and that I should focus on maintaining my current weight.

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Stanley Ogu, MD

Stanley Ogu, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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August 19, 2019

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August 22, 2019
Hi! Congratulations on your weight loss! That’s amazing!! So happy to for you! Good luck with surgery!!
August 22, 2019
Good luck! When is your surgery scheduled? Keep us updated! It’s going to be awesome!
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August 23, 2019
Congrats on your weight loss journey! I loss 65 lbs a few years ago and did a BL/BA & SculpSure. When are you scheduled for a MM? Can’t wait to follow your journey! Keep us updated. ❤️
August 24, 2019
My current date is Jan 2020. I am thinking of moving my date up sooner but I need to accumulate more vacation time for my recovery
November 26, 2019
Congrats! Im planning a mommy makeover in early 2020 as well. Is your surgery still in January I'm excited for u and looking forward to following up on how your doing.please keep us posted
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This event in my life is becoming real AF, it's like I've been pregnant anticipating my own birth. I know the moment I decided to change and Why. I can divide this journey up into sections similar to trimesters just much longer. At the moment I conceived the thought of weight loss it was that simple- to no longer be fat. Vanity was not apart of the thought process, my health was poor and I simply wanted to live. Then as I started to see the changes I became intrigued with how I looked. My skin changed... I handed glowed in years . The dark patches on my face and neck began clearing up. Heck who knew I had a neck!!! I gained something I didn't know that I didn't have and that was confidence , I become self aware and self assured that I was strong, and smart and powerful enough to control my habits. That's the biggest gift this journey has provided me. This surgery is surely a luxury and for me it is the ending of a period in time where I abused myself for so long. My deposit will be placed next week!!! I will discuss the financial aspect later to help others plan . There are really good options out there. Peace Love and Joy

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August 25, 2019
congratulations on your upcoming MM....best decision of my life....can't wait to hear about your experience...realself was such a great help to me, following others that were going through the same thing as me...i have made lifetime friends....please keep us all posted....i will tell you this....its totally worth it...no fear girl....<3
January 12, 2020
I'm anticipating the Day when I can schedule.
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Ok it’s officially in the books, my surgery part 1 is January 6, 2020. I will have a breast lift , tummy tuck with lipo of back/bra rolls. 4-5 weeks after the first procedure I will be having a thigh lift. What I appreciate about Dr.Ogu is his attention to safety. Other surgeons agreed to do all 3 procedures knowing that my anesthesia time would be around 9 hours which is very risky. I have scheduled off 10 weeks for my total recovery and I’m thankful that my job could accommodate my request. I’ve been saving vacation time and money. I will also utilize my STD which pays me @ 60%. In the past with child birth x2 and my hysterectomy i always stay off as long as possible. We don’t miss the 40% income we actually seem to save and manage better off a tighter budget. So I told you I would speak briefly about options to pay for surgery. 1st saving over a period of time as much as possible is the best option which I have done but I’m currently 16k short of my $$ goal. Therefore I’ve researched and #1: I have the option of care credit interest free for 24 months. Which is awesome. #2 :I could open a new trade line credit card and use that interest free for 18 months and gain points on the card for travel . #3: borrow against my 401k , penalty free , income tax free and pay myself back over 5 years. No prepayment penalty . ( Downside Is if leave employment all funds must be repaid in 30 days) however I my job and do not plan to leave. #4 utilize my principal balance in my Roth account. Again no penalties or taxes on the principal balance if I needed the portion that was dividends and interest that portion is taxable. However my principal is good enough. Sooooo my plan for now is to keep squirreling away coins and make a decision in November. I will probably do a combination to keep debt low. Payment in full due December 11. Preop December 18

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August 30, 2019
Congrats I'm glad your PS will do staged surgeries. Safety first! Keep us updated!! I'm really happy for you. Take care (*(*hugs*)*)
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March 13, 2020
Thank you for sharing/detailing payment options. I'm considering my options now and you've given me a lot to consider. Xoxox
August 29, 2020
Thanks! What payment option did you use?
August 29, 2020
Ultimately I paid cash, I applied for and received care credit for the second surgery which I opted not
To have due to the blood clot situation.