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Ready for my life to change!

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Ready for my life to change!

melistia1
$13,800
Hi, y’all! Lisa here! I am a 39yo single mother of a now adult daughter in the USAF! My life has changed so much in the last year with divorce, job change and my new empty nest. I hit puberty at a young age and my Breast grew in saggy. I’ve also always been over weight. I decided several years ago to diet and lost over 100 pounds. I am currently 5’7, 155 pounds and a size 6. Don’t seem possible right? I fit that mess in a size 6 pants. I’m scheduled for a TT and lift/reduction on Jan 22nd. To say I’m elated is an understatement. However, also nervous. I know it’s normal. Any useful information would be greatly appreciated. I’ve learned so much since visiting Real Self. I ordered my sports bras today and am gearing up for sleeping preparations. I m still preparing questions for my doctor and love hearing the act care info. I want to be as prepared as possible. Thanks so much:)

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David M. Deisher, MD (retired)

David M. Deisher, MD (retired)

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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January 9, 2019
Hi there! Congrats on your incredible weight loss! This makeover will just be the icing on the cake! For recovery I always suggest that you get lots of extra gauze and a heating pad for your back. Being hunched over takes a toll on your back for sure! Good luck to you and I can’t wait to hear how it all goes :)
January 9, 2019
Thank you so much! I’m elated to have to my first reply on here! I appreciate your tips and insight so much!!! I will definitely load up on gauze and already have a heating pad handy. Thanks a million
January 25, 2019
Ohh wow so we actually had our surgery on the same day I hope you are doing great and into good recovery! Please keep us informed I will alway check back on your page and hoping to see your after photos and how you feel as a new person!
January 26, 2019
Oh wow!! How did yours go? Mine went well. The pain those first 3 days were brutal but I feel much better and am getting around myself now. I am so swollen. I feel like a marshmallow lol.
January 27, 2019
Hehe a marshmallow that’s a good way to put it and I am also swollen, is your belly hard and also soft in some areas? How far are your incisions? As in how far did they cut you
January 27, 2019
By belly is soft everywhere!! I feel some skin on the sides that are really tight but otherwise I’m really puffy. Yours?! I’m also really puffy on the sides. I’m a little nervous about it. My incision goes equally across each hip. They almost reach the back on each side. You? I posted an update today. It should go through Tom. With pics. But I took new ones a bit ago with me standing that show the details better.
January 28, 2019
Do you have someone to help you through the days? Take it easy and I’ve noticed I get tired after standing up for a while I guess my body is saying to sit back down and relax, which I haven’t even sat much I’ve been laying down most my days unless going potty. I’m nervous about seeing the doctor on Tuesday I’m praying for positive things, how have you been eating? I have been very healthy but with a cookie here and there and only drinking water ohh and yes I think my incision goes far as yours does I will take photos of it as well I’m just scared to be out of my garments
January 28, 2019
I do thank goodness. My mom and boyfriend have been lifesavers. How about you? I couldn’t have done it alone. No way!! I also get tired and my stomach starts to tighten, burn and achy. It has been doing that pretty constant. I’m extremely tight. I’m still very hunched as well. It’s weird because I feel great otherwise. I’ve been walking our stairs no problem. Just tired after. I’ve been eating really clean. Other than a really small bowl of ice cream twice. It’s small amounts because I get full really fast. I’m super swollen.. are you?!?! Staying away from sodium as much as possible. I’ve taken my garments off everyday. I get to shower daily though because I have no drains. My garmet was a pain at first and made my belly hurt but now I love it!
January 28, 2019
Omg you have no drains? And good you have them there to help!!!! Yes my husband took two weeks away from work to care for me which he does amazing. We have removed my garments while I shower but then I want them back on quickly because I don’t know it’s like I wan to feel secure hehe silly me and good keep eating clean!! I have had a cookie or mini cupcake here and there but I’ve been Sticking to soup salad eggs and meats did they do muscle repair on your belly? And yes if I move around for too long my belly starts to burn as well
UPDATED FROM melistia1
10 days pre

Pre op apt

melistia1
Yesterday was my pre op apt and it went great. I got a lot of great information regarding the procedure and recovery. My doctor has decided to do a no drain tube procedure and I’m actually pretty happy about it. Wasn’t expecting it but he had only good things to say and my research has provided the same good info. I rented a recliner last night to have for a month during recovery. I have a few things left to get and I’ll be ready. Only 12 day away:) Happy tears today!!

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January 12, 2019
Congrats on your upcoming surgery! You will be so glad you rented that recliner! Surgery is right around the corner! Good luck to you :)
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January 12, 2019
I just realized I already wished you luck the other day lol! I thought your review looked familiar!
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January 12, 2019
Congratulations on deciding to do this for yourself. I’m sure you won’t be disappointed!!!! Not too much longer!!!
January 14, 2019
Thank you so much. The nerves are definitely settting in. But still very excited!!
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5 days pre

One week away!

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Nerves are starting to set in a little. Definitely becoming more real. And all the questions and what if’s are popping up. Assuming this is pretty normal?! I’m not super worried but can’t help but have those pestering thoughts in the back of my mind. Mostly about my daughter already having lost one parent at 15. She’s 18 now and in the Air Force but I am her best friend. I’m not going to drive myself crazy with it. I know this is still what I want and the excitement is as equal as the anxiety! Subject to change the closer it gets. Hehe.

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January 16, 2019
Good luck! Rooting for you!!
January 16, 2019
Thank you!!!
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January 18, 2019
Hopefully the excitement will outwit the anxiety soon!!!!
January 21, 2019
I’m still super excited. But equally as nervous. Fingers crossed all goes well. Thank you for commenting :)
January 19, 2019
I had bad anxiety as well. You will do fine! It will be over before you know it and will be pleased. Good luck hun
January 21, 2019
Thank you So much!!! Love all the positivity!!!
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January 21, 2019
I was literally so scared I went and got extra life insurance just to be safe because I couldn’t bear the what if. I have 3 small kids so I wanted my husband to be covered as much as possible. As I mom I think it would be weird not to worry lol. I’m sure everything will go fabulous for you!
January 21, 2019
Thank you!! Tom is the big day so nerves are really kicking in today. Super sock to my stomach. The worry-is taking over the excitement a little bit at this point. I’m optimistic though that it’s going to go great. Thanks so much!! You look great btw!!! ;)
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January 21, 2019
Thank you :) Ill be watching for a postop update on you! What time do you go in? I had a little bit of a wait before I went in and I felt like it was never going to be time lol.
January 21, 2019
I will definitely be keeping a nice blog. I appreciate those of you who have also kept a great progress. I find them so helpful. I have to be there at 615. Surgery begins at 7a. I’m the first one of the day. Ya know goodness!! Lol.