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Breast Lift with Augmentation - Minneapolis, MN

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I can't believe it, but I am now scheduled for my...

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I can't believe it, but I am now scheduled for my breast lift with augmentation for July 9! I have been thinking about it for the past year, and needed to convince my hubby that this was something I really wanted as he didn't think it was necessary. I knew I couldn't go ahead with it w/o his support, as he is the only person that knows about it. Unfortunately I cannot share this with my family, as I know they wouldn't be supportive. He told me if it was really important to me, to go ahead with it. The only thing is, we won't know if he can take the time off from work to travel to the PS office until just a few days before my surgery, as we will be staying overnight nearby so that I can return the next morning for my post-op checkup. If he cannot go with, I will need to hire a nurse to stay with me that first night. I have been reading everyone's reviews, and they are very helpful to calm my nerves, but I still get periods of panic. It doesn't last for long, as I just go to realself for some inspiration, and i always feel much better! I am wondering if anyone else has stayed the first night w/o a family member or friend, and had to stay with just a nurse or recovery center staff? I want to thank everyone for sharing their stories, as this site has been my inspriation for actually following through with it, and making the decision that I am worth it! I often get feelings of guilt, due to the fact that I will be spending a large amount of $ on myself. But I can see that everyone is so happy that they've done this for themselves. I know I will be too. Any comments, suggestions, or prayers will be greatly appreciated!

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June 22, 2012

I'm so glad RealSelf has been comforting for you. I hope you love love love your results. You might want to check out this article about breast implants in the forum. Keep us posted!

June 23, 2012
great info, thank you for sharing!
June 25, 2012

I'm sure everything will be fine wether you have your hubby or the nurse. I know you would rather have your husband but the nurse will be qualified to answer any medical questions you have and to be there for reassurance. I traveled with my hubby to get my lift and aug done and a lady I met at the dr's office had a nurse stay with her and she loved it. She said she probably drove the nurse crazy with all the questions she asked her but she felt  like she was in good hands. Well, hope that helps and congrats on your decision! Please keep us posted.
June 26, 2012
Thank you for the extra reassurance, FitLuv! I think my excitement is helping me to overcome any fears and nervousness that i'm experiencing. I will definitely keep you posted :)
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11 days pre

Things are starting to fall in place... I mailed...

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Things are starting to fall in place... I mailed my payment check to the PS office last week; this week I had my pre-op physical... Everything went well, which I knew it would, but I was a little nervous something unexpected might pop up and I'd be told I couldn't have surgery or would have to wait. From other reviews I've read, this nervous feeling/ and slight anxiety is a normal part of this process. But I can definitely say that my excitement for the surgery is much stronger than any anxiety I'm experiencing. Just knowing that soon I will be able to wear the kind of tops that I want to wear, and knowing I won't have to be self-conscious about the way I look anymore, keeps me from getting myself too worried about it all. I know it's all gonna be worth it in the end. Just the fact that I will be able to wear cute clothing that doesn't require extra material to hide a large push-up bra with big straps, is so exciting. It's always been so hard to shop, looking at tops or dresses I'd LOVE to wear, but having to put it back on the rack because it would require a strapless bra, which is impossible to wear with saggy breasts! Each day I get closer to my surgery, it seems more difficult to wait! Down to 11 days left.... looks like it's time to start cleaning like crazy and getting all my shopping done beforehand. I need to restock my freezer and pantry with easy to make items... any suggestions out there for what any of you did to prep for easy meals? I'll be back with an update next week, hopefully with some before pics too... until then, I'll be thinking of all of you, sending up prayers for safe surgeries and quick healing!

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June 29, 2012
Hi MinnesotaMom! I'm so glad to hear you scheduled the surgery. I could relate to your whole story, the anxiety, excitement, guilt, $$$, and whole hubby situation. Although it took me about two yrs to convince my husband. When he finally realized he wasn't going to talk me out of it he's been extremely supportive. You will be so glad you did. It's been 8 days since my surgery and I am definitely on the mend. I am going to be honest bc I feel that's why this website is so good to have everyone's experience to read. I must say the swelling has been the worst part for me, it might be normal ( I go for my post op tomorrow) but wasn't expecting so much swelling. Despite the first week being a little rough, I've never regretted my decision. As far as the first day, I too had to spend the night at a hotel bc my PS is out of town, the day of the surgery he had to leave me for about four hrs. He felt horrible about it but I insisted bc the reason had to do with our kids and that it was more important to be with them.....he set me up in the hotel room, all I wanted was Gatorade and crackers. I was fine for the time I was alone but if it was overnight, I would have needed someone for sure. I hope this information helps you and again.....you made the right decision!
June 29, 2012
Jdseattle, did you have anything else done besides the breast lift? or was the swelling from the BL alone? Thank you for the encouragement and I hope all goes well at your post-op!
June 29, 2012
I had lipo on tummy and lower back (spare tire area) along with lipo on sides of breast area with the lift. I always wanted to get rid of my muffin top and i recently lost 23 lbs and got down to my ideal weight so thought it was a good time to get rid of the extra fat that is impossible to excersise away. I also knew I wouldn't go back to do it bc I hate going under general anesthesia so bad so it was now or never with that. I was swollen from that as well but not as much as I have been with the BL. It's getting progressively better. I have been icing the bottom and sides of breasts at least three times a day and that's helping a lot.
June 29, 2012
Congrats on the weight loss... how exciting! i bet you look amazing now! thanks for the icing tip, as i guess i didn't realize there would be extensive swelling for BL. after reading other's posts, i just assumed the swelling came more from TTs, but this is good to know ahead of time, just to know what i'm up against for post surgery. i am so thankful i found this site, as it has been soooo helpful! just knowing what to expect is such a relief :)
July 8, 2012
I've read other posts and it seems the swelling isn't as bad...it might just be how my body reacts to "trauma". The right side is much more swollen but I think it's bc I'm rt handed. I'm so glad you are moving forward with the surgery..you will not regret it. I too started second guessing my descision but a friend pointed out that I've worked so hard to get the weight off and also I have never waivered on wanting the results, it was just normal surgery jitters. You will fell great the first two days....mainly bc the anesthetic hasn't completely gotten out of your system and your body it still in shock....but the third day through around day 8......you feel horrible....make sure you keep up with your pain meds and fiber :). Drink lots of water and DO NOT OVER DO IT! I made that mistake and really wish I was smart enough to listen to the doc.
July 16, 2012
Jdseattle,
you were so right about feeling ok first few days, then.... it hit me like a ton of bricks on day 4! now i'm day 7 and starting to feel better again. :)
July 19, 2012
So glad to hear you are healing well. I'm a month post op and except a little more swelling on the right breat and an infection on the incision (which was explained was normal and was put on antibiotics). I still have a couple of areas of draining which is annoying but necessary and normal. I start work in two weeks and I have to admit...I'm a little nervous...my job is a little physical.
July 23, 2012
yeah, that would make me nervous too; but 2 weeks will still be a lot of time left to heal. Tomorrow marks 2 weeks from my surgery and I can't believe how far I've come since then... so remember to take it slow and easy, and you should be fine. (I think the hardest part now is still taking life a little slower, and trying not to forget my body is still fragile.) Sending good thoughts your say, seattle!
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2 days pre

I'm down to 2 days left until surgery! ...

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I'm down to 2 days left until surgery! Experiencing lots of emotions, from feeling completely calm about it to "I can't believe I"m actually going to go through with this"!!! I'm even starting to get a knot in my stomache... ughh! Guess I'll just have to get back to doing things to keep myself busy, and my mind occupied, after writing this post. Some good news is that my husband is now able to go with me, as we originally weren't sure if he could take the time off from work. So that means not having to hire a nurse to stay with me the first night! That in itself has brought some relief, just knowing he'll be there for me after my surgery. Thankfully I have that to comfort me, as there are many other minor worries that I have right now... mostly stemming from the fact that I'm choosing not to tell anyone except my hubby. Lots of "what if's" are popping in my head, wondering how I'm going to deal with them!... things like: possible complications, will anyone notice, family coming to visit 5 days after my surgery, etc... My husband keeps reminding me that I can't worry about things that haven't happened yet. Anyone else out there experience this before their surgery??

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