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11 days post op-Update

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I'm a 28 y/o mom of two incredible boys (6 &...

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I'm a 28 y/o mom of two incredible boys (6 & 3) and Im really excited to get my pre-mommy body back. I was always very thin w/ a muscular build till i got pg with my oldest son. I went from being 5'4 120lbs to 185 lbs. :( He stretched my tummy so bad that it still hurts when i look at pictures. I was able to get back down to 130 before i got pg with the 2nd, and luckily he was much nicer to mommy. I've been between 135 and 140 for a few years now. Im ok with my weight but its the shape of my stomach and extra skin that drives me crazy. My husband is very supportive of my decision to get the MM but he's also ok with my body now. He really just wants to me to feel confident and happy. When we go to the beach, i wear a one piece or tankini that covers all my belly and im tired of it. I know that the MM is going to change my life, and i cant wait! I will be honest that im extremely nervous of the pain and recovery but i know that it will be totally worth it! I look forward to sharing my journey with you ladies!

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Pat Pazmino, MD, FACS

Pat Pazmino, MD, FACS

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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December 22, 2012

And we look forward to following your journey! Thanks for starting your story on RealSelf.

Here's a great post from JenBob about what she wishes she'd known beforehand. Hope it helps!

UPDATED FROM RJSMom
3 months pre

Here are some preop pics I finally decided to take...

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Here are some preop pics I finally decided to take today. As you can see, it's extra skin flab. No belly boton and little boobies. I wore this bathing suit summer of 2008 on a cruise before I decide to have my second baby. Haven't worn it or any other bikini since.

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January 31, 2013
Looking forward to hearing your journey. I have my first appt Feb 28th. I haven't posted pre pics yet, but I plan on it soon - I hope you post some too. Pictures are so helpful for us to see who is shaped like us to begin with and then see how they end up. thanks for sharing!
January 31, 2013
Must have been taking my pics when you were posting this..lol :)
January 31, 2013
I bet you have amazing results!!
January 31, 2013
You're going to look fantastic!!! Good luck with your journey. April will be here before you know it :)
January 31, 2013
Thank you! I can't wait. I think about it at least a few times a day...lol.
UPDATED FROM RJSMom
1 month pre

Hi Ladies...So the anxiety and nervousness is...

RJSMom
Hi Ladies...So the anxiety and nervousness is starting to kick in. Only 6 more weeks till my big day and I can’t wait!!! I’m super excited but I’m driving myself crazy with all these thoughts of wonder. Will I be prepared? Will I be able to handle the pain? Are the kids and my husband going to survive without me...lol I know the answer to all those questions is “yes”, but I still think about it. Right now, my DH is very busy at work till mid-April which is why I’ve scheduled the surgery the end of April, so I’m the one handling the boys fulltime, plus work and the house choirs so it’s going be a nice break when during recovery but I don’t know how we will a deal with it.
I’m so grateful for having all the wonderful insight of all of you that have felt and are feeling these emotions and how at the end of it all, everyone manages. Don’t know how Id survive without the reassurance reading everyone’s reviews provides me with, so thank you!
Now…some questions for those of you that are post-op:
1. What are you wearing? I want to make sure I have comfy clothes for the TT and Boobies but not look/feel like im in PJs all day.
2. Did you have to get a medical exam before surgery? How much prior to surgery did you get it done and did you go to your regular PCP?
3. What are you eating? Did you change your diet pre-op? What yummy low sodium foods can you suggest?
4. What to tell the kids? My boys are 6 & 3 and very curious. My dog just got fixed last week and my 6yo was so concerned over her surgery. I don’t want him to freak out over mine, but not sure how to explain that I won’t be able to do certain things.
5. Stairs? Can you climb them? I have a two-story house with only a ½ bath down stairs how difficult will it be for me to commute up and down the stairs?
6. Driving…How soon did you start to drive again?
Ok…I think that’s it for now..lol. Thanks so much for all your feedback. And I wish everyone a successful/smooth recovery. ?

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March 15, 2013
I still wear my sport bras even thou I'm 4 1/2. I only wear my wire bras when I go out. After my surgey I liked the way legging felt cuz the are very comfy and look cool :) I didn't have no medical exam. I went to my 1st meeting with my PS and a month later had my MM. I still ate the same after surgery just not as much. The 1st few days after surgery u don't wana eat anything, but ur gona have to eat sumthing. My boys asked me what happened to me right after the surgery and I just told them the doctor had to go in and fix my tummy. They looked at me like "ok" and just went on and said " so ur guts came out and the doctor had to put them back" I just went ahead and said yes lol my boys are into science and zombies. They haven't asked nothing else just every once in a while if I feel better than last month :) I hated the stairs! Try as much as u can to not use them as much. I felt that every step they would pull on my tummy! I started driving about a week 1/2 after my surgery. Be careful with bumps cuz it will hurt. Hope that helps! Much luck to u on ur day :)
March 15, 2013
Thanks so much for all the feedback, you answered all of my questions!:)
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March 15, 2013
Ur welcum! :) if u have any more ? feel free to ask anytime!
March 15, 2013
Thanks, I appreciate it! :)
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March 15, 2013
Hey surgery buddy...just read your post..I finally put up some preop pics aswell..Had my ct scan done yesterday but might now get results till Monday, we know the groin hernia has to be repaired but he was double checking to see if there was an umbilical hernia, lets hope not..if surgery date doesnt get changed to coordinate with the surgeon who will do the hernia repairs at the same time then I will be post op 3 days before your surgery..hope I dont scare you to much:)Ill take lots of pics to post and be as detailed as I can..1 month and 6 days!
March 15, 2013
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that you'll only have to go through one hernia repair! haha...if I haven't gotten scared yet, I don't think your experience will change that :) Im sure it'll go great for you and your going to look amazing. You have a super fit frame so with your new tummy and bbs your going to look fantastic! yay!! I can't wait, I want the time to go by fast to get it over with. I feel super anxious, nervous and excited!
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March 21, 2013
Might just have to look to you for post op updates if mine gets put off.. Such a bummer.. R u getting excited?
March 21, 2013
I'm super excited and oh so nervous. I feel like the time is going by so fast now and that I'm not ready. I have an appt on 4/1 to get my blood work done then I have my preop appt 4/16 and the big day on the 27th. I need to buy a couple of outfits for my preop appt, my Ps has kind of a fashion show...lol. I need to take a bra, swimsuit, tank top and dress I want to be able to wear with my new bod. Should be fun. And I still need to buy all my post op care items. I'm also thinking if I should rent a recliner. There's a local company that rents the electrical recliner just for post op recovery at $75/wk. I gotta decide soon.
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April 1, 2013
RSJ, I wanted to check out your page and I have to say that your breasts are in amazing shape for having 2 children! Your results will be fabulous and I bet your going to be very happy when its all said and done. I don't know much about the questions you asked with the exception of the pre-op appointment. Mine was 2 weeks before surgery and it was very simple and easy. Have you had yours yet?
April 2, 2013
Hi Gypsy. Thanks for the compliment, I was unable to breastfeed my 1st son due to a really bad allergic reaction I had to the morphine I was given for the C-section so I guess that helped my boobies. :) And since I didn't BF the 1st and he did fine on the formula, I decided to do the same with the second. I know that this will all turn out great and I will be pleased of my results. I don't have my pre-op appointment till 4/16(1 wk before) but little by little im starting to feel more prepared. I got my lab work done yesterday and dropped off all my prescriptions to be filled and placed my online order w/ Wal-Mart for my post-op supplies. All I still need to do is decide what im going to do about the recliner and buy a few outfits for my pre-op appointment. My PS likes to have a little fashion show to see what I want to be able to wear afterwards.
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April 2, 2013
That's interesting that your PS wants a display of garments you plan to wear before hand. Mine did not ask for that but he did tell me that my incision will very low, at the top of the pubic bone. I feel very confident it will be positioned well. What post-op supplies did you have to buy? I was not given anything to purchase with the exception of my meds. I did want to tell you that I purchased this wedge system from bed bath and beyond called a back max by contour. I think it will be amazing for my recovery. I would suggest looking at it and deciding if that might be the better investment. I can't wait to find out how your pre-op goes and then how the final surgery goes!
April 3, 2013
Good morning, You only have one more day to go!! Im so excited for you. Enjoy your day today. What time do you go in tomorrow for surgery? My PS gave me a list of supplies to get and there's also a post on here that has a really good list too. Here are the items they suggest. Medications • Prescribed pain medications • Prescribed antibiotics • Prescribed anti-inflammatory medications • Prescribed anti-anxiety medications • Over the counter (OTC) sleep medications or ask your surgeon for a prescription • Prescribed medications the patient normally takes on a day to day or weekly basis Supplements & Vitamins • Arnica Montana • Topical Arnica Montana • Bromelain • Vitamin C, or Vicon C Miscellaneous Medications • Mild stool softeners • Antacids Other Supplies • Medication organizer or pill case (with days of the week and times) • Medication Time Schedule for when to administer medications • Dressings, sponges, gauze, • Triple antibiotic ointments • Antibacterial soap • Digital thermometer • Silicone sheeting or other scar therapies • Wetnaps • Heating pad (or a large tube sock filled with uncooked rice. This can be microwaved and retains heat very well. • Moisturizer • Kleenex Grocery Store • Bags of frozen peas • Plain, low sodium crackers • Bottled water • Frozen dinners • Low sodium soups (no Ramen) • Jello-O • Fresh fruit Department Store, Online Store, or Other • Compression Garments (medical quality only) • Extra pillows (varying in firmness), body pillows, Husband/recliner pillow • Digital camera with memory card • Journal (or use your laptop) • Movie rentals, DVR Recordings or downloads • Books, magazines, audio books, Kindle downloads • Empty plastic coffee tub with lid (for nausea) • Batteries for remote • Pajamas, robe, or oversized, comfortable shirts that button in the front • Slippers or socks (with grip on the soles) • Hand mirror • Small flashlight for late night bathroom trips if you cannot get to the light switch easily. Sometimes pain medications can also cause confusion upon awaking, and you don't want to walk into a wall. • Nightlight, if you want to avoid the above and are able to sleep with a little light, a low level nightlight may be better than having to fumble for, and hold, a flashlight.
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April 5, 2013
I agree with Gypsy! Your boobs are going to be PERFECT. I'm so jealous. !
April 5, 2013
Thanks! Im not really concerned about my boobs, I've never really had a problem with the size as long as I was small all around. I'm only doing my boobs b/c I figured if I was doing the TT, Muscle repair and lipo, might as well go for the boobs and give the hubby something to smile about. :) I want my tummy to be flat and those love handles to be gone!!
April 8, 2013
Hey...I was wondering how its been going with the "back max"? I missed out on the recliner I found on craigslist and I need to find an alternative solution soon. Let me know your thoughts. Thanks.
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April 9, 2013
Well it was wonderful broken down into pieces meaning I used each wedge individually. I still used them together but just not zipped up as it came. I think part of the problem is a I am 5'8 so moving it around to make it more "accustomed" to me with along with some pillows was a life saver for sure! I would highly reccommend it and would use it again if I choose another procedure. Hope this helps!
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April 4, 2013
I just came across your story, I'm having a MM too. Mine is 4/11. I've had a lot of the same questions and concerns as you and RS has been so helpful in answering just about everything. Now I just have 7 more days!! Do you know what size implants you are going with? I think that may have been my single most stressful decision, but once I finally made the final, final decision and they were ordered, I felt great. I look forward to following your journey.
April 4, 2013
Hi...Some day's I worry that I spend too much time on RS but then I think of how crazy I would be going w/out it and the support and information it provides. Im sure you must be super excited and anxious w/ only 7 days to go! I have 21 days and I don't know how to feel. I just want to get it over w/. I try not to think about it but how cant I. Every time I see myself in the mirror I realize that very soon things are going to look much different. Im getting saline through a transaxillary incision and im thinking somewhere along the lines of 320-360. I have my pre-op on 4/16 which is when ill be making the final decision. Im not too much of a planner, im more of a procrastinator but surprisingly, I feel pretty prepared. I have all my meds already and all post-op care items are being delivered by 4/8. The only thing I have left is to go see an electric lift recliner on Saturday I found on craigslist for $125 and I don't like it, look into other sleeping options. Thanks for following my journey, and I look forward to following yours too. Being as active and prepared as you are, I know everything is going to go smooth for you! :)