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48 Year Old Mother of 2 - Miami, FL

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I am so confused as to which doctor to choose, I...

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Dreamscometrue23
$12,000
I am so confused as to which doctor to choose, I think Dr Salzhauer is the one but I'm already freaking out!! I'm hoping to get a TT, BA and tons of Lipo.
Besides being confused about the doctor I am also feeling guilty about spending so much money on myself when there are so many other things my family can spend the money on.

My first consolation was with Dr. Sean Simon and while I really like him I have found more feedback/reviews on Salzhauer. Most of his reviews are amazing and once I reach my goal of 170lbs I will have my first consultation with him. I will continue to research but I hoping to have surgery no later that summer 2015.

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Michael Salzhauer, MD

Michael Salzhauer, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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July 10, 2014
I'm glad you started your story here on RealSelf! You might want to wait until after your consultation until you get too worked up about who you want to do your surgery. :) The appointment could make or break things for you. Here's a list of questions to ask.

Please keep us updated on your decision process!
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July 11, 2014
Thank you! Actually one of Dr Salzhauer's rep sent me this list :) they have been so nice and I haven't even had the consultation yet!
UPDATED FROM Dreamscometrue23
11 months pre

I'm still confused!!!

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Dreamscometrue23
My co-worker and I have been on the SX train for what seems like forever. Honestly I’ve been wanting surgery since I was in my early 20’s, so well over a decade. I knew I wanted to be certain I was done having kids before I really thought about SX but I also knew it would be costly and well I’ve always lived pay check to paycheck. My other huge concern was finding a doctor I trusted to do the surgery. I haven’t met Salzhauer but I have messaged him and he has been super nice and my co-worker is scheduled to have SX with him in September so I’ve gotten tons of feedback from her. I am evening planning on going with her to her pre-op appt. So basically two out of my three concerns are covered but now there is the money issue. This SX is freakin expensive and I have kids and My husband and I need new cars and my oldest is 15 and will want a car next year, plus I really should be saving my pennies to buy a house! All of these money concerns keep making me think I’m just being selfish!!! Ugh!!! In the end I really really REALLY WANT THIS!!!!!
So now I am considering SX in DR. I have seen tons of RS girls travel to DR for SX and they look amazing!!!!!!! Currently Almonte is my favorite DR doctor and I even got a quote from her a couple of weeks ago, basically I would be saving 40% to 50% by traveling to DR. Traveling to DR brings up other complications like being away from the family for 10 to 12 days and leaving my husband with the burden of house and home not to mention traveling while still sore and beat up from surgery will be a b*&%$ and well it’s just plain scary to travel outside the US for SX!!!
Why can’t I just win the lotto!!!!!

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August 8, 2014
I hope you find the right ps for your sx. I will be following your journey Best Wishes.
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August 9, 2014
Thank you so much! I think I'm going with Baez in DR and once I get up enough courage and set a date I will post some so you guys can see the transformation lol.
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August 9, 2014
You will LOVE the DR,i hope. I will stay tuned for your pics. Have a great weekend.
August 13, 2014
I relate to you so much as far as feeling selfish for spending money on surgery when it can go toward so many other things. I know a lot of people go to DR or other overseas locations because of the price difference but the peace of mind in having a local doctor is also something to keep in mind, just my 2 cents :) Best of luck to you in finding the right doctor.
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August 13, 2014
Thank you !! and I agree 100%, at first I was trying to convince my hubby yo let me go to DR but now I think I've convinced myself to stay local!! Now its time to budget!!! lol
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August 28, 2014
Dreamscometrue, reading your posts is very interesting and thoughtful of you thinking about family and using the money on other things besides yourself.
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August 28, 2014
Thank you, maybe one day I wont feel guilty for even just considering spending the family money but ever day is a struggle. I have faith that if its meant to be it will happen for me :)
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August 16, 2014
I will be following your journey... All the Blessings:)
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August 16, 2014
Thank you mama!! And I'll definitely be following yours!!!
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August 28, 2014
Hi Dreamscometrue23, are you on the military diet? If so, what is consisted of?
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August 28, 2014
Hello June50975, yes I just started it Tuesday and so far it’s been great, it’s very easy and not expensive so that helps keep me motivated. Plus I like all the food on it but they do allow some substitution which is great cuz I could do without bananas LOL. Basically it's a three day meal plan that is supposed to accelerate your weight loss and during your four days off you can eat what you'd like as long as you stay between 1200 and 1500 calories. Now when I say eat what you'd like I don’t mean pizza and fried chicken, well I guess you could but you wouldn't be eating very much and they do urge you to stick with lean meats and fruit and veggies. You can have carbs but they recommend not over indulging in those either. I plan on doing it for the next month, hopefully I will lose at least 20 lbs!!!! fingers crossed!!!! Here is the site I've been using to help me along. There are great tips and links at the bottom. http://themilitarydiet.com/military-diet-plan/
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August 28, 2014
Thank you Dreamscometrue23, I'm going to try this one and I believe I can do it. I'm so motivated right now and I'm ready to do anything to get this weight off so I can set a date for my sx. Thank you mama and by the way, I changed my name to Blackanese. I'll stay in touch.
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August 28, 2014
Yes please stay in touch! Losing weight is always such a challenge, I've done it before but putting it back on was the real heart breaker! Keep me posted!! I think I'm going to post my pics today as more motivation, I hope I don't chicken out of posting them!! LOL
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August 28, 2014
Don't be afraid ... I have a good friend like that , we've known each other for 19yrs , she would discuss everything else , even sex with her husband but she will NEVER NEVER EVER TELL YOU HER WEIGHT .... LOL
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August 28, 2014
Plus you can't talk about weight , fat , plus size around her , first thing she would say , are you talking about me but I told her if she feel so bad about then start doing something about it , she has every reason for being fat and it's ok with her
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August 28, 2014
Lol
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August 28, 2014
Girl you have me cracking up ... DWL ... Don't worry Hun u just might get lucky and win ... Ok
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August 28, 2014
I've been playing every Sat and Wed!!!! I better win soon!!! LOL
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August 28, 2014
Yes I'm sure you will when you least expect it ... Lol
UPDATED FROM Dreamscometrue23
9 months pre

The amazing Dr. Salzhauer

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Dreamscometrue23
So my friend and counterpart is having surgery September 23 with Dr. Salz so I took advantage of the situation and went with her to her pre op appoint last week. Dr. Salz was so nice, he probably thought we were crazy but he didn't kick us out, lol! I know that if I were to be blessed enough to be able able to afford him he would give me the boobies and waist I've been wanting for a decade. I will keep positive thoughts!

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September 16, 2014
Cute pic :)
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September 16, 2014
Thank you!
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September 16, 2014
YW! Happy Taco Tuesday!
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September 16, 2014
Omg! I'm actually making tacos tonight!!!!
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September 16, 2014
YW! Happy TUesday!
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September 17, 2014
YAY!!!! It's my Tradition on tuesday's :) along with Sons Of Anarchy Love my Jax lol
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September 17, 2014
Jax just broke my heart with those tears, i love him too!
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September 17, 2014
He is so YUMMY!!!! I found out last year about his British accent. I LOVE him when he is torturing men!!! HAHAHAH! BRUTAL BEAUTIFUL BEAST!
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September 17, 2014
Lol, I've always had a soft spot for bad boys!
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September 17, 2014
I think most Women do. My Ex is a biker like the Black bikers with orange letters they are called the 'Soul Brothers". It's a different life. Now he is like my family,i will alway s be a part of his life. Are you Married?
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September 17, 2014
I am married, almost 18 yrs now but we've been together for 21 yrs!!!! He was a bad boy but he's tame now. I think the kids had a lot to do with that, lol.
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September 17, 2014
HAHAHAHA! I am watchinn sons now Sweet Dreams! :)