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Hooray for new boobs! - Miami, FL

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Stats: 31 yr old, 5' 5.5", 130lbs, small 34b (I...

ali8
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Stats: 31 yr old, 5' 5.5", 130lbs, small 34b (I think). So my boyfriend broke up with me today. I'm not in the best mind set to go through with the surgery because of that but I think it's important to note that my decision to get my boobs done had nothing to do with him. I've always wanted to get my boobs done since I was 25 or around the time Dr. 90210 came out and I watched that religiously. For various reasons including cost and being afraid of the surgery or not liking my results precluded me from ever going through with it. I've finally decided I cannot live my life with what ifs and finally decided to just get it done. This website and everyone's reviews have been extremely helpful and with all I'm going through right now I just needed to become a part of the community and to hopefully have everyone's support since I no longer have that of my boyfriends.
I live in NY but decided to get my surgery done in Miami only because my mother lives there and I figured she would be better at taking care of me post op. I did my research well with this site and in choosing my doc in Miami and I am very confident that Dr. Krau will do a amazing job. I have yet to meet him in person but I've been in contact via email and phone calls with him initially for the email consult and with his staff who have been amazing.
Anyways I've been trying to get my mind off the issue today and was wondering whether anyone had gone through a breakup prior to surgery or even right after if you could share some words of advice or encouragement to get me through this tough time. I know time heals all wounds (relationship and my boobs after I get them done) trying to be funny and look on the bright side there :)!

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July 1, 2015
awe, sweetie, I am so sorry you are going through a tough time with your break-up. There are a couple women here who have experienced what you are going through. Hopefully they'll see this and share with you how they moved on. I do think moving on is important and should start right now. No contact. I'm sorry, but whether you are the heartbreaker or heartbroken, no contact is very important and will help allow you to move on faster. Also, surround yourself with lots of positive energy from friends and other people who care about you. Your friends and the people who care will jhelp keep your mind busy. Being with your mom soon will also help keep your mind busy as will your surgery. Right now you need to try hard to stay focused on YOU. You have surgery that is right around the corner and you don't need any stress whatsoever. Keep reading this website and talking to friends and remind yourself how happy you're going to be when all is done. I have seen some of Dr. Krau's work on this site and he is amazing! There is one member here in particular whose breasts I love, love, love! I'm sure you feel the same about your new breasts! Be well and stay focused on you, and try to eat and drink healthy foods even if you don't feel like it. A break-up can sometimes take away our appetites so be extra careful to eat well before surgery. Congrats on your upcoming surgery, and continue trying to be funny! That's an excellent start! xoxo
July 1, 2015
Thanks so much LynnCC! Heartbroken here, not the heartbreaker. So far there's been no contact though I've broken down at times and wanted to see how he's doing but I haven't and I won't. The no appetite has def taken a toll and I need to make sure I am on top of that. It gets so hard though but that's again for your kind words!
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July 1, 2015
Good for you for not contacting him. In addition to moving on faster, he may wonder why you are not contacting and try to contact you. Ignore him. Don't respond to any of his messages if you are sincere about moving on. It's tough, but you have to eat to keep up your strength and you need the nutrients. Eat something please. Hope you feel better soon. Oh, also, don't listen to sad songs, please don't do this. I know too many people who do this after a break-up. Watch a good comedy on DVD or something. :-)
July 1, 2015
no shade but if your going to get a BA do it for yourself instead of a break-up, once you love yourself you will be ok. person look for other for validations, what if the next boyfriend doesn't like your new breast or his think they are to small. are you going to run out and get them bigger. Get a life and love yourself get some self-esteem and confidences, that way you want have to try and please every men you date.
July 1, 2015
Hi, I am quite similar with you. I am married and not having a good time with my husband. I am not sure what will happen. At the beginning my family said I was doing it for him to keep him in this marriage. Then I have started to think that if I have the surgery now I will look in the mirror at them and start thinking that when I had them done I was going through a divorce.
Anyway I had the surgery few weeks ago and I know I did it for myself. I don't care what others think and I am really happy.
However keep in mind that after surgery you may be depressed. And if you add in the top of it the sadness about your ex it might not have a good time.
So, give yourself a couple of months to forget your ex or make sure you are in a good state of mind.
Make sure after surgery you will care about them and your recovery. Good luck honey... And you know what? Sometimes I am thinking why not? You deserve something nice for yourself after a breakup :) so do what you want to do and do it for yourself.
July 2, 2015
Thanks Isabelle! I'm sorry you had to go through that as well. It's definitely not a good time but I'm happy that you are happy that you still went through with it because it was for you.
July 1, 2015
When you lose weight in your breast when you lose weight. Personally you look amazing. Round, lifted, perfect. Can you get a smaller increase. I think you should consider a guy who loves perfect medium breasts like you already have. ps I don't know you and I have never responded to any stranger before. Good luck whatever you do
July 2, 2015
If anything, it will give your more confidence. Everyone that I know who has gotten them has broken up with their boyfriends afterwards. God knows I did the same and have no regrets getting them. I still say it's one of the best things I did for myself.
UPDATED FROM ali8
7 days pre

Forgot a few things

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I don't know any of my chest measurements yet as my pre op appt is the day before my surgery. Most of my decisions are up in the air and will be based upon the Dr's review of me. I do know I will be going with a silicon implant in my head somewhere around the 350-400cc area. As for incisions I want to go through the areola but I still want to hear from my doc on what he thinks is best and the same goes for whether it's over or under the muscle. Dont really want to contend with the boob greed after surgery but I'm hoping for a full C cup (I'd be ok with a small D too I think).

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July 1, 2015
If you don't want to contend with boob greed, I would definitely go for something closer to 400cc. Looks like you have adequate breast tissue. Anything over 400 may put you in the double Ds. Don't know for sure, but your doctor can advise you best. Also the areola incisions heal so nicely. Keep us updated. Cannot wait to hear the volume, incision site and placement you chose! xoxo
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July 1, 2015
I did my surgery with Dr. Krau 4 months ago..best decision I ever made. I'm 47 5'5" 160..I got 600cc's silicone. I had a loft with areola reduction as well..I couldn't be more pleased with Dr. Krau's work. He a brilliant doctor.
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July 3, 2015
Under the muscle only, ever!! Trust me. Besides that, I just had an implant exchange to go down in size from 450 to 300 and I am so much happier. Forget boob greed, you can always wear a bra to make boobs look bigger but you can NEVER hide giant boobs. Nothing fits right, forget walking outside without a bra, and enjoy your boobs being the first thing that everyone sees about you. Smaller IS better:)
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July 3, 2015
Oh and I was much smaller than you post op and when I had 450cc I was pushing the DD and up size. At 300 cc Im a perfect 34C. Good luck!!
UPDATED FROM ali8
Day of treatment

Today's the big day

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I'm excited, nervous, scared but more excited about the fact that I'm getting my boobs! Something I've always wanted! I'm also kind of sad because my surgery is the last one for the day and I'm going to be starving. I was allowed to have breakfast but nothing to eat and nothing to drink after 7:30am this morning. I took one my antibiotics last night with dinner and one with breakfast and now I'll be taking it easy til around 4 when I'll prob head out. They told me to be there for 5:30 this evening.
As of right now I'll be doing either a 350 or 375cc implant. I tried on the 350cc and I like how they looked on me but because of all this boob greed I think 375cc should cover it (or at least I hope so). I'm not sure about whether my doc is doing high or moderate profile but I should find out today. He knows the look I'm going for and I trust him that he knows what's best.
Also doing inframammary incision because my areola's are so small they wouldn't hide the scarring very well, and doing under the muscle placement.
And now the waiting and the countdown begins.....

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July 9, 2015
Good luck today!
July 9, 2015
Thanks you guys!
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July 9, 2015
Good luck, hun, and keep us posted! xoxo