I Got a NuBootyTude - Miami, FL

We are not DEFINED by the choice we make to upgrade ourselves physically. For those of us that are mothers we have always put the needs and wants of our families before our own. We have gone years of some kind of self neglect and not even intentional. We start saving for something for ourselves and bam kid needs glasses or bam car broke down. Life is funny like that. Then we work and a nice majority of us go to school as well. We do everything we need to do to provide all year for everyone else y can't we enjoy the fruits of our labor and endure in something that not only makes us more confident, feel more sexy, and look damn right HOT in clothes. We AS women are always DEFINED by what wear, how many kids you have, kinda job you have, how many men we have been with....u get my drift. We support everyone else all year round throughout any and everything they want to do. But, the one thing that we really DESiRE to do for ourselves they bash??? Messed up right. Life is a crazy mystery. Some change there minds because of this and my opinion it's fucked up. Why wouldn't they want I support us in something that obviously means so much to us. Some are jealous and secretly envy you to have the courage to actually go through it. If you are doing this for you and only NEVER LET ANyone DETER YOU FROM YOUR GOAL. NO MATTER WHAT THEY THINK. You do have those that are genuinely concerned, but if u did your research throughly then u should be able to calm those a little. They know you are prepared and not just making a quick fire decision. Sorry if it is a little over the place I'm just feeling some type of way. My mama told me I need to c a therapist and in goin through a crisis.(´?_?`) really ma. SMH...lmao but it's cool that's my mama(*???*) TTYL.

Hello my Bootyful sister's:-) Been around just haven't updated. Where do I start?? Hmmmm. I finally have my booski onboard 100%. Yay! He even said he will help me pay for it but I'm good. This is my graduation gift to myself. But, I did tell him his part could go towards my new wardrobe though. I still have aways to go before I have all the money. I picked up more credit hours for school so when I get my SX, I can possibly take off a half of semester if not the whole semester. The down part to everything is that I recently lost my job :-( but I am a firm believer of the man upstairs and he just closed that door for another to open. I am sooooo excited and can't wait. You ladies ease me anxiety so much. Now I have a dilemma. I really really want to stay at the RH, but my Bestie wants to come with me. She not having SX she just wants to go on vacation. She said we can go half on basically everything (except my sx), she will help me and watch the kids. But, I feel like that would be alot. Together we have 5 kids. I don't mind paying the extra 2k for proper care. But her offer helps the pockets too. What do you ladies think. Thanks in advance. Also, for some reason I can't upload pics from my phone so when I can I will post a ith measurements. Be Blessed and Happy Healing

Hey ladies, I'm back already! :-p First off, I must say typos is everybody's new best friends lol .... *looking not lurking *if not of......... Ok so back to what I was bout to say. I have always been a box I. A box. Growing up I was always the bigger chick out my group. I had the big boobs first, the big dimples,and overtime the big gut. They all had the little chest, the flat stomach and big butt with nice hips. Needless, to say I felt very uncomfortable a lot when we went certain places. Don't get me wrongI'm far from sore on the eye, or so I was. So, everybody keeps telling me I'm crazy for wanting to do this. Why are you wasting money? Is it for the boo thang? Are you going through a crisis? (thatmuthaucka4realface) LMAO. Like are y'all serious, no I'm not going through a crisis... I can spending potentially 25k for school to upgrade my knowledge then yea I can spend 9 on upgrading my body as well. And the boo thang, [RS bleep] he a Azzzzzz MAN neway ;-). Really, they can all kiss my ass and go str8 to h8rville with the ass they was born with. Lol.. But 4real, I have always been uncomfortable with my shape. And having a baby at 14 and 16 didn't help neither. All the other women in my family was born with hips and butt and when they was prego it got bigger. Not me, my boobs and belly blew up. My last baby I was 220lbs when I went into labor..yikes.. for my frame and size it felt like a ton. It took a while to get that off but now it seems like stress put it back on. I have been trying to upload a couple pics of the flat back Cadillac(thatsoneofthenamesformyflatty) but they won't attach. I have a couple wish pics but I don't expect to turn out like them. I know what I like and what I want. I don't want a big ol pole gets lost n between the checks bootys. That always look uncomfortable anyway. I want a overall shape. Flat somach, hips, no shelf, that sexy S shape. I wanna be comfy enough to surprise boo thang with a lil private dance ;-p. I plan on working on my arms and legs beforehand. I can't stand seeing girls with big necks big boobs, big arms, super tiny waist, huge knock yo mama out butt and skinny ass rooster legs lmao. We be looking like damn she got the wrong legs on. I wanna be nice and Proportionate. I wanna walk in the room and he be like dam that's my bae. Not yea that's my girl/bm. We are suppose to be getting married but I don't feel like we could get married until I'm comfortable in my own skin. On my wedding day I wanna be astonishing. That's the word. I have to save as much as I can little by little so I won't be able to get my sx until 2016. I am a firm believer in the man upstairs and he always makes a way. I'm trying to plan my wedding for late 2017 early 2018. I wanna make sure "she" is all the way healed. Is there any suggestions as far as things i can start doin to tighten things up? How do I upload pics. TTYL! as always stay blessed:-)