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Hubby Not Supportive:( What to Do? Help N E 1!!!! - Miami, FL

Name: Hubby Not Supportive:( What to Do? Help N E 1!!!! - Miami, FL
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Author: Spring Hill4646

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I have been with my husband for 5 yrs and I have...

Spring Hill4646June 26, 2014

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I have been with my husband for 5 yrs and I have always wanted a bigger butt. I am 28 years old (will be 29 in Dec.) with 2 amazing boys (2,4) and I have been doing my research on bbl's for over 5 yrs now. I have always mentioned to my husband that I want to get a bbl and also my boobs done. Before I had kids my breast were a natural perky D cup and I had a nice booty, but now after having kids my body has def. changed:( I have deflated breast bc I breast fed and no booty. I am the skinny fat girl. I go to the gym and have done every workout and can not seem to get the butt I want. Don't get me wrong, I have noticed that it has shaped it, but nothing to big about either. My husbands biggest concern is me dying during a surgery. I have said that if I am healthy enough, my chances are so low, that I'm not worried about; I am going to well trained, Harvard graduate doctors and that I am going to be ok.. Blah, blah, blah.... And he has agreed to me having a BA, but not the bbl:( And now after I received my quote for Dr. Hoschsteine for my BA he has told me that he would like another kid! I am a stay at home mother of two boys, who fight all day long, I am not wanting to have ANYMORE children EVER AGAIN!! Don't get me wrong, I love my boys, but my nerves are over worked by the end of that day.. I told him this, and he knows how I feel about another child, but wants another. I have brought up what time next year I can schedule this procedure and he just says, "your serious." Or "babe, it's so long from now we can disguss it another time." .... So, I have been saving money to put down on this BA, but I also received a quote from Dr. Fisher for a bbl and they need $1000 to put down to secure the price NOT the date which I am cool with. BUT my hubby is against this procedure for sure. It's not like I am going to get a black china booty or anything, I 1st off don't have enough fat and 2 am too small for that. I just mostly want a better shape and a perkier booty. I know the recovery time is pretty bad, so ladies can you tell me what I should do first BA or BBL and have you taken care of your children while in recovery? If so, how did that go? Did you have any help? Bc I have NO family or friends to help me... Should I wait till my boys r in school? And has anyone been with someone who doesn't support their decision and they did it anyways? How did that effect your relationship? Thank you for everything ladies. I really need some perspective on this surgery situation.

Replies (5)

suesamms

June 26, 2014

Hey hun im having the same problem with my fiance...and I also have a 18mth old but I'm still doing it in august..I'm just praying and putting everything in God's hands

sandycolston1

June 27, 2014

I got the bbl 3 months ago and from my experience i think you are really going to need your husbands help with your kids and yourself for at least the first week,the second week is a little better but dont forget you will still be sore plus the medication is going to make you sleep majority of your day away,if u cant find anyone to help you with the little ones i suggest you wait until your hubby has a two week vacation

The Pretty Machine

June 27, 2014

Hi there. I am in a similar situation. I want to get a BBL and my boyfriend thinks I'm crazy. He even said what if I come out deformed and have one cheek hanging all low, he will leave me. Scumbag, right. Anyway, I wanted to tell him, so when I look all sexy, I can leave you??? Anyway, I'm doing more and more research and am working up the nerve to get my 1st consultation. I need to work my boyfriend on the idea more because I will be needing his help for the first few days at least. Since you have kids, I would suggest that you wait until they're back in school, if you're not too eager to get it done... and like someone else's comment, maybe your husband can take some time off - at least 2 or 3 days. Since he is against the idea... you should talk to him more about it... and show him before and after pictures. That seemed to kind of help my boyfriend a little. Tell him that you want to feel sexy because you're not happy in your own skin right now and that it will improve your relationship in the bedroom (not saying you need any help, but hey, I heard it's true). Anyway, good luck to you! I hope you love your results! :) Oh yes, and as another commenter said, pray on it girl!

RANTMYLYFE

June 30, 2014

Oh boy...if it's going to make u happy he should be happy

Naye10

September 27, 2014

I highly recommend you to go for a consultation for the BA with Dr John Chois. He is amazing, his results, his bed manner, his caring personality. You will love him and his prices are very good, bcause he dies not work for money, he has a lot already. I am pretty sure after your husband talk to him he will feel very good about it. He is in Conroy Windermere. He fixed my breast and the experience was wonderful, from the staff, to the anesthesiology , to the preop...

Tygalily

November 15, 2014

Sounds to me like hubby would rather have more kids to avoid you have surgery, he trying to ditract you. Obviously don't fall for it. Two kids are plenty, you paid your dues trashing your body for your kids, now its your turn to work on yourself . Do whatever blows hair back darlin, this is your life, your body your choice. Happy wife, happy life ;)