Hubby Not Supportive:( What to Do? Help N E 1!!!! - Miami, FL

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I have been with my husband for 5 yrs and I have...

I have been with my husband for 5 yrs and I have always wanted a bigger butt. I am 28 years old (will be 29 in Dec.) with 2 amazing boys (2,4) and I have been doing my research on bbl's for over 5 yrs now. I have always mentioned to my husband that I want to get a bbl and also my boobs done. Before I had kids my breast were a natural perky D cup and I had a nice booty, but now after having kids my body has def. changed:( I have deflated breast bc I breast fed and no booty. I am the skinny fat girl. I go to the gym and have done every workout and can not seem to get the butt I want. Don't get me wrong, I have noticed that it has shaped it, but nothing to big about either. My husbands biggest concern is me dying during a surgery. I have said that if I am healthy enough, my chances are so low, that I'm not worried about; I am going to well trained, Harvard graduate doctors and that I am going to be ok.. Blah, blah, blah.... And he has agreed to me having a BA, but not the bbl:( And now after I received my quote for Dr. Hoschsteine for my BA he has told me that he would like another kid! I am a stay at home mother of two boys, who fight all day long, I am not wanting to have ANYMORE children EVER AGAIN!! Don't get me wrong, I love my boys, but my nerves are over worked by the end of that day.. I told him this, and he knows how I feel about another child, but wants another. I have brought up what time next year I can schedule this procedure and he just says, "your serious." Or "babe, it's so long from now we can disguss it another time." .... So, I have been saving money to put down on this BA, but I also received a quote from Dr. Fisher for a bbl and they need $1000 to put down to secure the price NOT the date which I am cool with. BUT my hubby is against this procedure for sure. It's not like I am going to get a black china booty or anything, I 1st off don't have enough fat and 2 am too small for that. I just mostly want a better shape and a perkier booty. I know the recovery time is pretty bad, so ladies can you tell me what I should do first BA or BBL and have you taken care of your children while in recovery? If so, how did that go? Did you have any help? Bc I have NO family or friends to help me... Should I wait till my boys r in school? And has anyone been with someone who doesn't support their decision and they did it anyways? How did that effect your relationship? Thank you for everything ladies. I really need some perspective on this surgery situation.
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