Dr. and I think surgery would be best set for next year, Still having problems

Hi ladies, I know it's been some time from my last post. My children and I are doing a lot better now, I am in school making them grades :)

I have decided that I am ready to relocate next year, and guess to where... Miami or really close by. I want to work in a company that is larger than the one I work for now, I need to settle in some where I can build a 40lK, and have the chance of advancing in my career choice. I was told by two people in the company that there is no place for me there, that I will only have a fancy degree and will still be in the office that I'm in now not making much more than I do now. I have been with them 2 years now, and they promoted me within my first 8 months when I started out in the sales department to administration. I have been in the admin department now for 16 months, and they seem to promote people with out an education, and non blacks. I was called out on last Friday by the owner of the company because I took my lap top to work and I study and or reads while on my breaks I have three a day, I was told that do I think he is a stepping mat, I was lost on where this was coming from. I let him know that I study and read on my breaks, he then said so I see you are going to use me to gain your skills then move to a bigger better company. I think they have it out for me now.. So I hope I will continue to work there until Feb of next year so that I can find a job, and place in the MIA.

I have seen lots of you ladies results by dr. P and you all look great :) I have not given up on my journey to a better body, but first thing is first. I have kept in touch with dr. P as well, and he as we all know is a great man. He has given advice on staying healthy, and on the things that has happened health wise with my youngest son because of the mold exposer. My son now uses an inhaler to help his lungs, he all of sudden woke up a few weeks ago in the middle of the night crying said his heart hurt, and coughed a lot, it stopped took him to school the next day and had to leave work, he was not doing to good, took him to the children's hospital, and they said his upper muscles were inflamed, and that he was having a asthma attack but not the normal kind, he was having this because he was exposed to something he was breathing in for a long time. They don't know if this is going to be a life long thing or not only time will tell.

I am trying to stay positive and thankful that it isn't a lot worse. I can not sue because I was told it is so hard to prove that the mold caused all of us to get sick, and the recent thing with my son. Their will be to many test to do, and it cost money to do them and to sue. I did contact the complex and let them know, and told them that I will not pay them anything for breaking my lease due to the mold, and our health. They asked me what will make me happy, and that they will need to contact the district manager. Say the least I am ready to just live..so I think Miami will be what we need to just change up the pace and live a little.

Congrats to all you ladies who have reached your goals, and happy safe healing to you all.

Well I am still showing signs of the upper resp infection, spoke with Dr. P. I, and he thinks it's best if I wait till next year to do the surgery. But I so want to have it done this year, expressed all my concerns, and what if's, and I decided that I will give myself a few more months to really be sure I do not have a bad infection. So new date will be in July of this year. sigh I wanted to have it done by my birthday this April but things happen for a reason right. On the positive side my children are fine :) and we have been living in our new condo :) they love it I do as well. So we have been breathing clean air for a month now, and everyone feels a lot better. I the mean time I signed back up for school to complete a B.A. in Business Administration, classes start This May.

Dr. Perry called me this afternoon, I explained everything to him, and I must say I was shocked to hear what he had to say. In his exact words, he said to me in a tone that was that when a man speaks you better listen tone. You need to get your children and move the Hell out of that place right now! He did not stop their he asked what was the medication and dosage I was put on, what do I feel how long has this been going on, what type of infection did they tell me, I told him I was only told and upper infection. Yeah so not good enough say dr. P I need to find out what type it is. He said if I had of walked into an emergency room and he was the dr. he would have admitted me and did a culture knowing that I have been breathing in mold for so long now. He let me know to go to the ER and have them do a culture on the mucus that will not go away. He also let me know if my infection is due to this mold they have me taking the wrong meds. That it will not treat it, that if it shows it is the mold I will be taking meds for almost a good 6 weeks that it is hard to rid this out your body it takes time. He said that he will not do surgery if this is the case, but not to worry because we can always do the surgery two months down the road. But right now I need to get well, and stay well. Yes my children have infections too. I was told to move in with fam or get a hotel for a while until I can find a new place, not to stay here until I find one. He was kinda scolding me on the phone, then told me he didn't want to scare me, but he has to because this is nothing to drag my feet on. Glad he was honest, and kinda stepped in to tell me what to do because the doctor I saw didn't do a culture, and didn't go into detail of what type of infection it is. God works in many ways