30 Years Old, 2 Kids. 5,7/102 Kg. BBL

That moment u paid ur deposit with DR doctor, secure your date and then came across some cali surgeons and don't know what to do. One of the surgeons that I now am considering in cali, sent me a follow request on instagram awhile back and I was like..I'm not going columbia....look at me now lol. I really don't want to lose my deposit but from looking at cali surgeons etc, they same to be more modern with technology. And i like the fact that the owner of a RH that i recently start following on instagram, is constantly in contact with the 2 surgeons that I'm considering going too. She has some videos of them during the operation. She has q&s with them. I notice that one of the surgeon answers alot of his followers question. They seem to genuinly care even after sugery. according to the comments their bedside manners is wayy better than DR. Their operation is 5hrs and DR is 3 hrs..hmmm. I love DR results but it aint like i want the vixen body.. I think i might consider Cali. From the island I'm from, alot goes to Columbia but all I was seeing on here and insta was DR.

Hey realself dolls,
Do y'all feel selfish for having this procedure done cause of kids?? I want this and I am going for it. I just wanna feel good about my body. Sometimes I think maybe I'm spending to much money on myself at once, cause of my kids pffff. How do y'all deal with these kinda thoughts?

Hey dolls,
I'm kinda struggling to make a decision in having a TT, lipo and BBL or just lipo/bbl. I'm so scared that I wont be able to handle the pain. Can the dolls that already had surgery enlighten me about the after pain. How will you be able to sleep/lay comfortably?
I told my surgeon I wanted to leave the tt for a next time, she said with a tt the results will be much better. I truly and honestly just want a big butt and a somewhat flat stomach. I think a tt is unnecessary right now. I do understand where my surgeon is coming from but man I'm thinking on the pain. Is it possible to tell ur surgeon the amount of skin they should take from your tummy?