30 Years Old, 2 Children Later...I Want my Dream Body Dammit! Miami, FL

Hey Dolls! I've been lurking on this cite for about 1-2 years now. And I have always talked so much smack about how I want to loose some weight, tone up and get the body of my dreams. Fast forward to now and I haven't lost anything except for 10 lbs (insert a sarcastic "yea me"). Any who, I am determined this year that I will just say F%#$ it and pay for the darn body that I want. I'm 30 years old and have 2 sweet children. My son is 10 and my baby girl is 2. I have kinda a boyish shape and I want to feel confident about my body. I want to be able to finally wear a 2 piece and not be ashamed of myself. I want to look good. I want to be naked in front of the mirror and love what I see, not be depressed and grabbing fat areas and wishing things were different.

I toggle between results that Dr. Fisher and Dr. Hasan post. Hasan definitely kills those hourglass shaped though. He is all the way delivering consistent results. So I contacted Vanity through RealSelf about a week ago and received a response from a coordinator named Jessi. I was apprehensive on sending her photos of my body because the email she sent me was so informal. She said her name and that she was contacting me for cosmetic surgery, she gave me a questionnaire to fill out and that was it. There was no company header in the email, no phone number she just told me to reply to the email. Because I know horrible things happen via email and the internet I replied asking her the name of the company she worked for and what doctor I contacted her about. She answered correctly, better safe than sorry. I sent her 3 nude pics. I am currently 5'7" closer to 5'8" and I', 230 lbs. I have a serious lower pudge from being over weight and loose stomach muscles from my c-section from my daughter. I knew I would need a tummy tuck after my BBL. I wanted to loose about 50lbs or so ...to get to the 180 lbs range and then do the surgery. To my surprise Jessi said that Dr. Fisher doesn't want me to loose any weight. He claims (from the photos) that I do not have a lot of fat in my back and he needs my "gut" to perform this surgery. I asked for Dr. Hasan's opinion and shall see what he says.

I do have a bit of butt and I don't want something that looks like I have 2 basketballs on my back either. I feel thick and big, I wear a size 14/16 personally I would like to get down to a size 10/12. I think I have a wide back and I want to get smaller. Regardless of what Fisher says...but I don't know.

For the vets...I see a lot of pics that look like you shrink all over, is the "weight loss significant" for me to trust his suggestion? And I was also told that Dr. Hasan prices are now the same as Dr. Fisher...I thought Hasan was always cheaper...did I miss something?

So I was in the car with my dad this morning having a conversation about the surgery with him to get his opinion. I'm grown and I still highly value my parents take on things especially for serious matters. He supports me getting the surgery but I started massively complaining about Vanity. To me the informality of everything with them is a big turn off. I also contacted Dr. Salama and Cynitha sent me an email that explained damn near everything and ....guess what it clearly stated who she was, where she was from and it had a footer with the organizations contact information, truly professional.

So I told my dad I sent Vanity two different requests, one from my personal email and one from my work email. Jessi responded to my personal account and told me she was representing Cosmetics Miami. I had to email her back to really find out she was from Vanity on behalf of Dr. Fisher. The second woman that responded was Yani from Broward Cosmetic Surgery. Towards the tail end of her email she then states "thanks for choosing Vanity". How many organizations are represented by these "sales women"? While on the phone with Jessi, whom was nice..was also trying to fast talk me and push for asap date...which I nicely shut down...and she also called me Ms. Reed...which isn't my name. I still love Hasan and Fishers results but is it really worth the headache I can foresee myself having with these people?...probably not. I also contacted Dr. Wendell Perry and I found a low key plastic surgeon also in Miami that isn't as popular on RealSelf named Stephanie Stover and she's only charging $3950 for her BBL's. Stover's BBL pic is attached. I like how her booties look natural and not like balloons or basketballs. This women looks like she was born with this waist and hip ratio. I love it