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32HH 43yo with No Kids - Bring on D Day! - Melbourne, AU

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Well girls, I'm calling time ... The Girls Gotta...

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GirlsGottaGo
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Well girls, I'm calling time ... The Girls Gotta Go!
I've read your stories and experiences with much interest over the past 18 months and now it's time to tell mine so others may benefit.
My "fun bags" are not fun, never really have been if we're honest about it.
They are heavy and painful, and the relief I feel taking off my bra at the end of the day can not be measured. It is instant and immediate, though the shoulder intents remain like a war scar.
I am a 32HH and have been buying expensive bras from the UK for too many years.
It's taken me a long time to get to this point - for many years I simply accepted my lot in life, largely because I have become very good at "dressing down" or "hiding" my big boobs.
I am broad shouldered and tall at 5'11" and know exactly what styles will suit me and make my boobs look smaller before I even try items on.
Like others, I'm one to two sizes bigger on top - usually size 16 on top and 12-14 bottom.
As one surgeon told me, I'm among the 10% of women who's breasts do not change with losing weight.
While I considered a reduction in my late 20s, I thought I'd wait until I'd had children but I'm now 43 with no kids and it seems like now or never. What am I waiting for?
The neck, shoulder and back pain is so constant and "normal" that I'm desensitised to it. Worse, I have in recent years developed chronic lower back pain, which I truly believe is in part due to my poor posture.
I consulted two surgeons in Melbourne before booking in with Dr Howard Webster - and now happy to say the big day is coming up on November 22.
Let's call it D day as I'm planning that will be my new cup size!
Perhaps as big busted women we get used to them, but my jaw-dropping moment came when the doc told me how much he thinks he will remove ... About 1kg from EACH side.
He says I'm an ideal candidate who will get instant life-changing relief from this op.
Sure, being able to fit into more clothing, cheaper bras and being free to exercise without my "one boob" sports bra is appealing - but the chance my pain will disappear even slightly is what excites me the most.
I'm scared about the actual operation, having gotten through life without EVER going to hospital. But this needs to be done.
Bring on D day!

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Howard Webster, MBBS (Hons), FRACS

Howard Webster, MBBS (Hons), FRACS

Specialist Plastic Surgeon

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September 17, 2016
Im13 days post surgery. I went from 34HH to approx 34D, 2 kilos removed, 4 bags of sugar!! No wonder I had indented shoulders and a bad back. First week I felt like I'd been hit by a bus didn't help that I got an infection in my trachea prob from oxygen tubes. My bruises are fading and starting to feel more comfortable. I had a fab surgeon who used glue so seem to have healed very well. What makes me laugh is people's reactions. They don't know what to say and they're trying not to look at your breasts. I never realised what a taboo subject boobs can be as we'd always been very open about things in my household. I had lots of reasons for this reduction as needed a benign tumour removed. Having a family history of breast cancer having large boobs was a constant reminder of the risk. It lowers the risk the more breast tissue you have removed. I'm really pleased with everything so far. I think it has helped me psychologically and physically.
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September 17, 2016
Wow so you are similar to my size and amount removed... I still can't believe I'll lose 2kg overnight and I also think about is bags of sugar which are bloody heavy. I'm wondering how much can you do in the first week post surgery? Is it a matter of planning to do nothing but rest? Can you lift your arms or need to stay reasonably still? I'm trying to work out when I'll be able to walk my dog after surgery.
September 18, 2016
I am not able to walk my dog in case he pulls to hard on the leash, but I am taking 4 weeks off, surgeon and others said at least 2 weeks off, I find it hard to remember not to lift and pull and push (windows open and close etc and water jug etc)!!!
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September 18, 2016
Yes you can lift your arms but you shouldn't, which is difficult as you forget. My body tells me to rest. I went to a few shops in my local town on Friday (11days) and got a bit shaky then needed to rest up all Saturday. I find I can carry a bag with bread and small milk in but when I go to put it up on the kitchen side that's when it hurts. Defo do absolutely nothing for the first week. I'm a single mum so I arranged for my children to stay with their Dad for the week. I also have fab friends that took it in turns to bring me hot meals (quite enjoyed that!). I have one more week off which totals to 3 then I plan to go back to work. I manage a centre for people with disabilities so I'm going back on light duties for 3 weeks. I suppose it depends on the dog if it's likely to pull and is bigger than a terrier prob not a good idea for a while. Walking is a good thing, I walked my daughter to and from school after a week which is about 15 minutes this saved me having to keep surgical socks on! It's all well worth it but just takes time.
September 17, 2016
I am so happy with mine, finally! It took me years to do it and I wish I had done this sooner! Just had the surgery this week and tubes out yesterday! All the best!
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September 17, 2016
Thanks bkmanary... Everyone keeps saying you'll wish you did it years ago and I'm sure I will. But as surgeon told me you are in your prime years now so much time to enjoy the new me!! How did your surgery go? Happy?
September 18, 2016
Very happy, was a 38 K cup! Not sure what I am now, likely a C cup, but it is amazing. Surgery went well, just had a few issues coming out of the general anaesthetic meaning it just took longer. When home later the same day.
I also paid extra for the lipo under arm area and I am happy with that, it seems the lipo is more tender than the actual breasts! very tender but I can't say painful. Just had my surgery on Sept 13 and the tubes out on Sept 16 with a dressing change by the nurse at the surgeon's office! Only really needed pain relief the first two days.
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September 28, 2016
Really happy for you I had mine in March Dr Kalus in Windsor at the Avenues removed 5 kilos. It will be tough BUT it's sooooooo worth it. Xx
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September 29, 2016
Thank you and glad to find another Melburnian on here! 5kg wow I thought my 2kg sounds a lot... Can I ask what size you were and what size you are now? And how long after surgery until you started to feel your day to day life was back to normal?
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September 29, 2016
I went from a JJ to a D. Um to tell u the truth it took a while I would say 2.5 months but I did have haematomas and I am anaemic but that is when I felt 100%. I recommend 3 weeks off work. The best thing is to have someone around to make sure you rest. I have a list of products I bought to prepare in my page I would go to chemist warehouse and use a membership card you will have a lot of discounts. Also take it easy I was stubborn and bored so I tried doing things around the house and paid for it. But believe me one day you will wake up and not feel pain. And look in the mirror and not see bandages and you will love shopping for itty bitty bras and sleeve less tops because now u can go bra less any day.
UPDATED FROM GirlsGottaGo
Day of treatment

D Cup Day!

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Well D Cup Day is tomorrow!
I'm not overly nervous about it yet, more at the point of let's get this done so I can begin the healing and pain free new life.
I've been travelling in Europe for the past month and my young dog got very sick and died while I was on holiday ... two very different things but both have kept my mind off the operation.
Am sure the nerves will kick in once at the hospital getting prepped, but at this stage I still have jet lag so quite keen for that deep sleep they promise.
Any tips for first few days at home much appreciated.

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November 21, 2016
I'm so excited for you, soon you will truly realize how much strain your breasts have placed on your back and neck and you will be glad you had the surgery. I mean, I know you are aware, but when you feel the relief, despite the discomfort of surgery you will know it was the correct thing to do. Here are my tips... load the house with groceries. Keep receipts for bras or products you may end op returning or exchanging. Have non stick gauze and antibacterial ointment on hand. Ice packs are awesome if you PS says you can use them. Hydrate a lot. You may be able to use over the counter pain meds after the first day, ask you doctor which ones. If you don't have someone staying with you the first week, move things to waist level. (Toothbrush, coffee mug,plates.) wishing you a smooth procedure and fast healing!
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November 21, 2016
Thank you for the tips! I have my mum with me to help for first week and have stocked up on food so ready to go :)
November 21, 2016
Congratulations I hope it goes well. I was in your shoes last Monday... Not with a breast reduction but as in being operated on by Howard Webster for a brow lift in my case. I can tell you his after care so far has been amazing... He's not only talented but a genuinely caring man.
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November 22, 2016
Thank you, all done now it was over in a flash! And I absolutely agree, Howard is so lovely and caring. Hope you're recovering well.
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1 day post

Woo hoo it's done!

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Woo hoo it's all done! Little bit of pain but mostly I'm tired and uncomfortable. My surgeon is happy and gave me a quick peek - they look good from looking down.
People won't recognise me!! He took 1.2kg off right and 1.1kg off left ???? Aiming for a small D!! (I was a HH)
He said my boobs were mostly heavy dense tissue not fat which is why they never changed with weight loss.
I wasn't really nervous either, just kept busy with preparing everything beforehand.
Glad it's now done and I can start healing!!

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November 25, 2016
Looking forward to seeing your result. I had a BR 40 years ago and have never looked back, absolutely best thing I ever did
November 26, 2016
Brilliant. I'm sure the relief will be wonderful. X
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November 30, 2016
Well if your breast were mostly heavy dense tissue, could that be linked to any health issues?
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November 30, 2016
Yes, my understanding is that your breast density is linked to increased breast cancer risk. Luckily all my other risk factors are low and I had a clear mammogram before surgery so not linked to any health issues for me. My breast tissue was also tested post surgery as standard procedure and I'm all clear.