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Almost 7 months po- Breast Lift Plus Full Tummy Tuck. - Los Angeles, CA
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Hi girls. Changing my rating to worth it. It's...
WORTH IT$18,000
Hi girls. Changing my rating to worth it. It's been a long haul. Don't love my boobs but they are definitely better than before. After the swelling has gone down they hang down just as before. But my nipple is in a better place. My skin just sucks and I have a lot of stretch marks so I don't think there is anything that could have been done about that. My tummy looks good. Not sure if I still have swelling or not. I've always had a pooch (even before kids) so that could just be a permanent thing. My scar is disappearing nicely. I only use Vaseline on it, and even that is sporadic. I do have a couple of tiny dog ears and there is one small spot on my bb that I may go on to have him just slightly correct. We'll see. I'll try to update more thoroughly soon. Thank you for all of your kind words to help me get through my rough period. I didn't respond but I was reading them and they definitely made me feel some degree of comfort. xoxo
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I am changing my review to not worth it today....
I am changing my review to not worth it today. This has been really hard for me and I do not think I was emotionally ready to have the surgery and the resulting scars and issues. I was expecting perfection, even though logically I knew that was not possible. My stomach skin is not taut like it was at first. It used to be very saggy below my belly button and now it is saggy everywhere but there. I have a lot of looseness when I am sitting or bending over. My breasts are not as high as I was hoping they would be, although I do love that my nipples are perky. My husband is upset with me because even though we spent $18k on the surgery I still have low self-esteem and am extremely insecure. It doesn't help that he was thinking my boobs would be round like they get with an implant, even though I told him and showed him pictures of just a lift. I guess he just figured I had enough breast tissue to make it happen anyway. But as a result I feel like he is disappointed, even though he says I look better now than before. See? I have issues. It makes me feel physically sick to think that we spent so much money on this and yet I am so unhappy. I don't honestly know if there was anything else the doctor could have done or if this is just the way my body healed. I haven't taken pictures in awhile. Honestly I just feel too depressed to post anyway.
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G
October 4, 2012
Sorry to hear the results are not what you want or expected. This is a procedure we cannot change, scars are permenant and ever the reminder. I wish I had words of advice, but all I can do is give you words of encouragement. I think you look great, but I cant change or ease your mind. I do hope it gets better and you see things a different way. It was a difficult decision and you were brave and you should be proud of what you HAVE done not what you havent become. ((Hugs))
M
October 4, 2012
Sorry to hear your latest post. I wish I had your post-op belly button and I also think your scar looks great - it's straight and low. I understand how you feel about the money. It's so much so we expect perfection for that price. Your scars will lighten in color and soften but I've heard it can take up to a year. We all have bad days and doubts and regrets. I hope those days lessen for you and that you'll find the peace and happiness you're searching for. You really do look fantastic to me! :)
5
October 4, 2012
Hey lady. I'm sorry you are not happy with your great results. You have a seriously bangin body, curves in all the right places, beautiful skin, proportions are gorgeous, plus more. I totally 100% understand how it feels to struggle with body image and overall self image. It sucks! I'm doing my MM to literally remove those distractions from my life. Luckily I figured out the self image thing awhile ago so I don't have much to work out there. When I do start getting down on myself I try to look at my family, friends, and look around and count my blessings. It really helps. In the grand scheme of life, all the external stuff doesn't last or matter in the end. Who we become through our experiences and what we give to others is what matters. Please don't think some random freak is lecturing you, I read your update and felt concerned, you sound so unhappy. Life is good. No one looks perfect, but I hafta say, you look pretty dang close! I hope you find what you're looking for!
K
October 4, 2012
Hi 1of5 -Even tho I'm an addict on this place, today was the first time I read your posts. I thoroughly enjoyed reading your journey and frustrations as your thorts were soo similar to mine. But i was sorry to see your last post. I have similar fears and frustrations about this MM. I am 3 weeks PO and am constantly down on myself about my results. I know pictures don't tell the whole story - but when I looked at your pics before reading your story, I thort you looked great for the stage you're at now. I know when I post my pics I am less than impressed, but people say I look good....maybe their lying or most likely im too critical of myself & maybe a little too impatient? And just want that Super Model to be seen already... Haha I can fully understand your issues with your boobs, the hubby and the money spent. don't lose hope yet, as lots of ladies say on here it takes quite awhile for your true results to be seen and Try to Stay positive. I know as I write this to you I'm saying it to myself too. Best wishes and I hope things look brighter for you tomorrow.
AR
October 4, 2012
Please try not to get so down on yourself. We all have reasons/issues with ourselves and that is why we are here. I think the scar is a shock to our systems. I know when I saw my scar for the first time I thought I was going to be deformed. Seriously - I had a bad dream about talking to my dr and crying and asking him why he deformed me. I have the same scar lines as you, my vertical may even be a little higher.... BUT everyday something changes. Give yourself TIME to get to know the new you, your new body. The scar will fade with time.... emotionally make sure you have someone to lean on (maybe another friend) and all of us here. I know I would rather have you vent and put all your feeling in your review than keep it inside. Nobody on here wants anyone to feel this way. So, hang in there. (((HUGS)))
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Hey ladies. Not too much has changed. My pain is a...
Hey ladies. Not too much has changed. My pain is a lot better in my stomach, my breasts are bothering me a bit more than they were before. Or maybe they're the same and since my tummy's not as bad the breasts just feel worse. lol My scars are more red than they were before. I have realized that this surgery is not a cure all.
It's been a long day... I wanted to post more but I waited too long I think. I am emotionally drained and think I just need to go to sleep. I'll try to update tomorrow or the next day, although I don't know if anyone even thinks these posts are helpful! Goodnight y'all.
It's been a long day... I wanted to post more but I waited too long I think. I am emotionally drained and think I just need to go to sleep. I'll try to update tomorrow or the next day, although I don't know if anyone even thinks these posts are helpful! Goodnight y'all.
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G
August 29, 2012
Your right on the cure all thing. Hope this day is better. Sorry to hear your bummed. I think we all have some questions about doing this. I myself keep saying "didnt I do this because I didnt like what I looked like before?"..and then I realize scars are permanent and I have to stop thinking before I go crazy.And yes, posting helps us feel and know were not alone..have a good day and feel better!
M
August 29, 2012
Thanks for your words ginger - that is exactly how I feel most days. The permanent scars are hard but my tummy is now smoother. My jelly belly was soft but flabby. It's a trade-off. 1of5 - I'm looking at my before & afters as well and it does help. Thanks for the suggestion! Have a great day! You really do look fantastic BTW :)
AR
August 29, 2012
I hope your day is better today! BTW you look amazing! :-) I'm going to have a vertical scar too, so, I keep peeking at your picutes to see how it looks.
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