Pre-Op 25 Days Until D-Day - Long Beach, CA
I am more than ecstatic to say that I am finally...
The office itself has been more than friendly and accommodating to get me on that table! I think they are probably just as happy as I am to finally be getting my work done. I initially was going to be financing with one of the creditors they accept and almost went through with the procedure when i found out i was pregnant! The office understood my position and even sent the money back to the creditors! How awesome right? Now when i came back and was ready to go, it was just my luck that the creditors were no longer accepting my application probably because i had just bought a brand new car. bummer! but no, only a few short months later, I got my tax money and used the money I saved up, so now I am ready to get my procedure done and not be in debt afterwards! Even better situation!
I will be posting more updates coming close to D-Day, as well as some before pictures.
I will be getting liposuction to the abdomen, flanks, and (just updated) the back. initially I was going to get my arms, but I realized that the most desired appearance I want for my core was more attainable if I included the back, so the doctor's office allowed me to switch my areas.
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Lack of Support System/criticism
Hello Everyone, So they say that the devil tries to steal your happiness, and this devil, I have been with for almost 10 years and it seems like he will do anything to keep my self-esteem low; reminding me that I will never look the way I want.
So here's what happens. I went to my Doctor's appointment, and I'm informing the nurse that I will be getting these procedures done. She tells me "oh that sounds familiar," low and behold she got the same procedure done. I was so excited to tell him, I was on the path of telling him that it was like a sign! and then he proceeds to tell me "Oh she's got a fake butt."
Being insecure, how would any of you others feel? I was so upset. Its like no matter what, he has to be the constant reminder that I am no where near perfect. It seriously kills me that I have a partner like this. Anyone else have a partner like this out there? Before (as in pre-op) when we would fight, he would come with the "blah blah blah... fat B***h" - i can already hear what it will be like after i get my procedure done.... "it doesn't matter how good you think you look, its all fake!"
Ladies, your thoughts and opinions would be greatly valued.
Did i overreact, or do i really have a douche bag boyfriend that I let keep me this low?
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Definitely keep us posted! Looking forward to your pics.