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Tummy Tuck No muscle repair (3 kids)

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I know it's early days and my boyfriend keeps...

Eskay82
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I know it's early days and my boyfriend keeps telling me to stop doing this to myself but he hasn't actually seen my stomach with padding and stuff off..

I had my first post op app today.. So first time I've seen everything. And now I can't stop crying.. What have I done to myself? I can't believe I've done this to myself.. My belly button.. It's numb but the worst weird feeling ever and looks sooo bad.. I Dnt actually think I will be able to wear a bikini ever again. I feel stupid and upset that I've mutilated myself.. My own fault I know.. That's the worst thing

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November 5, 2013
I don't get why is it the worst thing u hve swelling that's normal do I hve pics
November 5, 2013
I guess Thts how I felt yesterday after seeing everything for the first time. I will upload pics soon
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November 5, 2013
Yes, definitely upload so WE can help you judge.
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November 5, 2013
Ook gurly ur goin to look great
November 5, 2013
You will see improvements in every way weekly, and definitely monthly, but you won't even see the final results for a year! My goodness, it is WAY too early to be upset...you don't even have any idea what your bellybutton or any other part of you will end up looking like. If you cannot atop crying and are freaking out, maybe you could consider seeking help for depression/anxiety? Maybe some meds foe those could help you get over the hump until you have more time to heal? Also take a look at pics of your tummy from before...it always helped me to remember where I started from, with saggy loose skin and muscles....
November 5, 2013
Thankyou for your reply.. I actually am ok today.. "Mad moment of depression" I think. Did you not feel like this at when you saw stomach 1st time??
November 5, 2013
Nope. Not whatsoever. I was actually quite delighted to have my tummy finally fixed and my muscles repaired and a big hunk of skin and fat cut off. It was the most wonderful thing I have ever done for myself, and I haven't regretted it for a minute! This was a long time coming, and after 4 kids and a terrible divorce, it was finally my turn to do something for myself. :-)
November 6, 2013
Wow !! I've just looked at ur pics and wow!! U look amazing !! I hope I get results like u guys. But I didn't have muscle repair as my ps said my muscles were good (even though I've got 3 kids) but when researching on here and the net there's not a lot of cases with no MR with individuals with kids. So I even said to him before my surgery maybe u should just tighten anyway.. But he said I wouldn't benefit from it. I do trust him, my friend had one with him but again she had muscle repair because he said to her her muscles are separated. Oh well I guess only time will tell. Well u look sexy already ;)
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November 5, 2013
Don't fret. It's waaaaay too early to tell. I'm 14 days p.o today and am just now seeing some of that black rocky stuff clear away. Once that's gone I'll see what I'm working with. I'm sure you won't know for a while either. Give yourself time to heal and don't be so hard on yourself. We're here for you gurl.
November 6, 2013
Aww thanks ;) Thts sweet. I've had a look at ur pics and u look absolutely FANTASTIC !! Ur belly button look great already !! And you also have a vertical incision like me. Thanks for ur comment I shall be watching ur progress x
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November 5, 2013
Im so sorry you are feeling this way. Your boyfriend is right from the consensus around here. Give it time. Changes take place daily. 
November 6, 2013
I know ;) just got really freaked out the other day. I was really excited to see it before I did lool ;) Thankyou very much for your comment. And.. Let the count dwn begin for you !!! ;) I shall be watching ur progress ;)
UPDATED FROM Eskay82
10 days post

Feel so much better today 10daysPO

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I feel absolutely fine about everything today. I think seeing a big belly button and also a third scar.. A vertical one, closure of old belly button as there was not enough skin to pull down made it look a lot worse than the pictures I have been seeing on here. Freaked me out a little bit. But Yh I guess I have to heal and wait. ;)

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November 5, 2013
November 6, 2013
Thanks for your comment ;) appreciate it
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November 5, 2013
I haven't gone through my surgery but I've read enough to know that it's always bad before it get better. The best thing to do is take care of your body while it's healing. Drink lots of water, listen to your doctors instructions, rest bunches and certainly don't over do it. Keep your eye on the prize! Sounds like you had different expectations. It helps to look at pics of other TTers that started with a similar body shape ;))
November 6, 2013
Hiya. Thanks for you comment. I had been looking into this for over a year. So I knew what my expectations were.. I just guess its different once you actually do it.. Well for me personally. But I felt fine about everything the day after I write this review. But again I haven't seen scars since. So I hope my positivity remains once I see wounds again. Countdwn to your tt begins :D I shall keep a look out on your profile as I would love to see your results ;)
November 5, 2013
Hi ya, tis is a normal reaction don't be fretting this is the best & worse fing u wil ever do .. The best thing is the final result& the worst thing is the pain& suffering in waiting to get to the final result!   
November 6, 2013
I really appreciate your comment. Makes me feel like I'm not crazy for feeling the way I did the other day so thankyou
November 6, 2013
No probs x
UPDATED FROM Eskay82
11 days post

Before pics

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