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Lower Face, Necklift and Platysma Surgery Booked for January 2016. London, GB

UPDATED FROM NancyKMRees
4 months post

Week 19 after lower face lift, neck lift and platysma

NancyKMRees
l am thinking I must be a very slow healer as I still can't wear my hair off my face but look good when it is down and covering the sides of my face. I am interested to know if any other ladies had this problem and did it eventually settle down. I will try to post a photo later; I don't want to be recognised as only a few people know, so will try to figure out a way to do this. x

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May 26, 2016
Hi Nancy, would you say this was because of a tight group of muscles? I'm a few months ahead of you and only over the last few weeks have I felt the tissues relax more. It can take time for our body to forgive all that reshuffling!
May 26, 2016
Hi BieneMaya, the only way to explain is to show you a photo. I am having a problem uploading a photo but will try again tomorrow. Hopefully my problem is just down to tight muscles like you said. Thanks for your help x
May 26, 2016
Hi Nancy, I'm a bit behind you, I think about 14 weeks and still have tightness, numbness and am a bit sore on one side. It doesn't worry me really as I always had it in my head that it would take 6-12 months. I also have a bit of a lump on one side of my neck but it is slowly settling. Seeing Dominic tomorrow and am sure he'll say it's all part of the healing process xx
May 26, 2016
Hi Kassandra, I still have quite a bit of tightness but that doesn't worry me as I know it will go eventually. I have tried to load a photo as I find it hard to explain in words but it didn't work. I will have to seek my husband's help. If you see the photo you will see what I mean. Thanks for your support x
May 26, 2016
No problem:-)
I do think you're right that we all heal at slightly different rates. I'm definitely healing more quickly on one side too. If you want to pm me your email address I'm happy to share pics (don't want to go public with them though)
May 27, 2016
Hi Nancy, had my checkup today and my little lump is just tissues knitting back together. Dominic happy that it will continue to soften as it heals. x
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May 27, 2016
Hi Nancy, Has the lymph node settled yet? I had a swollen gland under my left jaw which took 5 months to reduce in size and soreness but is fine now. Is the ridge you mention loose skin, a gland or a tight muscle group? At almost 9 months I do have a little bulge of loose skin under my right jaw; is that what you mean?
May 27, 2016
Hi Katwin, no the ridge runs from the front of my ear down towards my jaw at about a 70 degree angle. The photo I am trying to load will show you what I mean. I don't seem able to load my photo on to RealSelf but if you ladies could private message me with your email addresses (that's if you don't mind) I will send you a photo and you could give me your opinion as to whether it's something or nothing. I don't want to bother Dominic unless I really need to. Thank you all for being so helpful xx
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May 29, 2016
Hi Nancy, Is it possible this could be where underlying tissue has been lifted to give more volume to the face, perhaps also lifting the jowl area? However, I haven't seen a photo and if it is giving you some concern, then Dominic is the expert to give you peace of mind. xx
September 28, 2016
I am wondering how youre feeling and if the indent has gone away? Are you now comfortable to wear your hair tied back? I've been reading great thing about Dr Bray and may travel out of country to see him but I'm very nervous about the whole thing! Any updates are appreciated and hope you're enjoying your results!
December 15, 2016
hi I haven't been on Realself for a while, apologies for not responding to those who sent private messages. if anyone wants me to send a photo of the ridge I talked about please send a private message and I will respond xx
UPDATED FROM NancyKMRees
3 months post

3 months post op

NancyKMRees
Saw Dominic last week for my 3 month review and he said I was healing well. The scars behind my ears are almost invisible and I don't think it will be long before they are totally invisible. There is still a little redness at the front of my ears which seems to be taking longer to heal but Dominic said that is normal. I love my result especially my profile, no more turkey neck. I can't wear my hair off my face yet as there is something going on with the right side which I am hoping will settle in time; I can only describe it as a slight dent or ridge but my
hair covers it. X

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May 7, 2016
I'm booked in with Dominic for July and really nervous it all goes well as had bad experience about 6 years ago with Jan Stanek, I think I sent a review of him. Are you still worried about the ridge on your face?
May 7, 2016
My first consultation was with Jan Stanek and my gut feeling was not to go with him that's when I started reading all the reviews on Realself which I did for a year and decided Dominic was the best. You have nothing to worry about. I am not worrying too much about my slight dent because I am still healing and I look so much better than before. I will send you a private message and maybe I will email you a few photos then you can see how natural my FL is. xx
May 8, 2016
Very reassuring. Thank you , look forward to seeing your pics
UPDATED FROM NancyKMRees
2 months post

9 weeks post op

NancyKMRees
Have been a little bit worried up to now about the left side of my face not matching the right as it has taken more time for the swelling to go down but today I think it's almost there. There are a few exercises I do at the gym where I look through the mirror to make sure I am doing them right and before my surgery I used to hate the face that looked back at me. This morning I couldn't stop smiling at myself; my face matches how I feel inside. I still have swelling in my lymph nodes under the jaw but I know that will settle eventually and anyone considering surgery be assured Dominic is your man. I went back to work after 18 days and no-one has noticed (I did change my hair to throw them off). The only comments I got were that my new hairstyle made me look younger. I am 67 and just bought a pair of skinny jeans - yee haw!

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March 15, 2016
Hi Nancy, don't worry too much about the lymph node swellings. It does sometimes take a while to settle. I had a similar problem with a rather painful and enlarged lymph node which took approximately 5 months to calm down, and now it is no problem at all. Give yourself more time to heal and I'm sure it will all become quite normal, although we all heal at differing rates. And I bet you look great in your skinny jeans!!