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Oh lordy I don't know where to start... !! I have...
ellierose123July 23, 2015
$5,700
Oh lordy I don't know where to start... !! I have never felt happy with how I look since a young age when I used to compare myself to other girls. I have spent 10 years ruining relationships due to my self confidence issues. I have listened to endless hurtful comments about 'beef curtains' etc from endless tossers... I feel like the last 10 years I have carried this weight on my shoulders. I realise it's completely stupid and down to media representations and the [RS bleep] industry, and I also realise guys can be immature pricks and I should love myself and be happy with my body bla bla bla ! But I've got to the point where I think... this issue consumes me and I'm fed up of worrying about it so I might as well change it ! I've saved up a part deposit and putting the rest on a credit card. My date is 29th July!
I am sooo excited but also a bit nervous. I mean obviously because I am mortified that I'm about to go and get my poor fanny butchered but you gotta make light of it I guess!! I am most nervous about losing sensation..So if anyone could give me any words of reassurance/experience in that area that would be great however I have chosen a doctor with very good reviews and from some of the other girls experiences on here I'm feeling very positive that it will go well.
Not gonna lie this is the most weirdest thing lying on the bathroom floor with my fanny out taking pics lol but this group has been so helpful for me so I am going to try and update it daily. I will upload a pic at some point today from my mobile, rather than having the fear of someone finding them on the office comp lol!
So six days until the op..... EEeeeeeeeeeek!
I am sooo excited but also a bit nervous. I mean obviously because I am mortified that I'm about to go and get my poor fanny butchered but you gotta make light of it I guess!! I am most nervous about losing sensation..So if anyone could give me any words of reassurance/experience in that area that would be great however I have chosen a doctor with very good reviews and from some of the other girls experiences on here I'm feeling very positive that it will go well.
Not gonna lie this is the most weirdest thing lying on the bathroom floor with my fanny out taking pics lol but this group has been so helpful for me so I am going to try and update it daily. I will upload a pic at some point today from my mobile, rather than having the fear of someone finding them on the office comp lol!
So six days until the op..... EEeeeeeeeeeek!
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July 24, 2015
Office computer :))) ha!! Yeah maybe stick to your phone!!
If I can help in anyway.... In terms of sensation I am 4wpo and things feel the same if not more sensitive as there is less skin in the way. I specifically said to my surgeon to leave my clitoral area alone pretty much cus of this worry. Although I haven't had sex yet and definitely not ready I think my sensation is still there :)
Also, I wasn't at all prepared for the emotional toll this would have on me. I seemed to go through a roller coaster of emotions. First it was total joy that it was done and the beef curtains were in the bin ;) then it was omg this hurts, then it's omg I'm chopped up and I was horrified. One day I'd look and love it, the next I'd look and hate it. That all settles down eventually and I think that it takes time to get used to our new bits! Especially as it's such a personal and sexual area. I had the trim method too, and looking at your pictures I think I looked quite similar to you! (I have a very long review have a read ;)) with the trim its so bumpy and what they call "scalloped" but that does settle, and I'm still bumpy now but my doctor said couple of days ago it will smooth out eventually so don't worry about that. In fact you'll look completely different in your final results compared to what you see in day 1!! Keep us posted. X
If I can help in anyway.... In terms of sensation I am 4wpo and things feel the same if not more sensitive as there is less skin in the way. I specifically said to my surgeon to leave my clitoral area alone pretty much cus of this worry. Although I haven't had sex yet and definitely not ready I think my sensation is still there :)
Also, I wasn't at all prepared for the emotional toll this would have on me. I seemed to go through a roller coaster of emotions. First it was total joy that it was done and the beef curtains were in the bin ;) then it was omg this hurts, then it's omg I'm chopped up and I was horrified. One day I'd look and love it, the next I'd look and hate it. That all settles down eventually and I think that it takes time to get used to our new bits! Especially as it's such a personal and sexual area. I had the trim method too, and looking at your pictures I think I looked quite similar to you! (I have a very long review have a read ;)) with the trim its so bumpy and what they call "scalloped" but that does settle, and I'm still bumpy now but my doctor said couple of days ago it will smooth out eventually so don't worry about that. In fact you'll look completely different in your final results compared to what you see in day 1!! Keep us posted. X
July 24, 2015
Yes this is what I'm worrying about the most... The thought of having [RS bleep] sex for so long due to my own paranoid silly inhibitions... and then imagine if something went wrong and after all that I could never have an orgasm again in my life!! oh my god it terrifies me. You hear the horror stories you know.... But it's easy to get paranoid. The main thing I think is just to tell myself don't be silly it's a simple op, little trim here and there and sorted. Thanks for ur words I will have a read later for sure!! I think I'm going to be living on this site for the next few weeks!!!
August 2, 2015
Good luck!!! I couldn't be happier with my decision to have this done! I'm at the 2 month mark. You go from thinking about it constantly, to getting the procedure and getting obsessed with staring at your lady parts to feeling normal all so quickly :) if you have any questions at all feel free to ask and look at all my updates I did it quite often and feel like I went through just about every emotion possible haha :)
UPDATED FROM ellierose123
5 days pre
Before pics
ellierose123July 23, 2015
So here is the before. This is the most unflattering thing ever because I've realised a) how fat my ass looks and b) how uneven my skin is lol. As u can see it's very flappy and it's almost like they taunt me with big long hands that wave at me. Even though it's still days before the procedure I'm still not 100% sure what I'm going to ask for. I think I'm going to say trim method get 99% of it off but don't strip me bare so it's like some weird big crater hole.
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July 23, 2015
Thank you for being brave and sharing your photos! I understand it may feel weird and all, but it's so helpful for others researching this procedure -- and a wonderful way for you to track your progress.
July 24, 2015
I got the “wedge excision" . U can see my photos if that helps. Also I read your story. You are not alone, I had the same experiences. I was called Dumbo by one of my old boyfriend because why? Big ears. I was ashamed. I am sorry for your uncomfortable moments. This surgery is going to be awesome for you. It's so amazing. Good luck . Btw it's my b-day the 29th. I will be thinking of you and wishing you the best.
July 24, 2015
Yours looks very natural, I am also 50/50 with this. I just can't wait for it to be done and dusted I feel in limbo! It's the most nerve racking thing I've ever done. Oh wow its your birthday please e do think of me in surgery ha ha. I'll put up an extra special gory picture for sure just for the occasion !! hehe
July 24, 2015
Poor fanny butchered - ha ha that made me laugh!! You need to know exactly what you want, a number of women on here didnt and they feel too much has been removed. I wanted a natural look, I still wanted lips - just not hanging down!! I asked for them to be flush, so outer and inner are the same length. I still wanted visable lips. I'm really happy with the results - for the first time ever I feel pretty down below. Really think about the look you want to achieve - once its done there is no going back. Keep us informed and good luck.
July 24, 2015
I'll second that, I said to my surgeon I wanted the hanging bit gone and that I was worried not enough would be taken. And that I didn't want to lose sensation so I didn't want my clitoral area messed with too much. True to his word he did exactly that! My labia aren't visible they are hidden in my majoras but my clitoral hood is. As my swelling is subsiding my minoras are there and they cover all my holes. I'm conscious that my hood is out of proportion now, and in hindsight I do wish I had slightly more lips left. But I am completely over the moon with how I look now in comparison to before. Nothing hanging so that's what I wanted! And no more pain or rubbing or tearing. Just be clear with what you want and ask lots of questions if you have them ;) x
July 24, 2015
I had my hood done too as he said it may look out of proportion. How amazing is it to be comfortable!!
July 24, 2015
I've had the sides trimmed. I might in the future have a reduction but not massively bothered at this stage! I just want to be healed up and I appear to be quite slow and hanging onto stitches! Plus I have a "split" which feels likes it's taking years to heal ;) x
July 24, 2015
It's so hard though isn't it, I've spent my life thinking oh my god I don't want anything there but then you get to a point where you realise you're a bit more mature and a healthy relationship and good sex is surely more important! It's a tricky one !!! Spent soooo many years wanting this and then so close to the date and you start getting all paranoid and unsure. An emotional rollercoaster for sure as someone described it! I just DON'T want to lose sensation !
July 24, 2015
oh god so many comments from all u helpful ladies ! well I am overwhelmed. I think that's the main goal for most girls on here isn't it not to have anything hanging down, there's always gonna be the risk of it looking a bit out of proportion I guess, specially for us extra lucky ones with extra skin by the clit. My surgeon said he would 'shave' some skin off I almost wanted to laugh out loud ! So I asked him what the hell shave ?! With what!! I think I will say I just want to be able to close my lips with nothing showing and I want it to look as natural as possible.... Is that just a completely unrealistic expectation ?! I will have a look at everyones this evening! You all look fab by the way.
July 26, 2015
You are not alone. I just had my procedure done on the 21st! I'm planning to do a review but haven't had time yet because work has been crazy. Believe me, you won't regret it! I tried not to think too much about the surgery because when I did, I would get scared too. I think it didn't hit me until I was checking into the surgical center and there was no turning back. I can't believe it's over! After al those years of hating my vagina. Don't get me wrong, I'm very swollen right now (4 days post), but it's already TONS better. I was worried about sensation too and my nurse at my office assured me that he wouldn't remove (all) of the labia, so I would still have sensation. It doesn't seem to be a concern to me yet. I've just been icing almost constantly. I don't feel pain, but I am walking funny for sure. Please message me if you have private questions. Good luck!!
UPDATED FROM ellierose123
1 day pre
Pre-op and healing advice please?!
ellierose123July 28, 2015
So my op is 9am tomorrow moring I am very nervous and excited but I wanted to ask everyone's advice for what they used after the procedure?? I am UK based so any products you can recommend or tips would be great!
So far I just have arnica and antibiotic cream, and coconut oil which I will use at a later date for scarring. What pain killers worked best or creams. I know diet is essential I will be stocking up on lots of fruit and vege and orange juice.
Thanks!
So far I just have arnica and antibiotic cream, and coconut oil which I will use at a later date for scarring. What pain killers worked best or creams. I know diet is essential I will be stocking up on lots of fruit and vege and orange juice.
Thanks!
Replies (4)
July 28, 2015
I used nothing! Get some pads in for bleeding and pain relief and definitely some ice packs :) update tomorrow when you can! Will be thinking of you x
July 28, 2015
Antibiotic ointment and ice are your best friend. Wash carefully after going to the bathroom and relax the first 5 days. Good luck and don't worry you will do great after.
July 28, 2015
You are going to be one happy lady after this surgery :-) plenty of Ice or gel ice pads. It's more uncomfortable than painful . I'm uk based I brought nursing gel pads from mothercare. If you get itchy anti histamines. Loads of rest, and enjoy your new look , makes you feel a million dollars [RS bleep]
July 29, 2015
Some things I've learned are that elevating overnight makes the greatest difference in swelling and getting lots of protein is vital to healing (I barely ate anything the first few days and that affected me greatly). Hope everything goes smoothly for you today :)
Hi there, I am so glad that you decided to share your story with us. Kudos to you for having this procedure for yourself and not because of the exaggerated media representation as to what is considered "normal". As for boys -- well as the old saying goes "boys will be boys", and they can be so mean!
Be sure to check-in here to connect with other girls preparing for surgery and meet a recovery buddy.
Good luck!