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Tummy Tuck, Breast lift, and Circumferential Thigh Lipo!!! Patience is a Virtue in the healing process!!!

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Hi Real Self family! I would like to thank all of...

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Hi Real Self family! I would like to thank all of you for the valuable info you so graciously share in this forum. I am about 3 1/2 weeks away from having a tummy tuck, breast lift, and circumferential thigh lipo. I am scared as you know what, however I am anxious for great results. I am especially nervous about the thigh lipo. Due to my enormous thighs I am really anxious for them to come down. I am exercise at least 3-4 per week, but I am convinced that my thighs have resistant fat cells that need to be blasted by lipo. I would like to finally buy a pair of pants without at least 2% stretch. Can anybody give me some pointers on what I should do preoperatively and post operatively to achieve great results. I keep searching on realself and the net for feedback , but the info regarding circumferential thigh lipo is very limited. All suggestions in relation to the mommy make over and the lipo are welcomed! Please help to relieve some of my anxiety!

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September 30, 2015
I had a BA in July w Dr Banks and she is awesome! Good luck!
September 30, 2015
Thanks vanitytee! I'm having a BL too!
September 30, 2015
Keep walking around as soon as you can. Take Arnica before and after, and do massage downwards after a few days when you can. Wear the compression garments! No matter how sore and uncomfortable you are initially, totally worth it. Try Marena or Sankom online, I tried probably 3/4 different brands, these were the best.

Not going to lie, it'll be uncomfortable and painful, and you'll initially wonder why the hell you did it to yourself, but after a few weeks you'll be so glad you did!

I don't know what your home life is like, but try and fill the cupboards with nice foods, easy stuff to eat, and drink lots of fluids. Look after yourself, but try and walk around a few times in the first few days, it helps.
September 30, 2015
Thank you sooooooo much for this advice! You look great! I have been following you as well. How many days before did you start the arnica? Did you also use the bromelain? The surgeon gives me only one comp garment, so I figured I will need another to alternate. Which one do you like better the Marena or the Sankom. I have heard a lot about the Marena. My husband and mom will be here, so I should be good with the support. I also hope to lose some more pounds during this process. Thanks again! Any other advice....please tell me. I am so anxious to see smaller legs on me. Huh!!!!
October 1, 2015
I started arnica about a week or so before, and I think it really helped. Didn't do bromelain, but hey, a lot of people recommend it! Definitely get 2 garments, I ordered a Marena for the first 3 weeks post op, then switched to Sankom. If you've got your hubby and mom with you, you'll be fine, I promise! Be prepared for swelling and some pain, but, it's totally worth it. You'll see that initially, your post op figure is probably awesome, as the swelling takes a little while to kick in - so please, don't get disheartened around day 3/4/5 etc, you'll go back to your day 1 results!
October 1, 2015
Thanks again lp22! I'm going to order my arnica and bromelain from Amazon. Where did you purchase your compression garments? Yes, I have read a lot about the swelling. I just hope that I can get back to work after 2 weeks. I'm also getting a tummy tuck and a breast lift all at the same time. I hope I'm not too crazy to be doing all this on one shot. I just want to do it all and be done. Pain wise and financially. The surgery center is additonal cost. Would you say that now that you are 3 months post your swelling has subsided? Are you back to your normal activity...ex. Exercise??
October 1, 2015
I'm having difficulty finding the full ones with the bra.
October 5, 2015
Oh swelling is definitely gone now. Sometimes if I'm in heels for a long time my ankles can get a little swollen, but really nothing unbearable.

I got all mine online? I personally think given what you're having done, you might want to get separate garments, for example one for chest, and one for tummy and thighs too? Sometimes you might want to keep your top in place anf vice versa, least then you have flexibility? I also ordered from Leonissa, in total I had the Marena that went from below the knee to just under the boobs for the first 3 weeks, then Leonissa boobs to ankles for the second three weeks, then just wore Sankom after that, the leggings that went below the knee and had tummy compression to just under the boobs.

Honestly you may find one better than the other depending on your new shapes, the day, the week, your clothing that day, etc etc. I know it's an additional cost, but totally worth it for the flexibility.

Plus, you take the garment off for an hour a day to shower, and again, you might prefer one at night, and a different one in the day.
October 5, 2015
Ps. I had 'buyers remorse' too!! Lol. I called to cancel mine the week after I booked it!! The coordinator talked me out if it, and I'm very glad she did!! Totally normal. It'd be weird if you weren't hesitating!!
October 5, 2015
Wowwwww. Thanks LP22! That's comforting to hear that your swelling has subsided. Thanks for all your suggestions!!!! This really helps! My surgery is in 23 days!!! Oh my!!!! I have an appointment with my ps tomorrow.
October 5, 2015
Ok. I'm glad to hear that his is normal. Yes. My coordinator is absolutely great!!! She always has time to speak with me. I like that. I don't feel like they got my deposit and now don't care about my concerns. She is soooooo patient and kind! Thanks again Lp22! I can't wait to be on your side (post op)!
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September 30, 2015

Thanks for sharing your story with us. I'm excited to see your results and look forward to your updates. I hope you get some good feedback on the thigh lipo from the community.

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October 2, 2015
I had a beast lift and tummy tuck 16 days ago and it was honestly the best decision and best $12,000 I've ever spent!! For me, the actual tummy tuck and breast lift weren't painful. It's mostly felt like a sore feeling for both, kind of like when you do a hard workout and your muscles are angry at you the next day lol. I take acetaminophen for the most part and it helps. The painful part I would say are drains. If you're having a drain free tummy tuck, don't worry about it. Drains aren't painful for everyone but they were awful for me. I was so happy Tuesday bc they were finally taken out. Wear the compression binder at all times post op! I also suggest compression stockings, I have a hematoma and I believe those could've prevented it. Not sure if you can have those with thigh lipo though :/ stock up on basic medical supplies, pillows and stool softener and you should be ok. good luck!!!:)
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October 4, 2015
Hi!!! Everything your feeling is normal!! I think all have felt nervous!!!?You are going to do great!!! When I was post op, I viewed this site too much and that's when I got really nervous. I read too much, and scared myself!
Make sure you do everything your Dr tells you. Wear the garments!!! You can also purchase foam, that you can place between your skin and hooks! I wish I would of don't that!!
There will be swelling, and it does take a long time to recover. I too developed a Seroma that took forever to finally stop reoccurring. It was just annoying, but did not hurt. There are things that can just happen. No fault from your surgeon.
Be kind to yourself!! Just let healing happen.
I am 10 months recovered and couldn't be happier!!!! Lipo, is like the gift that keeps giving!!!! I am over the moon that I did everything!!!
Good Luck!! I can't wait to hear how things go
October 4, 2015
Awwwwww! Thank you so much!!! I needed to hear this. I am addict r to real self at this point. For my own good and bad!!! I read about the foam and put that in my Amazon shopping cart last night. I am sooo happy that you are pleased with you results. I am sooo anxious to see the results of this lipo. My thighs have been one of my issues for so little long. These jokers are huge and even with weight loss.... They go down a bit but they are still big. Lol. I like what you said, "Lipo is the gift that keeps on giving"! Well that's a gift I plan to cherish forever. And oh yes, I keep reading about how important the compression garment is. Bad much as I hate girdles, spans, or control tops...... I for sure will be wearing that garment. I'm not going to sabotage my results after spending all this money!! I will be the most obedient patient. Lol. Thanks again for your advice!!! I will definitely keep you all posted!!!
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October 5, 2015
You go girl!!!!! I can't wait to hear about your surgery!!! Take great care of yourself!!!!
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October 5, 2015
Also, check out, " 12 Things I Wish I knew before Tummy Tuck Surgery" there's lots of great info on there to read!!! It's one women's story on Real Self!!! She's right on!!!
October 5, 2015
Thanks Pattycake. This also very helpful! Your the best!
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26 days pre

The more I read...the I'm starting to have buyers remorse!

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Oh my goodness!! I'm addicted to this site, however the more I read is the more anxious I'm getting. I keep seeing bad reviews from about my doc. Of which I hadn't seen before. I keep reading the horror stories of people spending all this money and going through all the pain and not be happy with their results. I read about plastic surgeons not giving their patients the results of which they paid for. Ex. Lipo done half ass!!! Uneven, not enough, did lower lipo on tummy and not enough on the upper. Wth!!!! This is scary!!!! I just want what I'm am paying my doc to do. I want realistic promises to be made and fulfilled!!!! Please help RS family!!!! My procedure is in 27 days and I am scared straight!!!! Can't sleep at night because all I do is think and read about plastic surgery!!!!

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October 2, 2015
I spoke to Dr. Banks patient coordinator today. Can I just say how amazing she is!!!!!! She is soooo patient and knowledgeable. She is truly a gem to Dr. Banks. She relieved so much of my anxiety and even better yet.....she scheduled an appointment for me to meet with Dr. Banks next week. At least now with all this knowledge I feel more prepared to ask Dr. Banks the questions I didn't ask in my consultation visit. Yayyyyyyy!!! I can rest a little easier this weekend!!!!
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October 3, 2015
I had full confidence in Dr Banks for my BA, which I know is a different proceedure than you're getting. But I think if you don't have that confidence after your meeting w her maybe you should reconsider awarding her your surgery. My friend got lipo by dr banks against dr banks recommendation of a tummy tuck. Her results were not what she wanted but she was given all the info and warnings upfront. Good luck and please keep us posted!
October 3, 2015
I appreciate your response. I am happy that you had great results from your BA. Please don't get me wrong. I had a great consultation with Dr. Banks. I just was not as educated as I am now, therefore my anxiety went through the roof after reading some of the negative reviews. I still have confidence in her and will be meeting with her again prior to my pre op appointment. Despite the reviews.....I can honestly say that my consult went well. It's just that due to my lack of knowledge....I was not well versed at that time to ask the appropriate questions. Nonetheless.... I am ready now.... I'm just anxious and scared as the time draws closer. I have confidence in her expertise and realize that every ps will not be able to please each and every patient. Especially when they go against her advice. I put everything in the hands of God!!
October 4, 2015
Knowledge is power. I spends hours on hours on this site. It can be exciting and overwhelming at the same time. You will do great. Please keep us posted. I understand about buyer's remorse, as I am struggling with that myself. As mother's and/or wives we take care of everyone but self. See it as a treat for all of your hard work.
October 4, 2015
Yes indeed Kymkym65! You are so right. I live on this site. Can't seem to stay off of it. Lol. The more I read ....the more I learn. I will definitely keep you all posted Thanks for reaching out. We are all in this together! As a mother and wife that's all we do really! So yes, this time the gift is for ME!!! Have you had your procedure as yet?
October 9, 2015
I am scheduled November 23rd. I am ready but scared at the same time. I have so much to get done before then. I am happy that we can support and encourage one another. It's time to get our bodies back. Yay!!!!!
October 9, 2015
Yes girl!! We in this together! Wowwwwwww! You scheduled right before thanksgiving! Can't wait to get my body back!!
October 7, 2015
Feeling confident Today!! I had my 2nd consult with Dr. Banks today! All I have to say is so far so good. I became very anxious and remorseful after reading some of the reviews on her. I can honestly say this has not been my experience with her. She is so patient and kind. Very willing to spend as much time as needed to get my questions answered. And I did have a lot of questions. My appointment was at 9:00 and she was with me until 9:45. She even took my pics and compared me to another pic of a person with my same stature. The woman looked great post op and I can even see myself looking better because the woman was somewhat bigger than me pre op. Can't wait!!! 21 more days!!!!
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4 days pre

6 more days until my transformation!!!

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Ok fan! I had my pre op appointment on Wednesday and I am so excited and ready for the new me. I am still very nervous about the surgery aspect but Dr. Banks assured me that everything will be fine. Her surgical team will be monitoring me very closely. I will post more before pics over the weekend.

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October 23, 2015
Typo.... Ok fam!
October 23, 2015
Typo....Ok fam!
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October 23, 2015
You are going to do great!!!!! Take care of you❤️❤️❤️
October 23, 2015
Thanks Pattycake0331!
October 23, 2015
I am so excited for you. You are going to do great. I am cheering for you.
October 23, 2015
Thanks Kymkym65!
October 28, 2015
Good luck!! Not that you'll need it, you'll be fabulous. Please do keep us all posted! xoxo
October 28, 2015
Thanks lp22! It's about to go down!