Joined the Ranks of the Tummy Tuckers : 16 weeks PO
Hi everyone. Just signed up with RealSelf. I am 40...
Hi everyone. Just signed up with RealSelf. I am 40 years old, have two children aged 15 and 12. I weigh 70kg and have been between 68 and 70kg for the past 2 years. I am not really a huge exercise bunny but enjoy the outdoors, hiking and ocassional cycle. Not sure of my height but I think it's around 5ft8 ?
I had pretty big babies, 3.950kg and 4.240kg and my boy especially contributed to my lovely stretch marks. I have always been self concious of my post pregnancy scars and rarely expose my tum in a bikini. Also squirm at the sight of my muffin top over my jeans etc. The rest of my body is in pretty good shape so I think having a Tummy Tuck will really improve my overall look.
I first consulted my PS in April 2010 and got really scared after hearing about the surgery and the risks involved. It took me a year and a few months to gather my nerves again and approached my PS again last month. I wanted to go ahead with the surgery ASAP so I am scheduled for Tuesday next week. Eeeek !
My hubby has been very supportive as well as a couple of my friends who have had elective surgery. I have not really told too many people about it so it is great to have this forum to gather support from people who are experiencing the same hopes, fears, dreams, etc. My sister is freaking out ..... so I am trying not to listen to her too much :) I think she is just scared for me....
Will post some "Before" pics later today or 2moro. I am going on a little vacation 2moro to relax and prepare for my surgery next week. I have had a pre op check and my GP is happy with everything so all there is to do is wait .............
Thanks to those who have offered their advice and pics on this forum........ it has been very helpful and a positive experience for me so I hope that I can reciprocate by sharing my experience with the rest of you.
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Anyway, GOOD LUCK TO YOU! Keep reading the positive comments and stay away from the negative ones. You will have a great experience and soon you'll be recovering with a nice, flat tummy!

Sitting in the Airport in Port Elizabeth after...
What amazes me about the stories and reviews I have read here is that most if not all of those who have had tummy tucks leave the hospital or treatment centre the same day ?!?!?! In South Africa we would never be allowed to do that. I have to spend three nights in the Hospital after my procedure to ensure there is no post op bleeding or complications !!! If my PS is happy with my progress and there is no risk of infection, I may leave the hospital on Friday afternoon. I will have 24 hr care in the hospital, physiotherapy and nurse care for 3 days post op. After reading how you other ladies have coped walking out of the hospital 1 hour after coming out of theatre, climbing into cars and sometimes driving 2 or 3 hours, having to cope on your own without any nursing care is amazing ..........my hat goes off to you... Wow.
Posting some pics today :) more to follow.
Please bear in mind that I will not be able to communicate with you all once I go into hospital on Tuesday morning as I will not have access to the internet or a computer until I get home on Friday (post op day 3)but I will make mental notes of how each day goes post op and fill you in as soon as I can.
Will also keep you updated as to whether I can go ahead on Tuesday - really hope this cold goes away :(
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I am pretty sure you might already know all of these but wanted to mention it anyways just in case . I will keep you in my prayers and i know you will do great and it will be so worth it . Lots of love and hugs - will be thinking about you on tuesday.

Carolyn in Canada :)
Whoop Whoop, my PS says I should be able to go...
My children are on school holidays so they have been taken up to the mountains for a week while I am in hospital. They left this afternoon. I have told them about my surgery but I don't really think they know how big it is or exactly what changesare about to happen to my body. All is I know they are going to be proud of their "new" mom without her flabby tummy :)
I will try and post in the morning just before I leave for the hospital ...... eeeek one more sleep :D
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Hi Robyn!
A few more days and you will be minus that muffin top:)Â You will love that!
Thank you for posting your story her on RealSelf and sharing with us. I agree this is a wonderful site and great support. Glad you joined us.
Stay positive and focus on the prize and you will breeze through this well. Please keep us up to date on how you are doing this next week. We will all be thinking about you and sending good thoughts your way.