37 Yrs Old 1 Adult Daughter - Kitchener, ON

My "girls" have been deflated and saggy since I stopped breast feeding at age 19. I have been wanting to do this procedure since my 20's and went as far as getting a consult for a BA at the age of 26 with the same doctor that I will be using for my procedures. The result of that initial consultation left me feeling so depressed as my surgeon said that he would not give me a BA but he would do a lift. Let me tell you that this was NOT something I wanted to hear and I left his office believing that I would never again have nice looking girls.
So fast forward to now and you may ask why I went back to the same surgeon if he said no to me in the first place...well bc he didn't tell me what I wanted to hear 11 yrs ago I figured I could trust and respect any recommendations he had to finally achieve nicer looking breast and I do feel confident that he will give me the results that will best suit my frame and hopefully the end result will everything that I've ever wished for.
My consult was on April 28th and Dr. De suggested the following procedures:

- BA 350 cc
- Bennelli Lift
- Axilla Lipo (didn't go Into the consult with this procedure in mind nor the scar revision but we are going ahead to remove the extra fat by my arms and hopefully this will accentuate my new girls)
- Scar Revision (I had my gallbladder and spleen removed at the age of 6. The scar that I have is not pretty and he said he could make it look a lot better. This was not something I have ever wanted to change bc it's been with me all my life but when Dr. De showed us pictures of women before and after their revisions and we were sold).
My husband has been very supportive however my daughter who will be turning 19 is not as enthusiastic about my choice. She feels it's not necessary but at the same time she will help me after surgery should I need it. (That's her way of supporting me which is very appreciative. We are very close so I do value her opinion and would love her full support but respect her feelings about the procedures and haven't pushed further conversation regarding it. I should let u know that she has decided she will come with me and my husband the day of the surgery which is HUGE that she's willing to do that for me).
I have a lot of concerns regarding the Bennelli lift. I'm really happy that he said I didn't need the whole lollipop lift but after reading reviews I am not sure I want to go ahead with it.
My next post I will individualize my concerns and fears in hopes that I will get feedback from you all. I will try to post pictures with my next post.