Surgery in a Few Weeks and I Cannot Wait!!! - Jacksonville, FL

Sorry, but I think you have been left with a result that is not good enough, after all the pain and the expense to you. It certainly isn't ghastly, and if you are happy with what is left, then that's great. I just think you haven't ended up with the results you deserve. Good luck.

I live in Jacksonville and currently looking for someone for the same operation. I'm guessing I shouldn't go to who you did?! :/ any advice?!

Hi Barb, sorry you didn't get the results you wanted. So how do you feel? Do you feel like this is something you will be fine with in future or something that you'd like to change? The good news is that you've probably got enough tissue so I would think you could have a revision (if you wanted) and could get a result you'd like. It sucks you would have to go through the pain and recovery again, but thankfully you weren't amputated like so many ladies have reported here. You deserve to feel good and confident about yourself, so whatever that is for you is what you should do. There's nothing wrong with waiting for a bit to see how you feel. It wouldn't hurt to get other consultations just to see what your options are and then you can go from there. Good luck and keep us updated :)

Labia appearance is genetic. It shouldn't stretch from any activity. You looked great before, and you loo great now. Stop worrying about something that doesn't matter. Any guy or gay would love to be near your labia. So many of these after photos look like children. Grown women are meant to have labia. Be glad they didn't amputate your entire labia, the doctor did a good job and probably let you more phsyically comfortable while keeping most of it intact.

Hi Barb. Sorry you've healed unevenly and have scar tissue. I hope you have no more pain or irritation at this point. I too still have a healthy amount left and have some imperfections. I still try to tell myself that it's so much better than where I was before, but there are some things that do bother me a bit. I could probably address some of it with a revision, but at this point I don't think I will. The physical issues of pain and discomfort are gone now and I have more self confidence. So for me, it's been worth it. I had hoped I'd have a the perfect looking lady after all was said and done, but really didn't think I would get that, I guess because of what I had been dealing with before. I do feel like my one side has started to sag a bit in the last two months and wonder how things will look later down the road too. It's tough judging one labiaplasty against another because we all looked different from each other to begin with and have different types of labiaplasties, plus different surgeon techniques and have different genetics that effect our healing. The important thing is how do you feel about it now? Do you think you will go for a revision or are you okay with your current result?

I'm so sorry the separation isn't better. Maybe it's a good idea just wait awhile and see how you feel? I'm just now getting to the point of accepting how look post surgery. I'm not perfect but slowly I've been able to come to terms with that. And I don't know yet if I'll have a revision for my imperfections. I'm just trying to see how things go down the road and will decide then. Are you having any pain or soreness?

I feel the same way you do about my post op. My doctor said he would do a revision surgery free of charge but not sure if I should trust him again. It's so hard when they tell you what your results are going to end up like then end up with something very different! Im sure you look great though. Maybe we just need to accept what we were given :)