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My 60th Birthday Present to Myself-Getting Healthy. Grand Rapids, MI

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I had a breast reduction in November 2012 and...

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I had a breast reduction in November 2012 and tummy tuck in March 2013. I've tried every diet possible to lose weight, but find myself heavier than before the above 2 surgeries that cut and sucked probably 20+ lbs. off me. My weight is approx. 240, BMI 39, I'm 5'5" and will be 60 years old January 20, 2015. I need to get healthy. This year my doctor told me I'm pre-diabetic. In March my A1C was 6.3, thru some dieting and exercising I was able to get it down to 6.0 which is still prediabetic. I have had high cholesterol for probably 30+ years (I take medication), non-alcoholic fatty liver (which will eventually attack my liver just like liver scerosis), vericose veins, tingling in hands & feet, high blood pressure, sleep apnea (never diagnosed but I wake up gasping for air), short of breath, lots of arthritis in my joints that hurt more due to obesity. I tell people during my adult life time I've lost about 1,000 lbs and gained 1,100 lbs. I'm sure I've screwed up my metabolism and it's time to do something to get healthy before I find myself taking insulin shots and all the complications that come with diabetes and the other chronic ailments I have. I mentioned to my Dr. that I was seriously thinking about the Gastric sleeve procedure (after my diabetic class in his office) hoping he wouldn't think I'm lazy since I can't lose the weight. He totally surprised me when he told me he agreed 100% that it was the best option out there for me to lose & maintain my weight for the rest of my life. I was gifted some money from my Mom which will pay the $18,000 I've been quoted by St. Mary's Hospital in Grand Rapids, MI so I can have the surgery 30 miles from home. I have friends who have gone thru them and are extremely happy with the outcome. I have filled out the paperwork, have had many of the required tests done, my insurance will not cover this surgery so no waiting there. I'm going to their free seminar on Aug. 9th (1 week away) and hope to be able to move ahead quickly. I've asked my husband to go with me and hope he will to understand the process. After my TT he said "no more surgeries" so I want to get him involved and excited for me. I'm sure I'll be blogging alot like I did with my other 2 surgeries. I don't anticipate having nearly the pain/problems with this that I did my TT 16 months ago.

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I've been given a great review from a friend who had this surgery. She loved her surgeon Dr. Baker who is with Grand Health Parnters weight management team. After looking at their 4 partner doctor reviews I know they are all very, very qualified in this procedure. My free seminar was conduced by Dr. James A. Foote, M.D.,FACS-General Bariatric Surgery today and I have decided on having him do my surgery.

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November 25, 2014
I too, will be 60 years old in 2015. I made the decision about a month ago to have the Gastric Sleeve done. My insurance has a 6 month waiting period with a lot of classes during those 6 mos. My 6 mo. started on the 11th of this month.. so I figure I am looking at May for the surgery. I , like you , suffer from HBP, Pre Diabetic, varicose veins, depression, sleep apnea and acid re flux, and from there I can't remember the other symptoms i have.. Since I decided to have the surgery I think I have gained 20lbs onn top of my small short frame... well you get the picture. I am excited about the surgery and know that after I see the surgeon next week and start my nutrition classes I will be a much happier person. I know it is not going to be easy but I have to do something just to feel better. Look forward to your seeing how you do on your journey since it appears you and i will be on the same trail. :) Good Luck! Keep Me posted.
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November 26, 2014
Kyme: So glad you also made this decision. I feel at our age it's not "too late" to be healthier, have more energy and look good. I'm no longer prediabetic and only take a low blood pressure pill to keep pressure off my heart and my heart murmur (valve issue). I feel great and have to admit I love all the compliments from people who haven't seen me in awhile. Do what your surgeons office says and lose as much as you you can on their presurgery plans so your insurance will pay. I've had people tell me if you gain during that period their insurance wouldn't pay....don't let that happen to you. It's the weight loss that's important not just the surgery. The surgery helps you eat much less. If you have food issues now would be a great time to work those out because you will have 'emotional' things still going on in your life and you won't be able to always turn to food for comfort after surgery. Also losing weight the next 6 months is great, the surgery will just be the tool to take off the last of the weight you want. Can you post your story , before pictures & your journey? I look back over my story often to remember what was going on at different phases of my journey. Take care, Judy
November 26, 2014
Hi Kyme.... You picked a great girl to talk to. Another WLS patient (Mari & myself) found Judy early in September and have been in constant contact with her. Judy had hers done in Sept, Mari had Lap Band in October and I'm having VSG on Dec. 8th. A lot of our decision making was with the help of Judy! Mari is in her 60's and I will be 63 in May. My only regret is not getting this done sooner. I'm terribly excited for Dec. 8th to come. Like a lot of gals our age we have a ton of ailments that I'm sure this surgery will help aleve. I had a massive heart attack in Aug. of 2013, have high blood pressure and a host of other ailments. I can't wait to be healthy again and not carry around this tonnage. I started my 2 week pre-op liquid diet this past Monday. It's extremely hard but I'm so determined to lose a little before surgery. The more you lose, the better for your liver and for recovery. I thank Judy everyday for having the courage to post her story and her pictures. She is truly an inspiration. Good Luck to you and Happy Thanksgiving ~ Kim
November 27, 2014
Thank you Judy & Kim. I will try to do before and after and try to post as I go. However.. I have just over 5 1/2 mos to go before I have surgery and? I have all that testing to be done.. although some of it I had done before I had decided to have the GS . I am not the greatest person to write a journal but I will try to stay connected as I am sure I am going to need lots of support from those of you that have had it done. I look forward to hearing from you guys.. and I wish you a very Happy and Blessed Thanksgiving.
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November 27, 2014
Aw thanks Kim. I don't have all the answers but I'll tell it to you straight. Won't be long now (11 days) before you reach the other side yourself. How about some 'before pictures'?
January 6, 2018
Hello. I'm a 58-year-old woman who has been overweight all of her life. I currently have high BP, sleep apnea (on a CPAP machine), high cholesterol, diabetes (at one time was taking 5 shots a day), Trulicity shots once a week as well as being on an oral med. I am in constant pain all over my body (fibromyalgia) and my knees are shot. The orthopedic doctor told me I have bone-on-bone arthritis. I can barely walk anymore and my husband has to drive me everywhere. I have to ride in electric carts in the stores. Plus I've already had major back surgery from blowing out a disk in my back which I'm sure was also attributed to my weight. So as you can see, I am a MAJOR candidate for weight loss surgery. Up until now, I have always made excuses for my weight and basically just took a pill, shot, or whatever to get by. My quality of life is horrible at this point. I am WAY too young to be having all of these medical issues. After I saw the orthopedic physician, he suggestion was to lose weight as that would take a lot of the stress off of my knees. Previously I was single, on disability and had no insurance other than Medicare so they would not pay for the surgery. I am currently married now to a wonderful man who has really good insurance. I have been debating this surgery for years now and have finally decided to take the plunge, mainly for my health sake. My husband wants me around for years to come and I know that wouldn't happen unless I had this surgery. I have been going through all the insurance "hoops" and I finally got a scheduled date for my surgery. It is scheduled for January 23. I am excited but also a bit scared too, as I have always been overweight my whole life and this will be a whole lifestyle change for me. I am currently 5'3" and 260 pounds. My surgeon anticipates that I will probably lose about 100 pounds after the surgery. I am just scared that after I go through all of this, I'm going to put the weight back on. I do attend a support group that is offered through my surgeon's office which helps tremendously. I also have my husband who is my support system. I have met naysayers who tell me horror stories about people they know who have had the surgery and something bad happened. But I have also met a lot of people who tell me positive stories about people they know who have had the surgery and kept the weight off. So I try and focus on that. My only thought is after I have the surgery and lose all the weight, I probably will look like a hot mess with all the sagging skin. I have already talked to my surgeon about this and he said I may need a tummy tuck and other body contour surgery (which isn't covered by insurance). So I guess I'd better start saving my pennies now. I have heard that is a pretty rough surgery. If any others out there have had removal of extra skin after weight loss surgery, please post your experiences .... good or bad. I am currently taking it day by day and have started a diet and lost 10 pounds so far. The surgeon wanted me to lose 13 pounds before my surgery so I have 3 more pounds to go. I hope all goes well with my surgery and I definitely will be posting my "journey" as I go along.
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I've never minded having my picture taken, even thou I've been a big woman most my life. I know many big women hide from the camera and wear dark clothes-not me. I believe big women can dress well and carry themselves proudly. Hope that self-confidence comes thru in my pictures. I'm looking forward to having my pictures taken after I lose weight.

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August 4, 2014
Good luck. I'm sixty five and am just waiting for clearance. Hopefully gastric bypass will happen in a few weeks! God Bless and take care of you!
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August 4, 2014
Good luck Mchapa98....hope you receive approval soon.
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August 4, 2014
Thank you. I did the psych and nutritionist today. Waiting for doctors to fax reports in. Getting anxious about the length of time everything takes!
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August 6, 2014
I know it's hard once you've made up your mind. I'm going to free seminar on Saturday and already wish I had a date (next week preferred) for my surgery. Hope you hear soon Mchapa98.
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August 6, 2014
Thanks, i will let you know! Everything moves so slow!
August 4, 2014
Welcome and thanks for sharing your journey with us!

Good luck with the seminar, I hope it goes well! Please do let us know how you get on. I'll send you a PM and help you with the photos.
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August 4, 2014
Thank-you. As you can see with my previous reviews I didn't have trouble loading pictures before. I'm using the same camera and same technique this time.
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August 9, 2014
God Be with you at all times due this gastri sleeve, my cousin did 6 months ago and lost about 50 pounds, you going to be fine. keep us update and thank you for share your experiences with us.
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August 9, 2014
Always glad to hear of success stories. I've talked to many people who know of someone who has done well with this surgery. I'm very excited to be on the way to a healthier me.
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August 10, 2014
:-), you are a great woman, always possitive and happy no matter what life throw you, you handle it, you are and inspiration for all of us. Thanks
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August 10, 2014
Thank you for the compliment but I'm not always positive...but do try. I was lucky to be able to retire 2-1/2 years ago and my husband supports me 100%. I've thought of this time as a 'bonus' being able to spend time with grandchildren (6 and almost 5), do more traveling and exercising than I ever could do being a Bank Manager like I did for 14 years. I had some problems with my plastic surgeries. After breast reduction I had MIRSA (not my 1st time) and after my tummy tuck...alot of things went wrong. So I see why my husband is leary of me having more surgery. This time though it is for my health and to help me live longer and enjoy our life together. Without this surgery my prediabetes will continue until I'm taking pills & insulin. I'm ready to be a thin person for the rest of my life, I'm truly blessed to be able to afford this surgery when my insurance has an exclusion on bariatric surgeries. I know my quality of life will be better from here going forward. Thanks Triguena, I'll try to keep it positive for you.
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August 11, 2014
My happy lady ask God for help with your husband, he need to see that this upcoming surgery is for you health, and you have to keep up with your grandchildren, enjoy then that the best gift that God can give you because is the fruit of your fruits, but l think this time is different because you have the experiences already with the MRSA bacteria and have to be extra carefully, l will be praying for you to clear your path and remember that God is with you always walking hand on hand with you and your husband. Please keep us update, Good luck
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August 9, 2014
My name is Mari...
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August 9, 2014
Hi Mari.
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August 21, 2014
Ok, getting closer. I have a Sept. 4th date for the gall bladder sonogram and endoscopy. That's it. Hopefully I will get surgery date soon after 9/4...so excited.
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November 10, 2014
you sound like a beautiful lady. love your attitude. good luck with you journey.
November 10, 2014
Hi, Mary, thankyou, I am still on my prep diet...RNY, Hopefully on the 4th of December....cant get enough of your pictures, like a guiding light...regards from South Africa, JUDY
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November 10, 2014
Thanks Judy, hope you're having good weight loss now and you should have a great weight loss beofre Dec. 4th also. I'm glad you're watching, let me know if I can help in anyway.
November 11, 2014
Thankyou, appreciate xx
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November 12, 2014
Ali: Thanks so much. There's so many wonderful things to live for in life and I'm trying to enjoy all of them. Take care, Judy
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November 14, 2014
exactly Judy! I hear you! even walking in the park and breathing fresh air is awesome. I love fall! winter, spring.......ha ha ha good luck with your journey!
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November 15, 2014
Ali: I love the seasons (I live in Michigan) but I'm a little over "winter" already and it's just started. I'm glad we're not along the lake shore where they've already had many inches of snow already, sounds like we'll get a few inches over the next few days....brrrrr.
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Raring to go more than ever.......

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My husband & I attended free seminar regarding gastric surgeries. I was the first person thru the door to register (after sitting in front of the building 30 min. waiting for them to open), I sat in front row (the only one) in front of our speaker Dr. Foote who is one of 4 bariatric surgeon at Grand Health Partners. With 4 partners there is always a bariatric surgeon on call. There's no need to go to the ER with complications. He went thru the different procedures and explained they take out more gastric bands than they put in since gastric sleeve works so well. He said he can complete gastric sleeve surgery in 1 hour and 17 minutes. The practice has done 8,000 gastic procedures. He had graphs showing the patient satisfaction percentages for each procedure. He gave me alot of confidence. They have before & after support classes. They will not do surgery on anyone who has mental issues or who smoke (they do nicotine testing) since this hinders healing and can lead to a host of health issues. Their practice does require the 2 week liquid diet before surgery. They will have follow-up appointments with me 3, 6, 12, 18 mos. and annually for the rest of my life. I can also continue to attend any of their support classes that I want. I like having support after my surgery 30 min. from my home. This is one of the reasons I'm not willing to fly off to Mexico for this procedure. They complete their surgeries at St. Mary's Hospital where each person has a private room and will stay 1-2 days. He said in our area 99% of their surgeries are covered by health insurance once you jump thru all the insurance hoops. I'm definantly the 1% minority doing self-pay. My husband attended with me and is on my side to have the surgery since my general practicianer endorsed this weight loss surgery 100% to help with my co-obesity chronic health issues. I've been ordering my supplies: 2 different kinds of whey protein, biotin, liquacel, torani syrups, gummy vitamins, vitamin D, calorie-protein-carb book and high protein/low carb protein bars. I'm calling Monday morning to start lining up the psych test and to review what medical tests I need before I can have the surgery. I would like to be on top of everything and be scheduled for surgery with in 1 month. That would give me 4 mos. to lose as much weight as possible before I turn the BIG 60.

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