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36G, Hoping to Go to 36C/D, Ben Chew, Glasgow
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Hi everyone! I've had large breasts for as long...
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Hi everyone!
I've had large breasts for as long as I can remember. Runs in my family, being top-heavy, with narrow hips which makes me look like I'm about to topple over! I developed young, and have been dealing with being huge-chested for so long that the time has come to do something about it. I have the same complaints as so many of you here - back and neck pain, absolutely horrendous posture, grooves in my shoulders, and probably worst of all is the complete lack of self confidence.
I'd heard of Ben Chew through years of research, and of friends and relatives having been treated by him and raved of the results. So much so that I had my consultation on Wednesday 28th June, and he was a lovely man as expected. Lurking on RealSelf for such a long time has helped with all the basic questions but Ben did a great job of putting my mind at ease and I'm provisionally booked in for 23rd Feb 2018 - man is in demand!
With a date finally put in the diary the whole thing feels real now, although it is quite a while away I think this is a positive thing as it gives me time to lose a little more weight. My weight has fluctuated due to a bout of severe depression and consequent medication issues (although my cup size didn't change one bit) so this will give me time to focus more on eating healthy and exercising before the procedure. And of course fantasising about beautiful lacy bras - that will just have to wait!
Any hints and tips you ladies can give in the lead up to the big day are much appreciated. I will post photos of course, and look forward to getting to know some of you!
PSBx
I've had large breasts for as long as I can remember. Runs in my family, being top-heavy, with narrow hips which makes me look like I'm about to topple over! I developed young, and have been dealing with being huge-chested for so long that the time has come to do something about it. I have the same complaints as so many of you here - back and neck pain, absolutely horrendous posture, grooves in my shoulders, and probably worst of all is the complete lack of self confidence.
I'd heard of Ben Chew through years of research, and of friends and relatives having been treated by him and raved of the results. So much so that I had my consultation on Wednesday 28th June, and he was a lovely man as expected. Lurking on RealSelf for such a long time has helped with all the basic questions but Ben did a great job of putting my mind at ease and I'm provisionally booked in for 23rd Feb 2018 - man is in demand!
With a date finally put in the diary the whole thing feels real now, although it is quite a while away I think this is a positive thing as it gives me time to lose a little more weight. My weight has fluctuated due to a bout of severe depression and consequent medication issues (although my cup size didn't change one bit) so this will give me time to focus more on eating healthy and exercising before the procedure. And of course fantasising about beautiful lacy bras - that will just have to wait!
Any hints and tips you ladies can give in the lead up to the big day are much appreciated. I will post photos of course, and look forward to getting to know some of you!
PSBx
UPDATED FROM psb09120
7 months pre
Telling the colleagues
So after confirming my surgery (I emailed Ben to confirm after he had pencilled me in provisionally but haven't had any confirmation since, taking that it's all booked in) I've let my work know what's happening. I spoke with my manager in private and let him know I was having an op and that it was to help with back pain etc. Was quite nervous about it actually! He was very good about it, which didn't surprise me as he's the nicest guy. I was worried about the time off required afterwards, though, as my job is very hectic and I feel bad even taking holidays, so I'm sure I'll be expected to work from home, even when I'm laid up.
Speaking to HR was fine, too, and they just suggested that after the procedure I keep in touch with how I'm getting on. I live and work in London and am going back to Glasgow to have it done to be with family etc. However, now the nerves have kicked in about everyone else asking where I am whilst I'm away for an extended period of time. I'll be signed off for four weeks (probably not taking that full time) but I don't want everyone in the office knowing. Not that I'm ashamed or anything, quite the opposite. I just don't want to explain to every single person who asks where I've been. So my decision is to keep it vague with "I'm having surgery for my back", which is true, in essence.
Overthinking is a terrible thing, sometimes! Only 7 more months of this.
Speaking to HR was fine, too, and they just suggested that after the procedure I keep in touch with how I'm getting on. I live and work in London and am going back to Glasgow to have it done to be with family etc. However, now the nerves have kicked in about everyone else asking where I am whilst I'm away for an extended period of time. I'll be signed off for four weeks (probably not taking that full time) but I don't want everyone in the office knowing. Not that I'm ashamed or anything, quite the opposite. I just don't want to explain to every single person who asks where I've been. So my decision is to keep it vague with "I'm having surgery for my back", which is true, in essence.
Overthinking is a terrible thing, sometimes! Only 7 more months of this.
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July 9, 2017
Bens on holiday for 4 weeks! I never heard anything for a while after my consultation.. as in 2 months before surgery so don't worry about that! Ross hall will Send you out a conformation they only book so long in advance due to what he works ( well that was my situation with his rosta )

July 9, 2017
So he is! I forgot about that! Before my consultation the Nuffield called me asking if I could change my appointment as he was going away on holiday and I think I was his last slot in the diary before going away. Should have thought of that one!
July 9, 2017
I am booked in with Ben too, mine is October 30th. I had my first consultation May 18th and just received confirmation letter from Ross Hall. You will hear from them, I guess that's just how they work. I think I will be using your line too going forwards "I'm having surgery for my back"
July 9, 2017
I only told a couple of people at work, and took a week and a half off to 'go on holiday' (you have the perfect excuse as you are actually going away), and then worked from home for the next week before I went back to the office. I looked very different (I thought) but no one mentioned it apart from a woman who asked if I'd lost weight! Either the guys didn't even notice (most likely) or they didn't like to say anything ;-). Either way there was no drama!
July 9, 2017
That is exactly what i told my boss. It's true- it is to help my back. Did tell one friend at work with a big mouth so im sure everyone knows lol. I am 9 days post op now and going back tomorrow. Bit nervous about what/if people will say anything. I am definitely not ashamed of the surgery and nor do I care what people think about it. Just shy and rather not talk about boobs with colleagues...
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