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So Nervous, but This is Much Needed!

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Hi Ladies! I have been following many of your...

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Blessed14Ever

Hi Ladies! I have been following many of your stories for a while now, and I have always wanted a breast reduction, but could never muster up the ability to go through with it. I've always been so nervious or to be accurate, AFRAID. As the years pasted I began to have all this physical problems. I would get bad headaches, back pain, neck pain, GERD, and even breathing problems. My large breast begin to interfere with my daily life. I could barely funtion, it also contributated to by bad posture. Around the beginning of this year I went to see a PS. To be completly honest I did not know my actual bra size, but I believe I am a 42 G or H!! During my consultation my PS was very nice. He took some measurements and the nurse some pictures. I ask him if he a custom to reducing large breast such as mine, and he informed me that he had done breast larger. I felt somewhat better, but I could not imaging having surgery electively.

I am so nervious about the risk of surgery, and being put under Gen. Ana. for such a long period of time, and the risk of blood clots. Am I the only one how has these fears??? I am currently trying to put all my fears aside and walk in total faith. Well to make a long story short, I was going to bring all my documentation to my PS office which included my chiro., physical therap., neuro., massage therp., but before I could my PS office called be and told me based on my photos and the information that they submitted by insur. would cover! That is a blessing, but I'm still so nervious. I have my pre-op appt in 2 weeks, please pray that I will have the strengh to be strong and follow through, I don't want to miss out on an excellent opportunity! I will upload pics soon. Be Blessed!!!

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May 2, 2012

Welcome to RealSelf, Blessed! Thanks for the review.

Your fears and anxieties are totally normal! I could have talked myself out of surgery even as they were wheeling me into the operating room :-)

With only a couple of weeks to go you don't have to be brave and strong for much longer. Just remember all of the reasons that you want to have this done. If your insurance company approved you without all of the supplemental documentation then you must really need it done.

When you get too nervous or anxious holler out to us. We are all here to cheer you on and support us. Feel free to post on anyones reviews. It is a great way to get to know people and to ask your questions. And all of the girls are so good at offering advice and support!
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May 2, 2012
Thank you sooooo much for the encouragement !
May 8, 2012
Good advice Iowa!
May 4, 2012
You're doing the right thing! I'll tell you this - I only had a small reduction (DD to B/C) and I feel a world of difference - light as a feather. I can't imagine a G/H and the relief you'll feel. It is 100% worth it. Don't look back. You won't regret it. Be excited! Best of luck! :-)
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May 4, 2012
Thank You aswell Kate!
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May 5, 2012
I am a major chicken, but I know I need a BR. I started to blossom at 14 wearing a 32D. Now at 54 years of age I am a 36DD. I am 5'3 135 and too top heavy. I really notice my breast size during the summer. Bathing suits are a pain to find for these big saggy girls and I always feel so self conscious in tank tops! Moving forward ~ I saw a PS. He said he would remove anywhere from 600 - 800g per breast! The paper work has been submitted and according to the PS assistant there should be no problem with an approval by the end of 5/12. May be even sooner. I can acutally have the surgery in mid June 2012. I am praying that I won't chicken out! The post-op stuff creeps me out with the pain meds (I don't like the way they make me feel) and the removal of the drains. My PS said it was a "piece of cake" since I would have a novacane pump put in during my surgery and then removed 3 days afterwards. My husband is backing me up with whatever I decide. He will be my babysitter/nurse for the duration of my recovery. What a guy! So, should I let the chicken part of me win and cancel this process or should I woman-up and move forward! HELP!
May 5, 2012

My vote is to "woman-up" Sandrina! I'm so glad I had mine. And by the time he removes your pain pump Tylenol should cover most of your discomfort. Most women don't have tons of pain, more just an uncomfortable tightness. I know you can do it!
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May 5, 2012
Thanks!
May 8, 2012
You aren't the only chicken, I am one too! I was so calm during the whole process of surgery but the pre-op, that was the part that freaked me out. But just remember that your quality of life will be much better after doing this. Even though it is major surgery, it really and truly is a piece of cake. The pain isn't near the pain you are probably dealing with on a day to day basis now. I'm so glad I did it. Believe in yourself & your doctor and know that you are doing the right thing. You are gonna thank yourself!
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May 6, 2012
I am beginning to feel more comfortable everyday about my surgery. I'm trying to focus on the positive instead of the negative. This site has helped me calm a lot of my anxieties and fears. I have faith that whatever we decide to do we will be fine. It's all about your mindset.
May 8, 2012
Wish I had found this site before my surgery! My niece had it done back in December and the night before my surgery she called and gave me a pep talk cause I was two seconds from talking myself out of doing it. The pre-op is the worst because it's all of the "this can happen, this might happen, etc...". You have to put all of that out of your head and trust that God is gonna take care of you and it will be the best thing you have ever done. I will be praying for you. All my friends and family prayed and I think that's why I had totally and complete peace all the way to the OR. You will be fine!
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May 9, 2012
I could not agree more with you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for you widsom. God bless you.....
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2 days pre

Two days left! I'm not as nervous as before....

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Two days left! I'm not as nervous as before. However, I've been having tension headaches since Sunday. I'm kind of ready to get this over with so I can began the healing process. I will take off from week for six weeks to ensure I am able to recover properly. I pray that my surgery will go flawless!!! As well as my results.... lol.

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May 17, 2012
Hi Blessed! I want to wish you the very best of luck tomorrow. I share your EXACT fears, but keep reminding myself we stand a better chance of being in a plane crash than having those things happen...kind of puts things in perspective. You're going to be so happy relieved when, this time tomorrow, you're done and already healing. And how perfect that you have 6 weeks off to heal! You've set yourself up for a great recovery. Will be thinking of you tomorrow. Can't wait to hear from you afterwards whenever when you're up to it! Good luck tomorrow...but you won't need it. You're going to be just FINE! All the best.
May 17, 2012

Good luck tomorrow, Blessed! I'm so excited for you. Will be anxious to hear how you did during surgery. Give yourself time to rest and when you feel up to it let us know how you are feeling!
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Day of treatment

Thank you Jesus! I made it. I'm bleeding a little...

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Thank you Jesus! I made it. I'm bleeding a little at the drain entrance,is that noacermal? I did not take the anti-nausea medicine I haven't been nauseous. As of now I feel good pain, not really pain more like discomfort is manageable. Keep getting sleepy! Oh and they look lovely not a B cup that the Lord, they r swollen so I will probably be a D or large C.

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May 19, 2012

WooHoo, Blessed! Glad to hear from you! A bit of bleeding is normal, but if you are soaking a gauze pad you should call your PS. It is totally normal to be very sleepy for awhile as the anesthesia stays in your system for quite some time. Rest when your body tells you to, as that is one trigger that your body needs to spend its energy on healing.  Good luck and keep us posted on your progress!
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May 19, 2012
I just read my previous comment and start laughing at all the grammar errors!!! For the next few days please work with me.....lol. Iowa, it is a small gauze that soaked up the blood, but has eased up some. If it continues of worsens I will definately call. I can't figure out how to post picutes.....I will trh again later.