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SMAS Facelift and Upper Blepharoplasty - 52 years old

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Facelift and Upper Blepharoplasty

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I had my surgery on 12/15/2020. I am 52 years old and had been extremely unhappy with my neck since my early.mid 40’s, I felt my neck was aging 10-years ahead of my face and it was really bringing me down. In the last three years, I also started to notice sagging and heaviness in my lower face that I was also unhappy with. I went through menopause at 49/50 and it really kicked my ass. I feel like I started to age even more rapidly once I went through that transition even on HRT. Then there was COVID and the daily zoom calls that called attention even more to my aging face and neck. I decided to turn lemons into lemonade and use this COVID thing and mounting vacation days to have this surgery. Even though I was recovering during the holidays I had every excuse to hide from the world and no business travel to worry about as an added bonus. I decided, now is the time as these unique circumstances will not be here forever.

During my consultation Dr Toft said my neck was definitely ready, I was a little early to do my face but I had enough loose skin for him to do my face if I wanted to. I decided to do it all at once and I am really glad I did as now that i am gong through this, I would not want to go through this again in the next few years and I wanted to turn back the clock at the same pace for both my neck and face. Obviously, if I waited longer the results would be more pronounced but then again, I would be looking in the mirror and hating how I looked for more years leading up to it. Bottom line, i am so glad I decided to do both face and neck as recovery will be the same. I did my old lady eyelids as an added bonus as this was something else bothering me.

I have been considering this surgery for over a year and after a friend had the same surgery with Dr. Toft and I saw her results, I knew it was only a matter of time. I chose Dr. Toft based on her results and his good reputation. He only does facial work and has done hundreds in reality, thousands of these procedures. I also liked that they have their own surgical suite. I knew I was in good hands.

I was under local anesthesia for the surgery and I did not even feel a pin prick. I was on the table for about three-hours. So if you are worried about the surgery, forget about it.. it was nothing and before you know it, the process is over. The hard work comes after but considering how extensive the surgery is, the recovery is really fast.

I was prescribed opiate based pain killers which I had never taken before and also two lines of defense of anti-nausea meds. Unfortunately, I did get sick twice from the pain killers, despite the first line of defense of anti-nausea medicine, which really sucked as one of the most pronounced symptoms you will have is an extreme tightness in your neck from the muscles being tightened underneath. No fun to throw up. I took the pain killers for two days only and honestly, felt a lot better once they were out of my system. I would say I was never in strong pain but I was uncomfortable, especially for the first three days.

I was very swollen and it seemed to peak at three days post op for me and then start to come down. Your neck will be extremely tight to the point that it is hard to move your jaw and you must eat soft foods for the first few days. My neck tightness started to loosen up after about a week but even two-weeks out, I still have tightness. After one week I felt remarkably well and two weeks even better. I had surgery on Tuesday and went back to work on Monday. I am in my home office and many were out for the holidays so it worked out great. I would not have wanted to show myself in person in an office that soon but under these conditions, it worked out great. I went out in public six days post op with some cover up on my lower eyes. The upper blepharoplasty didn’t hurt at all but did cause quite a bit of visible bruising on my eyelids and even under my eyes. That was the most visible sign that i had “something” done.

Two-weeks post op I am feeling great. I still have a lot of tightness and swelling in my neck under my chin. My face swelling has mostly subsided. I did underestimate the healing from the upper blepharoplasty as I still have some spotty bruises on my eyelids and under my eye. When I bruise it takes a long time to clear up. Also, my eyelids feel some numbness and heaviness as the incisions are healing. This will go away in the coming weeks. I put on makeup yesterday for the first time since the procedure but I did not like how my makeup went on my lids so I think I will go sans makeup for another week or so and allow more time to heal.

In summary, I am still going through the healing process but am already happy with what i am seeing. I am thrilled that I made this decision and can move forward with the rest of my life with a fresh look. The Dr. did recommend fat transfer to my face for me but I have little fat to take. I am quite lean which unfortunately doesn’t help my face to look any younger. I am going to likely do some fillers a few months down the road once I feel completely recovered. I will add some additional pictures over the next several weeks as I continue to heal.

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Kenneth M. Toft, MD

Kenneth M. Toft, MD

Board Certified Facial Plastic Surgeon

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Replies (8)

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January 8, 2021
Hi, I really appreciate your video updates so I can see a face in motion. You look amazing! I have been considering a face/neck lift and have a Consultation on the 18th. I just don’t wanna book different or weird, just rested, and less saggy around the jaw. Speedy healing, keep those updates coming
January 10, 2021
Thank you so much. I think with modem technique you don’t have to worry about an unnatural result. I am going to post another update this week. I think I still look completely like myself just a lot better and not so tired. People will likely not know you had anything done unless you tell them they will be trying to figure out why you look so...”rested”.
January 9, 2021
You look beautiful!
January 10, 2021
Thank you!
January 23, 2021
You look wonderful and you really healed fast. I appreciate your comprehensive review and video. Nice to know how tight the neck and mouth will be. Too bad your doctor is up in Roseville. Would have been nice to find a doc here in the East Bay who only specializes in faces.
February 3, 2021
I am sure there is someone great in your area. Some people fly across the country to get this surgery done but I have to say I was glad to be close to home and in my own bed for recovery.
February 1, 2021
Did you have any aftercare facial fluid massage done. My surgeon suggest doing as fluid can build up and cause lumps if you don’t get it out?
February 3, 2021
I didn’t but I know others who did and said it helped to speed up the healing process and reduced swelling.
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27 days post

30-Day Update

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I just uploaded an updated video. Feeling great and so happy I had this done. I upped my workouts last week and plan to slowly continue to ramp up my activity level. I am still healing and have some swelling and tightness but doing great. See my video for more details.

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January 16, 2021
Thank you so much! This was very helpful! I am having my procedure Tuesday this week. I am having upper and lower bleph, neck, and lower facelift with fat transfer in the cheek.
January 16, 2021
Good luck! I am glad this was helpful to you.
January 19, 2021
How is the numbness? I had same procedures on 10/21/20 and I am still very numb neck and sides of face.
January 21, 2021
I am still definitely numb along the sides of my face and under my chin. From my understanding it can take months for this to resolve itself.
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1 month post

Almost 5-weeks post op

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I saw the Dr for my month check up and he told me I was not being assertive enough scrubbing where my incisions were and I have more scabbing then I should which will create bigger scars. He told me not to worry about them opening and I admit I have been overly tentative. I still think my incisions around my ears are healing phenomenally well. I showed a friend up close last night and she claimed she couldn’t see them. Regardless, I am taking the doctors advice and being more aggressive scrubbing the area. I am going back to weight training today and have been running on my treadmill at a lower intensity since my three-week post op point. I still feel tightness and swelling under my neck and am numb around my jaw line and the sides of my face. I think this will take a few more weeks to go away. Overall everything feels good.

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January 21, 2021
wow you look amazing. I have a consultation this month. I am scared of the procedure.
January 21, 2021
I hope reading these reviews will help make it less scary for you.
January 21, 2021
I hope my experience will make this less scary for you! Good luck!
January 22, 2021
Thanks for sharing your review. I’m here in Sacramento and had planned on scheduling a consult with Dr. Toft for a neck lift so it was good to see your review. I’m contemplating doing local rather than general anesthesia mainly due to cost. Are you awake with the local?
January 22, 2021
I was under local so you are semi awake but honestly I remember very little and didn’t even feel a pin prick! I could hear them taking in the operating room but everything is very foggy. It is over before you know it. I am not sure he does general or if he does it is not his preferred approach.
January 23, 2021
Thank you!
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January 22, 2021
I am so encouraged by your journey, I booked mine for April 13th! I am excited and nervous, I’m sure you went through all the emotions as well. The few people I have told are very supportive, so that too is encouraging... thanks for the updates!