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lafano
WORTH IT$15,100
I am 65 years young (on the inside) and 65 on the outside. I have been toying with the idea of a facelift vs fillers but I've tried fillers and they are so short term. Some days I don't mind my face and other days I pass a mirror and I am horrified. I'm semi retired but hope to have a few good years left and would like to face them with a good face! Like everyone else I read about, I'm a little nervous and hope and pray for a good outcome. I don't expect or want to look like I'm 30, I would just like to upgrade my current condition. :) My lower face lift surgery is scheduled for later this month. I am hoping that you ladies out there who have been through this will give me any tips you have on making this surgery comfortable...well as comfortable as possible. I have consulted with a few surgeons and chose Dr Bapna in Dublin Ohio. I have visited his office twice and will again before surgery. He's a very nice man and comes highly recommended. All suggestions welcome! I'm not sure I have the nerve to show my face on here as I have seen complains that people share screen shot pics out of meaness. (Jealous maybe?) But bear with me and maybe I can at least do some neck and chin shots.

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Sumit Bapna, MD

Sumit Bapna, MD

Board Certified Facial Plastic Surgeon

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January 6, 2019
Welcome to the community, I'm so glad you're here! I wish you well on your journey and I hope you find lots of support here. And thank you for your willingness to share photos, it's much appreciated. 
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January 10, 2019
Thank you! I am so grateful for all the ladies who have gone before me and passed down their wisdom!
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January 29, 2020
Congratulations on your decision. I think it is a good time to take action whilst you still have some skin elasticity. I'm not really clear what a lower face lift is: I had a face lift, plus upper blepharoplasty. I don't know why your eyes are like at this stage- but I would advise to think about whether or not they need attention. I advise this because a FL is like a house renovation: after you repaint, you notice that the carpet need replacing! Don't be afraid to take some selfies: I found that looking at mine really reinforced my decision. I m just 3 weeks post, and it definitely takes time to recover-but I have no regrets at all! Good luck to you !
January 8, 2019
Oh keep posting. I too am 65 and having it done I. A few weeks. Excited to see your results.
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January 10, 2019
I will keep you all informed. I went for my last pre visit today. It's really happening! Good luck to you, too!
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February 10, 2019
How EXCITING! Are you going to post pictures? I’m in my sixties too, and I’m having a brow lift and upper bleph on February 25th. Good luck to you. Sending you hugs and healing vibes
January 9, 2019
I am too, but not ready for the surgery...a little afraid.....
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January 10, 2019
At this point, I can say I wish I had done it sooner. I think the sooner the better if you think you need some work done. It's like maintenance on a car. I don't want my carburetor to blow!
January 9, 2019
I totally understand you’re nervousness. I was too, but had my lower face and neck lift done 2 years ago at age 66. I’m really glad I did. I have a much more attractive and younger neck, and no jowls! The first few days are the hardest. There isn’t any pain, it’s just the swelling makes it feel like you are wearing a mask. But this will pass after a few days. I’m having a TT in a few weeks and am a little nervous about that. Good Luck and you’ll be happy you did!
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January 10, 2019
Thank you for your support! I told my doctor I'm nervous but not really about the pain. He said that today's anesthesia is very safe. Let's hope that's true!
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January 12, 2019
PS Good luck to you, too!
UPDATED FROM lafano
5 days pre

A woman in waiting. Well, sort of...

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lafano
Less than a week to go! My goal at this point is to stock up on the (right) food and avoid anyone who is sick. I'm actually spending a lot of time at home for that reason. It seems like the last minute lists are long. I had my teeth cleaned, bought all kinds of comfy clothes that probably make me look like my grandmother (but that will change!) and loading books onto my Kindle. I appreciate all the tips and have made an obsessive list of does and don'ts. I'm so lucky to have a supportive husband who said "go for it!" right from the beginning. Or maybe he thinks I need it...lol! In any event, I feel like I'm a woman in waiting. I just wish it was over. Will post more when I have something real to say. :) Keep the tips and comments coming ladies. It's going to be a long few days!

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UPDATED FROM lafano
4 days pre

Booked a Hotel!

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lafano
My husband and I decided to stay in a hotel the evening after surgery since we would have to go back in for an appointment the next day and it's a 3 hour trip to Dublin Ohio. If anyone else has stayed in a hotel the night off, any tips? It seems no hotel has a recliner in the room and I think they should since we are staying in a hotel close to the hospital. I packed all my overnight stuff this morning. I hope I didn't forget anything. Am I being obsessive or is there a lot of prep to this. lol!

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January 12, 2019
I have and honestly, if you can, I recommend spending that first night in the hospital. I found pain control very difficult that first night.
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January 13, 2019
Did you doctor give you pain medication?
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January 13, 2019
Yes but they didnt do a lot the first 2 days. Hospital gives IV.
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January 12, 2019
Thank you for that. I am worried about that first night. I have not asked about a hospital stay and my doctor did not bring it up. I'll call Monday. I'm not sure how much money that would add but it's worth asking.
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January 13, 2019
It ran me 940/night
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January 13, 2019
Worth it imho
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January 14, 2019
Yes, it would be worth it, I'm sure!
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January 21, 2019
You were 100% right. I do not believe that my doctor wants his patients to stay in the hospital overnight but it would have been the best thing. I had a horrible recovery that day and vomited for hours and felt terrible. So yes to the ladies out there who have not done this yet talk adamantly to your doctor about an extra night's stay.
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January 21, 2019
I am sorry to hear you had to learn this the hard way but glad you are doing better now :)
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January 21, 2019
Me too. :(