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Radio Frequency Treatment Ruined my Life!!!! Elmhurst, NY

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Hopeless08 December 21, 2014 I had 2 radio...

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Hopeless08
December 21, 2014
I had 2 radio frequency treatments done with a machine called Endymed 3 deep.I had them done one week apart from each other over my buttocks hips and thighs and lost all the fat I had. So much fat loss that it looks deformed. I have dents on buttocks, uneven lumpiness and some areas cave inward due to the amount of fat lost. The worst part is that I used to have a Brazilian type buttocks/hips full firm and plump. Now it looks deformed. My hips literally look like an iron passed over them and my legs look like toothpicks, with such a big gap between them.i now look like i'm wearing diapers when I put on jeans or pants due to the butt area caving inwards. and i have to keep pulling them up as i walk, they fall down cause there is no fat left to support them. It feels and look so awkward when bend down because all the fat on the top of my butt has been flattened out and the fat behind my thighs right above the bottom of the buttocks and the hips as well so only a small section of fat in the middle of the butt is left, since she did not touch that area as much.i know its hard to imagine and i'm sorry that i'm rambling on and on and not making any sense but i am crying as I am writing this review, just remembering the body I used to have. My intention was to build collagen in the skin. I made it clear to the Medspa technician that I liked the shape of my butt and hips and do not want to alter it, just improve the skin and she promised me it would not alter the shape in any way. I have so much anger towards her. She was completely careless and disregarded any guidelines. she applied so much pressure with the hand piece, going over my buttocks hips and thighs at the same time, as if she was performing a deep tissue massage. I did ask her if she is supposed to go over such a large area at once, because according to the guidelines you can only do small sections at a time (10 by 10 parameters) but she said "it's the same thing". she was talking the whole time not concentrating on the screen of the machine to make sure she does the same number of passes over each section and when I pointed out that she wasn't counting, she said " oh i don't need to, i have a visual memory since i've been doing airbrushing for years." When i think back at that response, now, it infuriates me. how could she actually compare airbrushing to radio frequency.I am an idiot though for not informing myself of the dangers of rf if done in the wrong hands and am now paying the price.i should have gone with my gut feeling the moment i walked through the door, it didn't feel professional to me. The woman at the front desk did not speak english, could not find my appointment and didn't even know they performed the treatment i went there for. the name of the rf machine is endymed 3deep. I am in a horrible depression, have not left my house in 3 months. It has ruined my life. It's been 7 months now since the treatment and it just seemed to be getting worse with time.i think that it stabilized now. I can't imagine it getting any worse I truly have no fat left. I also have this constant burning sensation in some of the areas and that's not going away. I figure it's due to nerve and tissue damage.but the worst part is that No one understands the emotional pain I am in. I have lost the will to live. I had plans to get engaged and start trying for a baby with my boyfriend. However he has not seen me since this happened cause he's been overseas and I know he will get turned off by seeing me now.He used to love the shape of my body and the difference is dramatic. I ended up having to cancel our plans and breaking up.i am 40 years old it was probably my last chance to have a child. I'm in so much pain that it's hard to breath. I'm unfortunately coming to terms with the idea that the fat loss may be permanent. The device is not suppose to kill fat cells but this woman turned the heat up too high and was extremely neglectful. I really don't know how much longer I can take the emotional pain I am in. I can't even look at myself in the mirror, I now hate my body. I would give anything to have my body back and I keep asking myself why is this happening to me everyday!!!!! I pray that somehow at some point at least some of the fat will regenerate. That hope is the only thing that keeps me hanging on.
If anyone is thinking about having this treatment done, please be very careful and make sure it is with a reputable doctor. I could use any words of advice or wisdom. I would put up pictures but I am honestly ashamed.

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The technicians name is Florence and the name of the place is WW med spa in Elmhurst,NY. She is extremely unprofessional, neglectful. She spoke of the treatment as if she had a lot of knowledge of it but in reality is completely uneducated and unaware of what she was doing.

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December 24, 2014
OMG, I feel so bad for you :( !! But you made the first step to recovery: you expressed it and shared it with us. The second step is now to find a therapist to help you accept your beautiful body, for it is still beautiful, and even without pictures I know that you are seeing things in the worst way possible because of your depression (I know all about that). I suggest that you start therapy immediately with someone who has experience with treating body-dysmorphia. My next suggestion is this: if there is any chance to make up with your boyfriend and go ahead with your plans of having a child, do it. If he really loves you, it won't matter that your body has changed (which it will with pregnancy anyway). I know it seems hopeless, but it isn't. Remember that every person's complaint is another person's prayer. I have to do the same. I am 14 yrs older than you, and my body is aging (especially my skin); I truly don't like looking at the wrinkles and the sagging and the creypyness..... I am confronted with it everyday (including my sagging buttocks), but then the universe puts someone in my path that makes me realize how grateful I can be, like a younger woman in a wheelchair, or I happen to see a documentary on TV where a girl has been burned over 50% of her body, and she is lifting me up with her wisdom and joy of life. Depression is serious, but it can be helped. You are a young, strong woman, who has helped thousands of women with your post, now it is time for you to help yourself and let others help you. You will get through this, but you must initiate it .. NOW. I know I am not the only one who will be thinking about you and wishing you speedy recovery. Start a strength-training program too, it will fill out your body with muscles, and it may very well smooth out the fat areas. When I was your age, I looked thin but buff. I stopped exercising for a few years in my late forties and now I have the hardest time to even getting back to 1/3 of what my muscles were, so this is the right time for you to start with strength-training in particular and keep it up from now on. Hang in there, and let us know how things go.
December 25, 2014
I truly want to thank u for taking the time and caring enough to give me words of wisdom. I've struggled with depression and self esteem most of my life. I've been wanting to see a therapist, I just haven't found the motivation to get out of bed. If it weren't for my 13 year old dog that I love so much, I wouldn't even leave my apt but I have to take him for walks. I feel so bad for him and guilty that I'm not doing more for him. I mean taking him to the park and playing with him but I really don't have the strength. Dogs are very smart and they feel things. Unfortunately he feels my depression and I say to myself that he deserves an owner so much better than me but he loves me with such loyalty and would not want to leave my side. I guess he's the one taking care of me by getting me out of bed to walk him. Depression is a terrible thing that many people don't understand and you distance yourself from everyone. I've never really been a social person. My ex was my best friend/ only friend. I was with him for over 13 years on and off and during that time I sort of isolated myself from people, also as I became depressed I pulled away from friends. My point is that loosing him now, when I was so close to finally being happy, marrying and starting a family with him, is beyond devastating. I miss him terribly and i know he misses me but i've asked him to please not contact me so that i can get over him.I know u think I should take a chance and let him see me the way my body is now but I would not be able to deal with him rejecting me and not being attracted to me anymore so I guess I'll take the pain now. It is unbelievable how someone's life can change so drastically after going in for what I thought was a simple non- invasive treatment that would improve my skin. I would have never imagined rf could do something like this. The worst part is that this technician is still continuing to do this to others. If I had the strength/ energy I would sue her... NOT for the money, I could care less about money, it's just the principle, holding her accountable and stopping her from destroying others. I hope at least I saved the people that read my post, from going to her and becoming aware of the dangers of radio frequency. Here I am rambling again but in a way it allows me to let some of the anguish that's inside me out. I still keep praying that the damage she did will get better with time but even if it does, by then I'll have lost the love of my life and prospects for a child. I'm sorry that I'm going on and on about myself but I guess in a way this is a form of therapy. Again I thank you for caring and reaching out to me. I look forward to hearing from u again.
December 25, 2014
Listen, I know all about depression, and IT CAN GET BETTER. And it WILL. I know the feeling of not being able to get out of bed, but the fact that your dog (I'm a dog trainer/behaviorist) is in your life, is NO coincidence. Animals are in your life for a reason. I implore you to find a therapist. It saved my life. If he/she is worth his salt, you might be put on meds, which --again-- saved my life! The fact that you posted about the technician (and you can also post about her and the place she works for on YELP. Many people read about businesses on there. Please find a therapist, a doctor in psychology, or a good psychiatrist. YOU WILL GET BETTER. It's important that you go on about yourself, but do it with a person that can help you use the tools you already have, but don't know about. Just make that one effort, you will be thankful to yourself. You deserve the best, and the only one who can put that in motion is YOU. Let me know when you have made that step and have started that journey. I want to hear from you, and see you survive this. You are building these rejection theories in your mind and you are already feeling as if you are rejected, why not contact him and explain that you are depressed. Tell him that you don't expect him to do anything he doesn't want to. What do you have to lose? And if he rejects you (which I doubt) then you already know what that feels like, ...so what? Give it a chance. You are truly not alone
December 28, 2014
Omg! I'm so sorry to hear that :( I just did 5 treatments on my face and it looks , llooser :( NOT going back for ithe 6 th treatment I look older instead of tighter I wonder if the fat will come back I hope so I wish you luck and sorry
December 28, 2014
Definately don't go back for the 6th treatment!!!! I wish I had known ahead of time of the dangers. I keep saying if only this, if only that, but it doesn't make a difference. It's been 7 months and it keeps eating more and more fat. One bad desicion and my life and dreams are completly destroyed!! I truly hope it gets better for you.
December 28, 2014
Omgoodness that's terrible I'm so sorry, I'm considering fat transfer not sure what else to do its only been 6 weeks and 5 treatments and its looking crappier by the day . Did you consider fat transfer? I've the worst luck trying to refresh myself 2 droopy Botox treatments in a row now this. Super low trust issues with Drs
January 25, 2015
You need to make an appnt with the doctor at the facility and show him what happened. Not only will this alert him to the technician's incompetence and perhaps save others from a similar fate, but he may have suggestions to improve your situation, that obviously should be no cost to you.
May 10, 2015
First, stop rejecting your boyfriend first. At least give him the chance to see you and reject you first. He just might turn out to love you more than you think. And if not, you haven't lived in fear and paralysis. You've shown courage and the ability to move on. (Plus, I was shocked once when my vulnerability at being naked after an operation (leaving stitches and a huge gash across my body) was actually a turn on for a super handsome looking guy.) [I should also point out that men look at female bodies differently than women do. A man puts all the components of a female's body together and then decides how the entire package makes him feel -- he doesn't focus on one particular area/defect of the package and automatically decide it's a disqualifier.] Second, back when liposuction was new, an idiot surgeon removed a huge chunk of fat from one of my inner legs and put ugly dimpled pockets on both legs. It looked horrible. In those days they used to believe that the body doesn't regrow fat cells. Well, it often does. Although it took many years, my body has evened out both legs and they look better now than when I was a teenager (my body did this on its own without fat grafting). You can also have your own fat reinjected into your butt from another part of your body. We're also only a few years away from being able to inject compatible fat from another living donor (like your boyfriend) as doctors are already doing this in an attempt to figure out why it works fine sometimes and not other times. Another thing you can do is get bioidentical estrogen creme online (e.g. Smokey Mountain Naturals is a good brand) and dab a tiny bit on your butt (to stimulate fat cell regrowth) along with moisturizer every night. Also, work on building up your butt muscle (you can take classes in martial arts that involve kicking). Lastly, you can let your boyfriend know that when you're carrying his child, your butt will get fat, but not as badly as it would have looked before the technician shrunk your butt. [Also, the place that did your work probably has insurance and you can sue for the money to restore your butt.]
May 11, 2017
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May 26, 2015

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UPDATED FROM Hopeless08
1 year post

Endymed done with with Florence at WW med spa in queens

Hopeless08
Please stay away from this place. I thought I was going to improve my skin texture. Florence, the technician assured me that it would not alter my shape at all. I walked in with a nice shape and walked out with no curves, saggy butt, fat taken out of my butt and thighs and my life has been ruined since then. I regret it every minute of every day. Plus she caused me nerve damage. And the damage kept getting worse with time. 8 months later and it was still eating fat from my butt thighs and altering my shape. Notice how my butt in the before pictures is much plumper and hips and thigh are less seperated. She went way beyond the heat settings causing me to hate my body.

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November 8, 2015
I'm not sure what it is that is bothering you. You have a lovely butt and I don't see any weird dimples or stuff going on. Now if you looked at me you would see real tragedy. I had a neck lift 7 years ago and got a seroma under my chin. Now my neck is all stretched out and you can see the scar tissue on the sides of my neck. I've been to 5 different Plastic Surgeons and they say there is nothing they can do. I can't even look at myself in the mirror anymore. You look fine, really.
November 8, 2015
Thank you for trying to lift my spirits but that was just the first day of the treatment. It has become much worse over the months. So bad that I can't look at myself in the mirror either. Pants look so awkward on me. I hate myself. I'm sorry for what happen to you. I feel the same way. Maybe someday in the future they'll come out with something that can be done to fix the issue for you. I am in therapy and on meds due to a big depression as a result.
God bless
January 5, 2016
I think you should call a psychologist. You look fine in either photo, absolutely beautiful in fact. If you cannot see that, you have a lot more going on that just this procedure and you owe yourself complete health.
October 10, 2016
Dear Hopeless08:
We haven't heard from you in a long while .... How are you doing?? Are you still going to therapy? Has it helped you?
Thank you for sharing your story.....I think there is a lot others can learn from what you shared....I think the real tragedy here is that you lost someone you loved over this. I could not figure out how that happened, but it sounds like you pushed him away. And I am sorry for both of you....Even if that is the case, I hope you are feeling better about your situation. 40 is not your last chance to have a child. It is possible to have children up to about age 47 without intervention, depending on the quality of your eggs. And there is plenty of infertility assistance available. In 2006, a 70 year old woman in India gave birth after 2 years of IVF. And before that, a 66 year old woman gave birth to twins with IVF. As long as you have a uterus, you can possibly give birth, apparently to age 70...Doctors in other countries are more open to older birth mothers than those in the U.S. And then there's adoption......

That said, regaining your mental health & loving yourself will need to take precedence over getting into another relationship &/ or having a child. I am sorry for what happened to you with your treatment.....Prayers that you are on your way to a full recovery.....

Hugs
XOXO
Txmom
November 12, 2015
November 13, 2015
Thank you so much for your support. Like I said I hate my body now. I have never heard of hyaluronic acid. What does it do? Can I apply it topically or does it have to be injected? And if I I next it, where do I get it and how do I know how much to inject? Again thanks for your support.
January 11, 2016
oh dear... do NOT order hyaluronic acid from china and INJECT it on your own....
you've done what you've done. Honestly your butt was amazing before. And now your butt isn't bad, just not as round. STOP looking toward surgery. At this point, get on Body building forums and start building MUSCLE on that butt. Make your muscle grow and round it back up. You will have many favorable benefits, including a natural sense of accomplishment, natural hormones that increase happiness and more importantly RESULTS that look good.
December 10, 2015
I think you look great in both the before and after photos. I would be thrilled to look like either one. I think you really are being super unfair to your boyfriend in assuming that he would dump you just because you are thinner than you were. Give him a chance! I understand how you feel awful about what happened, but I would not be doing you any favors if I wasn't honest with you. The truth is you are NOT your body any more than you are your car. You are still you. You will still be you when you are pregnant and fat, and you will still be you when you are sagging, wrinkly and old. Anyone worth a dime will love you though fat, skinny, young and old. And you should do the same for your mate. What if your boyfriend got an injury on his deployment that somehow made him less attractive? ' Would you dump him? Try getting out of your head and do something kind for someone else everyday. Doing for others will make you realize how darn lucky you are and hopefully take you out of this depression. I sincerely wish you good luck.
February 8, 2016
Yes, your tushy is noticibly smaller in the after. It almost looks as the the after is a "before" for a brazilian butt surgery and your before is the "after" for the brazilian butt. That being stated, I personally do not understand the appeal of big butts. You looked good before and you look good now. Your thighs in your after picture look amazing!!!!! It actually kind of makes me want to get this for my legs. The bigger concern is the nerve damage you mentioned. Has there been any improvement there?
October 10, 2016
I agree. Big butts are overrated....Hopeless0I had a perfect butt, & I wouldn't have changed it in any way.....
February 24, 2016
You look fine. I have to admit your butt used to be much fuller and rounder, but you still look great!
UPDATED FROM Hopeless08
9 years post

EndyMed Update (10years later)

Hopeless08
I had a radio frequency procedure on my buttocks , thighs and hips about 10 years ago. My goal was to get rid of cellulite. I loved the shape of my body and the technician assured me that it will not alter my shape.
Immediately after treatment I noticed my buttocks was loosing fat , my thighs,especially inner thighs as well and began to experience intense pain in those areas. As the days and months went on the side effects worsened. There were dents, lumps, hollow areas and my hips developed an inward curve. I was devastated and fell into a deep depression. About a year later it stabilized, I was no longer feeling pain and fat loss stopped but I was left with a horrible body.
To my shock, about 8 months ago the side effects started all over. I started loosing and continue to lose fat at an alarming rate and the pain in those areas feel like fire burning on the inside.
I am dumbfounded as to how this can reactivate so many years later. I was told that she probably turned the heat setting too high.
My body looks like a road map with so many bumps, curves (inward curves)
dents and holes. I have no idea when or if it will stop.
I would love to do some kind of procedure to fix the problem but I don’t know which one and am afraid it will make things worse.
I’d appreciate any advice, input.
Thanks

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January 13, 2024
You could move fat from the sides (or another unwanted area) to your buttocks which would fill them out.
January 13, 2024
Also, I would very strongly advise building muscle in your legs and glutes (ass muscles).
June 5, 2024
I can’t see anything different except slimmer thighs. Sorry for your pain but it could be in your mind that you look like a “roadmap”