Almost 3 Months PO - New Pics - TT/Lipo of Flanks/BL/BA/Hernia Repair - Elizabeth, NJ
After two C-Sections, I was left with an adhered...
After two C-Sections, I was left with an adhered scar and reasonably mild stretch marks. The scar especially bothered me because any low-rise underwear or bikini bottoms seemed to always find a way to settle right into the scar making it both uncomfortable and unattractive. About two years ago, at an annual appointment, I asked my OB/GYN what, if anything, can be done with the scar. He suggested I see one of his colleagues who could release the scar for me with a minor procedure. Stupidly, I didn't research the doctor or the procedure at all because I trusted my OB/GYN's suggestion. The doctor he suggested was not a plastic surgeon, but another OB/GYN who likes to dabble in cosmetic procedures.
The doctor, who I won't name, suggested doing tumescent liposuction on my abdomen in addition to releasing the scar tissue, explaining that the small layer of fat on my abdomen acted as a weight, pulling down the skin and causing a more exaggerated overhang above my scar. This made sense to me at the time, so I proceeded. Unfortunately, this doctor did not take into account the quality of the skin on my abdomen and after the liposuction, I was left with saggy, wrinkly skin and an uneven overall appearance. At 5'6" and around 120 lbs, give or take, it certainly isn't the most dramatic "before" picture out there, but it's enough to make me very self-conscious, so I have now spoken to several PSs about how to fix the problem.
Of the surgeons that I've spoken to, Dr. Alkon made me the most comfortable. He only spoke of issues that I specifically addressed, where others have actually pointed out imperfections to add in. He took his time to discuss specifically how he would perform the procedures to correct my concerns and he was also the only surgeon to actually take the time to check for (and find) that I have an umbilical hernia. We agreed that a tummy tuck with lipo of the flanks and lower back along with a breast lift/augmentation as well as the hernia repair would best address my concerns. Also, Dr. Alkon was the only doctor to truthfully tell me that, although he could do the procedure, the liposuction on my thighs that I also hoped to get would not produce dramatic results and would really be a waste of money.
My husband and I agreed almost immediately that Dr. Alkon would be the one to perform my Mommy Makeover and decided to schedule as soon as possible. I've now also had the consult with the general surgeon who will correct my hernia and have scheduled my pre-op for next Friday along with my pre-admission testing. Even though I trust Dr. Alkon and think he will do a great job, I'm feeling equally excited and nervous, especially after having had an unfavorable outcome from a previous procedure.
Right now, I'm really looking forward to my Pre-Op appointment next week so we can further discuss the procedures and implant size, etc. I'm already a C cup so I don't want a major change in size, although I definitely want to see perkier, rounder breasts! Pics and updates to come!
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Your surgery is so soon! Have you gotten any supplies? Do you have questions for your pre-op? I love reading other people's questions!
That makes sense;-) I bet I will wait until right before.... I am usually a planner but that will make it too real.
Exactly!!!!! It doesn't seem real.... I noticed you are from Jersey- I lived outside of Philly for most of my life!!! Now I live in SC.
Lol! What part SC? My husband got transferred here- and now has been transferred to LA,CA. The kds and are staying here for a while. I have a ton of friends in Jersey!;-)
That's kinda near Charleston- I live @ 2 hours from charleston- bluffton/ Hilton head island. My hubby works in the hotel business so we will most likely move and move. I love the south- the weather, the people, and the beauty:-) But CA is beautiful too. I really like Jersey- grew up going down the shore:-)
AC- rocks! My hubby works in LA. The kids and I were out there for he summer- right near manhattan beach. CA beaches are way different then NJ or SC.
Wow your surgery is in 13 days!!! I was getting nervous cause my pre-op is in 3 weeks! I can't believe it? I decide to have surgery 5ish months ago. So it has been a long wait! 45 days until my surgery!
how long are you in AC?
Are you starting to prep things for your surgery or waiting until closer?
Woohoo! So exciting for you. Do you have a list of questions? Nothing yet. I am going to start after my pre-op which is 3 weeks:-)

I'm so glad you found RealSelf and started your story here! It sounds like you really did your research on choosing a doctor and that is fabulous. Please let us know how your pre-op appointment goes.
Had my pre-op appointment today. Yikes! Less than...
As I was saying to Blonde in Bluffton in the comments, it's funny how when you first start looking into surgery, it's sort of this abstract idea that you don't necessarily think too heavily about & as it becomes closer & closer to the date, the little things you do to prepare along the way really start to make it "real". I'm definitely getting more nervous about how everything is going to work out and how I'm going to look and feel afterwards. I do think I'm in good hands with my PS for certain, but I guess it's just a fear of the unknown.
Anyway, can't wait! WIll post pictures soon... Have to edit out my tattoos still!
Hope everyone is healing well!
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Oh! And I forgot to mention yesterday that I'm...
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How many tats do you have? I have 6 but I will have 5 after surgery:-)
One of mine is a skull on my hip- that will being cut off. I got it when I was so young - so it needed to go:-) I have huge "plates" on my boobs too:-)
I'm so excited to make my "plates" smaller! Lol Way too big right now!
I think my PS. Will be turning my plates into "coffee saucers" lol! All but 2 of my tats are within the last 5 years!!!
Welcome you will love it hear. Are you excited?