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28 Yr Old Mother of 2 - Can't Wait to Feel Confident! - Edmonton, AB

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Hey everyone! I have been stalking this site for...

TwistedC19
Hey everyone! I have been stalking this site for many many years now. I am a 28 year old mother of 2 I have an 11 & 7.5yr old. I am only 5ft and weight around 138. I have wanted to back out of this too many times because I am scared of the pain but I have paid my deposit and am scheduled for surgery on Dec 8/16 for TT & lipo on the flanks. Doc suggested trying to lose 5-10 lbs to see better results so I will be working my butt off for the next few months. I am going to be off work for 18 days and I am praying that will be enough time (desk job) but it can be demanding. I am sooooo scared and nervous already about the pain and recovery. I have done so much reading of reviews on this site but any tips/info would be much appreciated.

TwistedC19's provider

Feng Chong, MD

Feng Chong, MD

Certified Plastic Surgeon

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August 1, 2016

Thank you for creating your profile and joining us for your journey.  Having the 18 days off work will be wonderful, you will need it and be glad to have it.   Get active in the Forums while you are waiting for your surgery date.  

October 20, 2016
I'm scheduled for December 8 as well in calgary
October 20, 2016
YAYYYY a Canadian TT buddy on the exact same day :) lol. How are you feeling about it all? I go thru a roller coaster ride of emotions. Yesterday I was looking on this site and I was feeling sick to my stomach and wanted so bad just to cancel! Have you purchased any items yet? Let's keep in touch
October 20, 2016
I have only booked and scheduled my pre admission visit with my surgeon. I have had waves of am I making a mistake, but I look at my belly flab and know that I want to be able to fit into outfits again without having to tuck in the extra gear.
October 20, 2016
I am learning this site currently. As soon as I get with it, I'll post some before pictures
UPDATED FROM TwistedC19
4 months pre

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TwistedC19
I'm still 3 & 1/2 months to surgery. Part of me is trying to forget I am going thru with this and the other part of me can't wait for the end results. Today was one of those day where my mind couldn't stop thinking of surgery, recovery and results. EeeKk ! I continue to do as much research as I can. These are current pics from today! Can't believe I'm posting these but this site has shown me it is ok to be real and not feel judged!

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September 4, 2016
Your bout my height and weight. I'm going to have a tummy tuck and breast lift and lipo. Was going to book for beginning of December too but cause of work I will have to wait till December of 2017. :( I have everything bought already lol. Like everything...I went crazy. I'm curious...Who is you surgeon? Mine will be Dr. Toy. It was between Dr. Toy, Dr. Chong and Dr. Edwards. A year is a long time though so I may change my mind. I'll go see them again. I hope you keep up with pics and your review. You are my height and weight so it be nice to see how things go for you. Maybe I'll go see your surgeon since I have a year to go. It's so exciting hey? And scary all at the same time.
September 5, 2016
I may have to postpone mine until February :( mixed feelings on that as I already keep flip flopping between omg Im so ready to do this, I can't wait, I got this and then thinking what the hell am I going, do I really need to do this, is the pain gonna be worth is! Ahhh it's a struggle and I think postponing it is not going to make those feeling any better... We shall see, I'm waiting to see what's happening with my work situation and then decide by oct, early November.
I bought a foam sleep contour system from Amazon as I don't have a recliner but I haven't opened the box yet because it's going to feel so REAL!! Eee! I am going with Dr.Chong, I have heard really good things about him and I'm hoping everything will go great! I wanted to see Dr.Toy but he wasn't taking any appts even for a consult and I was just so ready to make it happen. You should also posts some pics and keep in touch with your journey :)
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September 5, 2016
You are riding the same emotional roller coaster as me. The only reason I'm putting it of is cause I work up north and would pretty much be leaving my job going back to the hall and getting a number. With the economy the way it is I need to do the smart thing and save for another year just in case it take my a little longer to get back to work than I like. Plu I might go to Europe for a few months and enjoy the new me. Lol. Dr Chong is supposed to be great. It was a hard choice for me between the two. In the end Toy is going to ad a little more lipo than chong and a little cheaper although than was not a thought. I may even go back to chong. Don't put it off to long, just do it if you are able work wise. I have spent a lot of money on everything from abd pad, compression garments, chux pads, pillows, pills,,lol I could go on. I'm done now though. Just have to wait a year. I haven't posted pics cause I thought I'd wait till I was closer to my date. I'm excited to follow your progress. It's funny how alone we can feel in all of this hey. If you ever need to chat shoot me a text.
December 2, 2016
Ekkkk _TheTimeIsNow_ I'm officially one week away !! Ahhhh how crazy!! I was re-reading my comments and you mentioned abd pads and chux pads... can you please let me know what those are haha?? I think I haven't gotten everything I needed, hoping anyways... send positive vibes my way :)
December 2, 2016
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December 2, 2016
Abdominal pads are bout 8x10 gauze pads to put over longer incisions. And chux pads are large absorbable pads to place under you on bed or recliner in case of leaks. Women giving birth at home use them a lot. Birthing pads and such. I ordered all mine online but I'm sure if you went to a medical supply store here in town you can pick them up. Got ab pads from Amazon. They have chux pads to for sure. I was just scrolling through site and can't wait for your day to come. I'm going to schedule my surgery for August 30,2017. Firm no putting it off anymore
October 1, 2016
Hi! I am scheduled for a TT with Lipo on October 12th and am freaking out. My emotions are a lot like your guys; OMG what am I doing, have I lost my mind, will my results be up to my standards, what if something goes wrong... then the other side is OMG I can't wait to feel confident in my body, wear the flattering clothes I have wanted to in so long, have my body back after having 3 kids...

I paid my deposit and had my pre-op yesterday. It was actually a relief to get past that lol. I now feel like I can sleep for a little while haha
October 4, 2016
Omg I know how you feel for sure! I am just about 2 months to mine and I keep bouncing back between emotions. What doctor did you go with? October 12th is coming up eeeeeee soo exciting but nerve wrecking. Keep me posted on your recovery! I would love to hear how you are you doing! Wishing you all the best and a speedy and pain free recovery. Have you gotten all the supplies that you needed? Any special supplies you might have picked up?
October 4, 2016
Hey! I decided in Dr. Gervais in Mpls. I went to 3 different doctors and felt like he had some of the best reviews and rankings for our area. I'm still nervous on whether or not I decided on the right one but I think that is all my nerves kicking in Full time now.

Honestly, I have not gotten any supplies yet. I'm not sure what to get. I have a automatic reclining couch and will get my Ned's next Monday. I feel like I'm missing a lot of things to get to prepare :(
October 11, 2016
Eeekk 2 more days for you. Please keep me posted on your recovery! I'm sure You would do great. I have been making a list of things I think I may need from reading other ppls stories. Some things a lot of people mentioned would be:
Tylenol
Cold/warm Heating pack
Large undies
Stool softener
Loose fitting pants/dresses
Lots of pillows
Handy items nearby like Kleenex/baby wipes etc :)
October 11, 2016
I know!! I can't believe I go in tomorrow at 630am, my emotions are flying lol.

Thanks for this list :) I think I have everything covered.

I can't believe how many pills I will need to keep track of and take
October 12, 2016
Best wishes for your journey tomorrow. I will be thinking of you. Hope you can manage a goods nights rest :)
October 13, 2016
So work is not selling and I am keeping my APPT for Dec 8th... Eeeekkkk less than 2 months away. My emotions still change day to day from being excited to being nervous and worried. I keep telling myself j can do this, I've wanted it for many many years. I got this lol. Positive thinking :) I am trying to do all my Christmas shopping before surgery because who knows how I will be feeling afterwards. I am going to start purchasing supplies soon. Are there any supplies you would recommend?
April 4, 2017
Wow - your before pics pretty much look exactly the same as mine... you look great - congrats... I am about 7 months PO and so glad I went through with it...
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2 months pre

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Wow ok; so I received my envelope in the mail from the surgeon and first off the name was written completely wrong but kinda close where I just thought they maybe made a spelling error. I opened it and it's for someone completely different; person: some 40 year old woman getting ALOT more done then I have booked... This leaves a bad taste and I feel worried about this minor mix up. Could something like this happen during/after surgery? Well I immediately emailed the girl from the office letting her know my concerns and as well as me needing my correct envelope. Has this ever happened to anyone else? :( way to bump up my nervousness

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October 20, 2016
Yikes, that would be nerve recking. I'm sure it was an honest mistake, which does happen :/

It definitely doesn't help your nerves though. I would be interested in seeing how the nurse responds to your email.
October 21, 2016
Well Michelle from there office called by right at 9am apologizing for the mistake. I had given them a new address the day she was sending out the envelope. She had sent my envelope to my old address and this other ladies to my new address. Pheewww! I checked my old address and sure enough my envelope was in there :) she explained that surely nothing like that could happen during surgery! She is super nice! So strange though because this woman's name is so similar to mine and my bday is Dec 19 & hers is Dec 21st. So strange lol
October 21, 2016
That's so good to hear!! Everything will work out and be fine
November 11, 2016
Does sound like an honest mistake. And they can account why it happened. Most important that your comfortable with your PS and that he is qualified. Wow your getting a new belly for your Birthday:)
November 11, 2016
It definately did. I was worried at first but my correct envelope was waiting for me at my other address so it worked out ok.

Yayyy for an early birthday gift to me ;)