Get the real deal on beauty treatments—real doctors, real reviews, and real photos with real results.Here's how we earn your trust.

POSTED UNDER Brazilian Butt Lift REVIEWS

Designer Body

ORIGINAL POST

Everything is set but I'm getting cold feet. I'm a...

User Avatar
RevengeBody
WORTH IT$4,350
Everything is set but I'm getting cold feet. I'm a single mom with two kids. I have the money. Ive been saving up for about 6 months now. Im nervous because we are planning to move in a few months and I'm between jobs. I want to be sure I'm not making a selfish investment. I still want sx more than ever but I'm debating rescheduling to a time when my finances are more stable. It pains me to be at this crossroad, I have a place ticket and a sitter but I've become completely paralyzed by the he fact that 30 days from this moment I should be on the flat side. Veteran dolls...what was your financial plan to fund this procedure...were all of the risks worth the reward?

RevengeBody's provider

Yily De Los Santos, MD

Yily De Los Santos, MD

Plastic Surgeon

4.3 | 2036 Reviews
PROFILE

Replies (9)

March 9, 2017
I understand how you feel but I think at this time you have to sit down and figure out what's more important for you and your family. Will you be able to survive and move into your new place when the time comes
User Avatar
April 6, 2017
I appreciate you perspective. I've had so many obstacles with the flight and the passport idk what to make of it. Challenge or warning...
User Avatar
March 9, 2017
Omg me toooo. But my concerns are about trusting the surgeon with my life cause my children are depending on me... I too am between jobs so I feel you on "if" you're making a selfish decision or not... You're not... If not now, then when? It's your time..
User Avatar
April 6, 2017
Yes! This thought propels me forward! I am a bit more trusting when it comes to surgery because I've had two c-sections, ankle reconstruction, carpel tunnel surg., and my wisdoms out. The thought of who will be there for my babies is in the back of my mind though. Im certain I'll come out alive but ill probably be a bit bitchy for a few weeks.
User Avatar
March 9, 2017
I don't think you're being selfish one bit. We make a sacrifice everyday for our children. (Especially our bodies) if you've saved money for this then do it!! As long as it doesn't jeopardize you and your families we'll being then I say go for it! I'll be following your journey!
User Avatar
April 6, 2017
Ok. I'm doing it...I think. Lol. I'm actually in the airport now hoping everything falls in place. If not then I'll chalk it up to circumstances because everything happens for a reason.
User Avatar
March 23, 2017
Girl our thoughts and concerns are similar.. It's nice to know real ladies experience similar concerns and still encourage each other
User Avatar
April 6, 2017
Are you still on your way? My flight was delayed, cancelled, and rebooked.
May 25, 2017
Do it for your self I was just thinking like you an went for my TT May 9th An have two kids An moving around fine you deserve it an God will make sure your move an job situation will be ok if you pray that he will make sure you are ok an if you believe it you will be fine is single mothers deserve more then we think an second guess it do something for you these days missy
UPDATED FROM RevengeBody
25 days pre

I should be extremely geeked but I'm 70% sure I'm will be rescheduling for Aug 2017

User Avatar
RevengeBody

Replies (1)

User Avatar
March 15, 2017
I have been fantasizing over this moment for 6 months now. I'm really frustrated because my SX my flight my sitters my lodging...pretty much every big piece has been arranged. I even have the money. I know if I get SX the pain will make me regret everything the first few months so I didn't wanna place my self in a situation where I get SX and I can't be happy about. I've decided to wait until August. It worries me that something very well could come up next time I plan it all out so I'm just ready to take the plunge now and put the money in the table now. If my financial situation doesn't change in the next week I'm gonna call it.
UPDATED FROM RevengeBody
18 days pre

I'm going

User Avatar
RevengeBody
I reached out to YILY to change to a date in August and there were no dates I was able to confirm so I'm going in April. I'm just gonna take a leap of faith, just roll with it. This is a true desire that's in my heart and I'm gonna walk it out.

Replies (5)

March 25, 2017
I'm really not trying to rain on your parade . But I have heard so many horror stories from girls who go to the Dominican republic . Please do your research. Girls are dying down there. There is a lot of great surgeons in the states. I just had a BBL in Miami a month ago. The surgery is a tuff recovery. It's not worth taking a chance. They do not have our same standards.
User Avatar
April 10, 2017
It's ok. Anything is possible. I did my research and I've heard the horror stories as well. The truth is there is also a possibility of complications with any dr and compliance with preop and postop instructions are paramount. I was mostly compliant but I'm human. What ever happens after today is in Gods hands. Oxox
User Avatar
March 27, 2017
Your big day is almost here !!!
User Avatar
March 27, 2017
Good luck, stay positive and keep the faith. Wish u the best of luck on your journey.
User Avatar
April 10, 2017
FYI Yily is Pregnant which is why she is not booking in August. If you've contemplated SX with Yily then get in where you fit in now or else you'll probably be waiting a till the fall or winter time.