12/7 I Will Be A DelVecchio Doll- BBL (First Round)

So I finally decided to write a review after years of stocking this site. I have done soooo much research and I decided to go with Fatima Almonte. I also really like Baez but I like the fact that Alamonte does a lot of plus size women and especially women who have a lot of fat and loose skin around there abdomen. I literally need it ALL. But the dilemma that I'm having is do I want to have a baby first OR get my body first. I know there is a high chance of my stomach stretching back out and that's what scares me but then Im also ready to focus on ME finally. Yes I lost a lot of weight but I have a constant reminder of how big I use to be (311) when I take my clothes off. But then I don't want to be selfish to my body and family because If I get the surgery now they will have to be there for me waiting on me hand and foot and then turn around and have a baby and then the possibility of having surgery again and they have to put up with me again!! Then to do that to my body again is torture. So after long and hard my hubby and I decided that we will work on having a baby FIRST but in the meantime if it doesn't happen after we do 3-4 rounds of IUI cycles (hubby lil spermies have issues getting to my eggs) then I will move forward with getting my surgery. We want a baby really bad and have been trying naturally on our own for two years. So now we are seeing a fertility specialist. We will start the IUI process this week with me getting a couple of test ran on me first. But if all those attempts result into failures then we decided that we are not going to move forward with an IVF (the cost is ridiculous high 15-20k)!! I don't want to solely focus on a baby because that will do nothing but stress me the hell out (like before) and that's why I will keep researching and thinking about my surgery and I don't want to focus too much on surgery so I have the baby thing to think about. So I think I have balance between the two so I won't put to much emphasis on either one. But overall I do sometimes want my surgery more!! I know deep down if I got surgery first, I wouldn't want to have a baby!!!! I just want to finally feel good in my body. I want my body to match my confidence and swag!!! I sometimes can't believe I went from a 22-8 and I look good with clothes ON but when I take them off I be like WTF!!! I be thinking like "damn all this fat came from under those clothes"!! I did get some dates for Sept and Oct but we will see what next year brings!!!

So as I stated before, my goal is to have a baby before surgery. I suppose to start the IUI process next month. I am going for a couple of test to make sure I am ok which I've done this before but I have to retake them. It's starting to stress me out a lil because I want my surgery soooo bad but trying to be fair and give my all to having this baby. Anyway I reached out to Alamonte to see what dates she has in oct-dec and I'm waiting on her reply. I'm trying to be proactive in my process and make sure that I'm staying on top of this. So that's all I have for right now. Hopefully I will be pregnant soon.

So my last post I was saying that I was trying to have a kid first. Well after me and my hubby talked LONG and hard, I'm just going to focus on my surgery. Don't get me wrong, it's not that I don't want kids and it's not as if I wanted to do surgery before a child but I'm noticing that it's bringing too much stress along with it. My hubby and I only been married two years and we talked last night and basically he just reassured me that we have TIME to have kids. I am the type of person who has to plan their life out and it has to be a certain way and when things don't go my way I'm mad, upset and feel like a failure. Overall I'm learning that things don't always happen when I want them to and everything happen for a reason and I have to continue to trust that GOD is always working behind the scene in my behalf. I really do need to just enjoy my MARRIAGE and my husband and we get to know each other as a married couple and live life with each other! If I have a baby after I get surgery I won't be mad at all. The reason is because regardless if my stomach got stretched back out (hoping not too much) or got more stretch marks, because I lived with a HUGE ass stomach ALL my life and I had NO excuse. Meaning no KIDS! I been big for a very long time so if I did gain a lil in my tummy after I've had surgery then I'm ok with that. Like I mentioned before, my first round will be,BBL, lipo to full upper body basically and inner thigh. The reason being because the doctor I'm choosing will not do a TT and BBL at the same time. I wanted to go to Almonte but decided to go to Dr. Dan Delveechio in Boston. His skill set with the BBL is AMAZING! I'm not saying Almonte can't deliver because she can and I love her but Dr. D has done miracles on woman with buttocks like man. Meaning NO ass at all. I mean he really does a great job. You guys please check his IG out because his BBL work is great and you can see why I chose him. Another reason why I chose to stay in the states because it's cheaper because my hubby and sister going. With flight there and back for all three of us and having to pay additional for both of them to stay at the recovery house is way too much and hubby wants to be there but don't want to stay the full two weeks because of work. If we go to Boston, I don't have to stay there for 10-14 days and if something did go wrong I can easily get there and mainly it's to put hubby mind at ease because I do feel like going to DR wouldn't have been a problem. We will fly to Boston and then drive back so I won't have to deal with all the drama flying back and especially it's uncomfortable in the flight because you need to stand up a lot and can't fully lay down like you want. So as of right now, I want to do surgery around July-Aug timeframe so I can be 3-4 post op around the holidays. Also I just started a new job and I want to build more leave and honestly mainly I don't want to take off too soon. I want to be there at least six months before I take off. I work for the government so I won't have a problem getting my leave approved because they can't deny me medical leave with a doctors note. So anyway that's my update and I will keep ou guys posted.