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Heading to DR for the New ME! - Dominican Republic, DO
UPDATED FROM Rye930
7 months pre
This can't be life..... There's gotta be more!!
Rye930January 25, 2014
$5,600
Hey
So so much has been going on. I had to push my date Bach to August! Ugh!!!!! So mad And pissed but I have not control over it right now. My finances are not in order and not where they should be for this type of. trip. So I'm looking to have my sx in August 15 2014 and leave here the 14th. So anyone planning to go around that time please let me know. I would love a sx buddy.
So so much has been going on. I had to push my date Bach to August! Ugh!!!!! So mad And pissed but I have not control over it right now. My finances are not in order and not where they should be for this type of. trip. So I'm looking to have my sx in August 15 2014 and leave here the 14th. So anyone planning to go around that time please let me know. I would love a sx buddy.
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lashun69
November 30, 2013
Hello Rye930, Thanks for sharing your story. It does seem that you have a lot on your plate right now. I am 2 weeks out of surgery and I am not sure if your Sister's wedding will work out for you. The healing process is slow, but everyone's body responds differently to these type of things. I am still very swollen and lumpy without clothes, but look very good in my surgical garments. However, I have not lost any dress sizes thus far...so you will likely be wearing what you are wearing now...just a thought. My Doctor removed 4lbs of fat, but this will all depend on what areas you have having done because they can only use so much fluid/anesthesia for your procedure.
There is a lot to think about when having this done and you have a LONG time to think about it and get a LOT of advise. I only told 2 people in my family until the day before my procedure because I did not want to hear the negative push-back and for once in my life I was making a decision based upon my research and desires and not someone else's "approval" if you will.
Now I am different from you...I am 44 years old and have had 2 children. I am not sure that I would suggest this to my you if I were speaking to you as my niece or something simply because it weight has always been a struggle, then you have a high risk of the problem returning if you have children or are an emotional eater.
I have have had 9 females to have Gastric By-pass in my family, these are sisters, cousins, and aunts...so I am not talking far down the blood line. I have always chosen to keep exercising instead. This procedure was a final choice to me after not being able to get rid of my stomach after having my last child 6 years ago. And I am already looking at ways to exercise to help my stomach to heal and get the best results.
I know that I said a lot, but I was just trying to give you some things to think about. I am 2 weeks and 1 day in...still very sore, not sure if I would enjoy going to a wedding right now...actually cancelled my annual Christmas Party because I can tell that I am not strong enough for that. You may be able to go and support your sister, but you may find yourself limited in being able to help her and really enjoy her day as you normally would have.
Hope that my comments helped and did not confuse you more. :-)
lashun69
November 30, 2013
Hi Rye...I did not see ALL of your story before my last comment. Though, I think it all is still relevant, you have several things on your side that I did not have info about. 1-you already have children, 2-you have GB and have already lost quite a bit of weight and you have kept the negative people away.
Just food for thought, your healing process may take longer because of the hanging skin and the tightening of it. The hardest part to me right now is the stiffness from sitting or standing too long and there are these muscle spasms and they show up whenever they get ready. They are not unbearable, but just uncomfortable.
After rereading your information it sounds like you are well on your way and will be just fine...making a decision about the wedding is going to be huge...but I will pray for you to not have that type of pressure. Have you thought about having a heart-2-heart with your sister and seeing if she will release you from this since you have worked so hard to get to this point or accomplishment in life? good luck!!!!! (smile)
Rye930
November 30, 2013
Hi lashuan. Thank you for your comment/advise. I have had a convo with my sister and needless to say, she not happy but this was all in the plans b4 she made the decision of the date. So I don't know what I'm going to do. But thanks for caring enough to respond.
UPDATED FROM Rye930
9 months pre
Cold feet......
Rye930November 17, 2013
Just wanted to vent a little. I think I'm getting cold feet or just plain out scared! I have been going thru so many emotions that I don't know where to even begin. I feel so unprepared and I am pretty much basing my surgery on my income tax. I feel like something will go wrong because it typically does but I am trying to stay positive and fajth that everything will turn out as I plan.
I don't make a lot of money so I don't really have much to save I have been putting a little bit away from each paycheck but it just doesn't feel like it enough.
I don't know maybe this is my nerves. I also haven't told anybody other than my mother because she's the one that's going to take care of my kids and she's kind of skeptical about it but my mother is always been very supportive everything I do. I'm also scared to tell anybody just because I don't want the negativity or the convincing me out of it. I don't know I'm just in a funky mood I guess. I'm just I guess nervous or anxious just to get it over with and just be in flat side.
I'm also debating about telling my kids father even though we are not together we still have my friendship and I usually do like to tell him stuff. But he's currently deployed in Afghanistan so I don't want to stress him out or give him something to be worried about. Just so much to think about and to prepare for. I guess I'm just overwhelmed with everything.
I don't make a lot of money so I don't really have much to save I have been putting a little bit away from each paycheck but it just doesn't feel like it enough.
I don't know maybe this is my nerves. I also haven't told anybody other than my mother because she's the one that's going to take care of my kids and she's kind of skeptical about it but my mother is always been very supportive everything I do. I'm also scared to tell anybody just because I don't want the negativity or the convincing me out of it. I don't know I'm just in a funky mood I guess. I'm just I guess nervous or anxious just to get it over with and just be in flat side.
I'm also debating about telling my kids father even though we are not together we still have my friendship and I usually do like to tell him stuff. But he's currently deployed in Afghanistan so I don't want to stress him out or give him something to be worried about. Just so much to think about and to prepare for. I guess I'm just overwhelmed with everything.
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