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5ft3in 143lbs...BBL and Lower Blepharoplasty..travelling from Canada. Culver City, CA
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Hi everyone. I am just learning how to navigate...
bblcanadaApril 9, 2015
$13,500
Hi everyone. I am just learning how to navigate this site...so hopefully I get this right. Im 42, 5ft3 and 140~lbs. I lost a lot of weight and kept it off for 2+ years now (about 100lbs) Candidly, I had never even heard of the BBL..a good friend told me about it as she is traveling to Mexico for her procedure, and that's how his all started for me. So I have now 'virtually' consulted with Dr. Quiros in Tijuana, Dr. Dass, Dr. J, Dr. Hughes -all of these in LA, Dr. Jugenberg in Toronto, Spectrum in Miami. I sent requests to a couple of doctors in Dominican Republic as well, but they never got back to me. Interestingly, I have gotten different views from almost all of them. Dr. Quiros was inexpensive for sure- but first said I needed a body lift. Then gave me a quote for liposuction and a bbl. This was after speaking with him for 30minutes on the phone. So that worried me...I think he confused me with some other client, or changed his mind sometime between our conversation and the quote being sent to me. Dr Dass said he could definitely make it better, dr. J said he couldnt do anything for me and that "sometimes it is best to just leave things alone"...lol. Odd coming from a plastic surgeon, but ok. Dr. Ortega at Spectrum (Miami) said he could do the BBL and at a screaming deal-$4500 included 5 days at a recovery house. But I didn't really like the results on his website..further some reviews on here stated that that Spectrum often had any doctor perform the surgery so that worried me. I also learned that Florida law says any physician with a specialty can perform cosmetic surgery ...even if you're a dermatologist. Frightening in my opinion so I passed on that deal. Dr. Jugenberg is the top rated doctor in Canada for BBL's but his consultation fee was $200 and I wasn't sure I wanted to travel there. I live in Calgary and its a 3.5/4hr flight to Toronto so decided he would be the last option. Interestingly I cant find any surgeon in Calgary who specifically does BBL's...so I don't really want someone working on me who hasn't done a lot of these surgeries. I also read a comment somewhere that you shouldn't let geography determine your surgery, but the surgeon should be the determining factor. Finally last consult - I contacted Dr. Hughes who responded to me right away, and shared that he could while I was a tough case, he could do a BBL and would need to lipo the sides, abdomen, inner and outer thighs and (yay) my saddlebags. I asked him if a body lift would be better for me and he said that a body lift would make my butt smaller and flatter and greatly reduce the "dimpling" (code word for massive cellulite) but a BBL would greatly improve my body shape and butt shape though the dimpling would only be decreased somewhat. Since I am in Canada and most of the year feels like winter anyway-I am usually fully clothed - I opt for the better figure. After going back and forth via email with Dr Hughes, I decided to select him as my surgeon. Its funny, I started with Mexico and thinking this would cost me in the area of 6K plus travel etc, but feel more comfortable spending almost double that with Dr. Hughes. I am not interested in revisions, and I only have the one body, so I'd rather go with someone who makes me feel like he knows what he is doing. I did quite a bit of research as well- checked to ensure he is current with his Board certification, his facilities are accredited (where the surgery is done) read all the reviews on this site..and other than people saying he appears cocky, I couldn't find anything negative. Most of his reviews say he is an artist which is comforting. Through his emails I didn't find him cocky- he is definitely direct, concise and to the point, which may make people feel like he is. I would think he cant be any other way though, given his response time to what I suspect are hundreds of email per day. So I put down my deposit and originally wanted the surgery around the 3rd week of May, but I just finished a course of Accutane and so need several weeks prior to being able to get surgery, and they need a medical clearance. Then I asked Dr. Hughes if at the same time as the BBL would a blepharoplasty be possible. He said it was so I sent pictures and asked if it would be worth it for me to get one. He said it would and so I am getting that done at the same time. I am now nervous, as I have the surgery date, paid the deposit and am going to book my flights tomorrow. Wish me luck!!! I am attaching my wish list photos...I am not looking for anything Kim Kardashian like...hopefully it will be somewhat close.
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UPDATED FROM bblcanada
1 month pre
1 month and a couple of days before surgery
bblcanadaMay 12, 2015
Hi ladies. Well it’s that time, and I figure it’s time to post an update and everything that has occurred to date. My surgery is scheduled for June 16, 2015 and I will start being more detailed about what happens between now and then. I will also try and ensure I include information helpful for anyone travelling for the procedure.
Firstly, since this is a 'real' site, I will share most everything, so warning, there is a risk of TMI. So ignore the stuff that are my rants/ramblings and if you have any questions you don’t want to post, PM me and I will be happy to get back to you. Warning again- this post is fairly long.
So between paying my $500 deposit (about 1 month ago) and last week, I have had a few internal meltdowns and almost backed out about 4X. The waffling just about killed me, forget the surgery. Firstly, I had 'floated' the BBL concept to a few friends and my family, and they came back with resounding opinions on what a bad idea it was. The 'how people should be happy with who they are, that it’s a waste of money, that anyone who gets this done is shallow, and strong independent women who get these types of procedures done make it harder for other women to be proud of who they are'. One would think I am too old to care what these people think, but it never really changes even as we get older- close friends and family have a way of getting under our skin I find. That said, perhaps I need new ones lol.
In any case, after drawing on my 'strong independent self’, and a lot of intestinal fortitude, I decided I can make my own decisions and they can all continue believing what makes them happy. Now back to the surgery..I also started thinking that my body-while fully clothed is decent-would not be able to be improved through surgery. So I emailed Dr. Hughes to consider I wasn’t a good case and that maybe I couldn’t get the results I wanted. I am also a workaholic and never take time off, so am certain I am looking for reasons not to do it. He replied –immediately as per usual (awesome btw) and stated that he turns down people all the time for surgery because they are not good candidates and that I am not one of them-the plan is solid-a direct quote. So that was that, I decided in that instant to live vicariously through Dr. Hughes confidence, called Lorena and paid about 60% of the surgery. I am now committed.
I found a place on VRBO (Vacation rentals by owner) in Venice beach and booked it. Many thanks to Brown Girl in the ring for this suggestion, as I agree that being someplace pretty will help me move my new body and keep me in good spirits after the surgery. I am staying for a total of 14days, though 11 days post-surgery. The cost isn’t a whole lot more than a hotel I believe.
I initially thought I would need to hire a nurse for post-surgical care as I didn’t want to ask anyone to come with me, especially after the feedback received on the idea alone. But found 2 friends in my crew who were happy for me and would love to be a part of my transformation. So I have one friend (an ex-boyfriend! Yes ladies this is possible) who is staying with me week 1 and another who come week 2. My son –while he thinks this entire procedure is unnecessary - wanted to be there, but he is finishing his degree over the summer and I didn’t want him to upset that for this. Further, I am not sure I could find anything more unappealing than having my son seeing me in that state, let alone taking care of me.
Ok, that is a lot in one post. My next post will cover all the items I have purchased. For now, I am attaching ‘before’ pictures. I am sensitive to them as I am far more comfortable with clothes on –but will share in order to make these posts more meaningful for everyone reading them. The pictures posted in my original post in case anyone is wondering were my wish pics !
Firstly, since this is a 'real' site, I will share most everything, so warning, there is a risk of TMI. So ignore the stuff that are my rants/ramblings and if you have any questions you don’t want to post, PM me and I will be happy to get back to you. Warning again- this post is fairly long.
So between paying my $500 deposit (about 1 month ago) and last week, I have had a few internal meltdowns and almost backed out about 4X. The waffling just about killed me, forget the surgery. Firstly, I had 'floated' the BBL concept to a few friends and my family, and they came back with resounding opinions on what a bad idea it was. The 'how people should be happy with who they are, that it’s a waste of money, that anyone who gets this done is shallow, and strong independent women who get these types of procedures done make it harder for other women to be proud of who they are'. One would think I am too old to care what these people think, but it never really changes even as we get older- close friends and family have a way of getting under our skin I find. That said, perhaps I need new ones lol.
In any case, after drawing on my 'strong independent self’, and a lot of intestinal fortitude, I decided I can make my own decisions and they can all continue believing what makes them happy. Now back to the surgery..I also started thinking that my body-while fully clothed is decent-would not be able to be improved through surgery. So I emailed Dr. Hughes to consider I wasn’t a good case and that maybe I couldn’t get the results I wanted. I am also a workaholic and never take time off, so am certain I am looking for reasons not to do it. He replied –immediately as per usual (awesome btw) and stated that he turns down people all the time for surgery because they are not good candidates and that I am not one of them-the plan is solid-a direct quote. So that was that, I decided in that instant to live vicariously through Dr. Hughes confidence, called Lorena and paid about 60% of the surgery. I am now committed.
I found a place on VRBO (Vacation rentals by owner) in Venice beach and booked it. Many thanks to Brown Girl in the ring for this suggestion, as I agree that being someplace pretty will help me move my new body and keep me in good spirits after the surgery. I am staying for a total of 14days, though 11 days post-surgery. The cost isn’t a whole lot more than a hotel I believe.
I initially thought I would need to hire a nurse for post-surgical care as I didn’t want to ask anyone to come with me, especially after the feedback received on the idea alone. But found 2 friends in my crew who were happy for me and would love to be a part of my transformation. So I have one friend (an ex-boyfriend! Yes ladies this is possible) who is staying with me week 1 and another who come week 2. My son –while he thinks this entire procedure is unnecessary - wanted to be there, but he is finishing his degree over the summer and I didn’t want him to upset that for this. Further, I am not sure I could find anything more unappealing than having my son seeing me in that state, let alone taking care of me.
Ok, that is a lot in one post. My next post will cover all the items I have purchased. For now, I am attaching ‘before’ pictures. I am sensitive to them as I am far more comfortable with clothes on –but will share in order to make these posts more meaningful for everyone reading them. The pictures posted in my original post in case anyone is wondering were my wish pics !
Replies (12)
May 12, 2015
I didn't tell any of my girlfriends I was having the surgery until after it was done. I too suffer from many friends who think their opinion is the right opinion. I just didn't want to hear it! I wanted to do what I wanted to do sans everyones opinion getting in the way.
You'll go back and forth with the decision until you're laying on the table. I can promise you one thing- you have chosen an INCREDIBLE doctor.
I'm a native Californian, so I don't see a lot of what people refer to as "cocky." He may not remember your name through an email or a phone call, but he'll remember your face and the literal art he did on your body.
Day 1 post op, you'll go back to "what the hell did I do?!"
Week 1 post op, you'll wonder why it took you so long to make the decision.
Brown girl in the ring has suggested a meditation bench, I've seen others suggest massage table head pieces that go betwixt your mattress and boxspring for laying on your tummy, and someone suggested to me a Go-Girl pee thing, so you don't have to sit down to pee. I'd recommend all of them. The biggest battle is not sitting down for six weeks.
Good luck to you on your journey! You will be blown away by your results, I guarantee it!
May 13, 2015
Thanks for this! I hadnt heard of this massage table piece thing but did purchase a female urinal -someone else recommended the BBL pillow. so looking into all of that too
May 12, 2015
I told a handful of close friends about the breast lift, and they were all very supportive of that (no pun intended), but I only told one friend about the BBL because she is my closest friend and has been with me through thick and thin and never been even slightly judgmental. She was thoroughly fascinated about the whole thing and loves the results. I am certain that the rest of my friends would be less enthusiastic. My husband and son weren't thrilled. Also, you Canadians are se of the most conservative people I have ever loved among, so it doesn't surprise me that they might be reticent.
You need to do what's right for you, and you will find a lot of support here on RS.
I agree with UNAL about the flip-flopping beforehand and it's natural, but you won't regret it. And as a fellow workaholic, I can tell you that his "forced break" I'd almost as life changing and therapeutic as the surgical changes.
I'm behind you 100%. You'll love this ride. Xx
May 13, 2015
You and missutah have been an inspiration for me. I am thrilled to have been virtually part of your journey. I am beginning to get excited -well panic stricken too-but your ladies journey keeps me going. Thank you!!
May 12, 2015
It is amazing to read what people think. I have heard the same things from other people as well (waste of money, strong women don't need this, etc). It can be very hard to listen too, but it is always worth listening to as it is important to weigh all the factors, even the ones we might not want to hear. If after hearing it all you still feel strong about it, than I think you are making the right decision. I have had a couple procedures done (BA, chin) and always flopped back and forth over whether it was the right thing. What I have noticed is that, for me, once done I have never dwelt on the thoughts after and move on. I am hoping for the same when I go for my BBL. I sent my photos to Dr Hughes and still waiting for a reply. I am praying I am not too skinny, as that seems to be an issue. Worst is I had lipo done about 8 years ago and sadly never knew at the time that i could transfer instead of it being tossed, sigh!!!!
As long as one is honest with oneself, that's all that matters.
Keep us posted, and I hope it is a wonderful experience/vacay :)
May 12, 2015
I'm very happy you made a decision to go with Dr. Hughes. Your body type is a lot like mine so I know you will get great results.
My situation is a little different. I was the only one of my girlfriends that didn't have any procedures done so I finally decided to treat myself.
This site is great for support. I love my little BBL fam lol it made it much easier to get thru this recovery process communicating with ladies who are going thru the same thing. We are hear for you and we are listening. Can't wait to see your after photos! Xoxo
May 13, 2015
Thanks Missutah! Just saw you unbelievable vixen pictures. You look fantastic!!
May 13, 2015
Thanks girlfriend ! Your support means a lot to me. There are seriously a lot of incredible women on here and I feel blessed to have virtually met you all!
UPDATED FROM bblcanada
29 days pre
One month to go! List of items for preparation
bblcanadaMay 17, 2015
One month exactly before the surgery- here is the list of items I have prepared (this list is based on many of the posts from the ladies who have undergone the surgery)
Toiletries:
Arnica gel
Cocoa butter oil
Antibacterial Soap
Q-tips (clean incision sites)
Benadryl/Reactine/Itch cream
Vinyl gloves
Alcohol wipes /peroxide
Dressing bandages
Baby powder (if rash develops under binder)
Baby wipes
Feminine pads
Medl kit (band aids, tape, gauzes, Neosporin)
Vitamins etc
Iron injection (I have always been anemic, so I get these weekly - I assume most people would take pills)
B12- I am low
B6-I am low
Vitamin C
Bromelain
Arnica Montana pills
Stool softener
Sundries:
Urinal / large cup
Shower cap
Thermometer
Bending straws (easier for drinking while on tummy)
Clothes:
Maxi dress
Yoga pants
Camisoles
Slippers
Big(ger) panties
Cotton T-shirts (to wear under binder)
Misc:
Boppy/ BBL pillow
Neck roll
Grabber
Med bench
Bed sheets
Is there anything I am missing ladies?
Toiletries:
Arnica gel
Cocoa butter oil
Antibacterial Soap
Q-tips (clean incision sites)
Benadryl/Reactine/Itch cream
Vinyl gloves
Alcohol wipes /peroxide
Dressing bandages
Baby powder (if rash develops under binder)
Baby wipes
Feminine pads
Medl kit (band aids, tape, gauzes, Neosporin)
Vitamins etc
Iron injection (I have always been anemic, so I get these weekly - I assume most people would take pills)
B12- I am low
B6-I am low
Vitamin C
Bromelain
Arnica Montana pills
Stool softener
Sundries:
Urinal / large cup
Shower cap
Thermometer
Bending straws (easier for drinking while on tummy)
Clothes:
Maxi dress
Yoga pants
Camisoles
Slippers
Big(ger) panties
Cotton T-shirts (to wear under binder)
Misc:
Boppy/ BBL pillow
Neck roll
Grabber
Med bench
Bed sheets
Is there anything I am missing ladies?
Replies (8)
May 17, 2015
Wow looks like you are ready! Way to go. The shorts that they put me in have me a really bad rash on my inner thigh so baby powder and band aids is a must in case this happens to you too
May 18, 2015
I figure I can buy anything I missed from there. That said, it was a challenge to decide between a sexy track pants outfit or a maxi dress. NOT. Maybe I am too old or just out of style..I dont think track suits should ever come back ..EVER. Apologies in advance to those ladies who count their velour juicy coutures as staples of their wardrobe. It may be just me...but when I look at me in one, I feel like their is a police officer not too far away ready to make an arrest. :)
May 17, 2015
Holy moly! Are you a Girl Guide? That's impressive. I didn't have most of that stuff :). Don't forget a really good book, and maybe a long, flowy cover up for if you go out for walks and want to hide the binder (just go for preggers-chic). I packed my favourite tea, but then found a better turmeric-blend at Intelliengtsia on AK Boulevard. They well selfie-poles on the Board Walk. I probably should have bought one so I don't have to contort myself to take pics for this site - haha! I'm almost envious of you for being at the start of all this. What an adventure!! [RS bleep]
May 18, 2015
Lol. I believe I mentioned I am a nerd...well maybe I didnt. But I am. I actually had a table with the list but it wouldnt let me cut and paste. Books are a GREAT idea. I am a voracious reader..cant believe I missed that. I think its a good thing you didnt buy a selfie stick..my friends have threathened to roll me if I get one. Lol.
May 22, 2015
Wow, I appreciate your list ! I added a few things to mine from it...I am an inch taller and 5 lbs heavier, with almost the same story as you. Weight loss over the years and my doctors gave me the same feedback about a body lift. I am going with the same procedures (-eyes) as you on May 27 here in Pasadena which is about 40 minutes away from Culver City. I so appreciate you posting your pictures and experience as I am a little too shy. Best of luck to you and I will be thinking good thoughts for you.
June 2, 2015
Hi Katin. How did your surgery go? Hope you are doing great. Thank you for the well wishes! I would be thrilled to hear how it went for you.
June 5, 2015
You are so sweet :) It went well, I am 8 days post op today. The first 6 days were tough not so much due to pain but its uncomfortable pressure and your movement is restricted. My bottom made me giggle because I am sure it is absurdly huge but my pants still fit and it will lose its fullness and keep its shape (hopefully). Based on our similar figures, I think you will enjoy that the most. I am bruised considerably and I have one spot on my knee that I believe the doctor was too aggressive with but I refuse to anguish about it until at least 8 weeks out. I can tell my hips look smooth and curvy as well as my upper thighs. The doctor said swelling in the legs takes the longest...sometimes 6 months ! My only suggestion is to make sure you have an extra garment because washing it every night when you don't feel great is a nuisance. You are doing it right with your extended stay, you will recover well. I will think good thoughts for you.
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