35 Year Mom of 2, Surgical Vaginal Rejuvenation

35 year old mom of 2, I’m getting my vagina surgically tightened with Labiaplasty and repair to my perineum. I had 2 vaginal births, the first birth was 7 years ago and my perineum tore and the doctor did not repair it. With my second child they left the baby sitting basically in my vagina for 20 minutes while they waited for the doctor to get there. I feel like this stretched my vagina. I would like it to be tighter during intercourse, I’ve asked the dr to take it down to 2 fingers. My husband has a small penis and I can’t feel things as well as I used to. I have always had long inner labia that I’m uncomfortable with and I’m hoping to reduce it down to a nice neat little package. I found Dr Owens by chance. She is very nice and friendly so far and the office is lovely too. She is easy to talk to and the office staff is welcoming.To be honest I am nervous about having this procedure done.This is the only chance I’ll have to do something like this. I am an anxious person though always thinking. I am very excited at the same time at the thought of getting my sex life and confidence back. My surgery is scheduled for next Thursday. I will be awake for the surgery just under local anesthesia so I’m pretty happy about that. Being put under scares me. I definitely won’t be able to afford to do this again (plus there are other things I’d like to have done) so I’m really hoping I get good results. I will update later and add before and after photos. Wish me luck!

I got the blood work back today, I’m anemic & I’m going to have to have the procedure done at the hospital. :/ I’m a little apprehensive because I lost a lot of blood when I had my son 6 months ago. I had before pics taken and spoke about the procedure. I hope everything goes smoothly. I’m taking iron supplements .

I had my procedure done yesterday. Right now I can only really comment on how it looks on the outside because I can’t really tell about the inside. The outside looks a lot better, I finally feel like my vagina looks “normal” after 35 years & don’t feel self conscious of the way it looks. Before it always looked kind of “open” like my inner labia was hanging out & I didn’t like that, I wanted it to look more tucked in if that makes sense. So in the 1st photo you can see the stitches and everything that’s because the nurses were showing it for the photo. In the second photo it is how it really looks, which is just what I wanted. I had posterior wall repair & perineum repair also. The perineum repair looks very good. I can’t tell about the inside yet because I don’t want to mess with it but what she said she did is basically remove some tissue from the inside and pull the muscles that separated during childbirth closer together so it would be tighter. I won’t know the results of that portion until quite some time from now, at least 6 weeks. We had to have the surgery at the hospital rather than her office because my iron & hemoglobin levels were low due to me having a baby 6 months ago. I had lost a lot of blood during childbirth and I had a transfusion at the hospital. My blood pressure was also very high due to preeclampsia and I’m taking meds to regulate it. So Dr Owens felt more comfortable having it at the hospital because of the risk, however everything went perfectly and there were no problems.
The whole surgery lasted 3 hours or so. She did take her home with it and made sure she got the result we were looking for. I was awake the whole time. I didn’t feel much other than pulling. Occasionally there was a spot that I wast numb that had to be re-numbed. It was less pain than I anticipated.(When the lidocaine initially wore off I was in a lot of pain, it has mostly subsided at least while I’m laying in bed.) I had to keep my legs in elevated stirrups so at times they would start to shake and I would have to readjust a little bit. Dr Owens was very good about answering my questions during the procedure and keeping me posted. There was a good bit of skin trimmed off the labia. I can’t really see what it looks like with the stitches because it’s tucked in and I don’t want to pull on it or mess with it and risk anything separating.
But it looks great and I’m very happy with it. Dr Owens has a great bedside manner and she puts you at ease. I am quite pleased with the results so far. I’ve wanted to look like this my whole life and struggled with being self conscious about it since I was in my teens. I will update more once I have an idea of the tightness.