Much Needed Tummy Tuck, Muscle Repair (Diastasis Recti), Hernia Repair

I am a very private person, so me doing this review is tough, but so many ladies have helped me in this journey that I thought it necessary to pay it forward. I am a 43 yr old mom of 3 kids (11, 9, and 7). I work out 6 days a week (normally running 2.5-3 miles each day). My current weight is 155 lbs., I'm 5"1. I have had a hernia since childhood, but it became more prominent and problematic with child bearing. I honestly didn't understand why my weight was getting in check with the exercising but the tummy area would not cooperate. A doctor's appointment informed me of the muscle separation along with the hernia. I am so tired of looking pregnant especially when I am working so hard to get in good physical shape. I think I am pretty close to my natural weight- as I carry a lot of my weight in my hips and thighs.
I have looked over many, many reviews for many, many doctors and finally decided to go with Dr. Sumanth Pagadala. My procedure is scheduled for Dec 27 at 8:00 am. We will be driving to the Columbus area on the 26th and stay for a couple of days there and then return home. I am about a 2.5 hour drive from Columbus. Surgery has been paid for and lab work has been turned in so everything is a go. I am working now to get all of my post surgery things together- including preparing meals for the family. I am like most others doing this type of procedure- I'm anxious and excited at the same time.

Okay on Tuesday 12-13-17, I made my final payment and turned in all of my lab work- which I paid out of pocket- everything has been given the go ahead. Now I turn to post surgery needs and set up; -this includes preparing a few meals for the family and getting any items I may need.
I will be staying in Columbus the Tuesday before the surgery (pre-opt meeting at 2:00) and then staying the night of the surgery, then we will be coming home (husband is caretaker- kids at home with my mom). I just think it would be easier for me especially if I’m going to feel really groggy and nauseated. I’ve been so busy that I have not had time to sit and dwell on things, but it’s definitely in my thoughts daily.
My post-surgery supplies in attachment.
*Anika Forte
*Neosporin
*Gauge Pads
*Female Urination Devices
*Heating Pad
*Arnica Gel
*Bio-Oil
*Lanyard
*Exam Gloves
*Lipo Board

I have a recliner with a foot stool that I will be using. Its not a traditional recliner, but I did not want to a purchase a recliner that I don't have space for afterwards. I do have old pillows and blankets to use for any leakage.

Thoughts are almost consumed with the outcome of the surgery both good and bad. Just when I think I'm okay I see some really bad review or outcome (not my doctor) and I'm back to being freaked out all over again. Praying for peace of mind and a good outcome.