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492CC - 31 Years Old with 2 Kids - 5'3" - 125lbs - 34B pre-op Cincinnati, OH
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I have never been happy with my breast size. Since...
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I have never been happy with my breast size. Since I was a teenager, I remember praying I'd wake up to find them magically bigger. When I realized that was never going to happen, I began dreaming of one day getting breast implants. Finally it is going to be a reality!!!
I have two young girls, ages 8 and 5, and I am afraid my choice to enlarge my breasts will interfere with their own self-confidence as they go through their development. So, I am still struggling with how to talk to them about it, but trust the right time and words will come.
I am not sure what size I will be going for. Honestly I want big. I want like DD cup size. But at the same time, I don't want attention or gawking either. So, I hope to find a good balance that will allow me to play them up when wanted and down when needed.
Today has been a huge day on this journey. I have scheduled my consult/pre-op (May 11) and surgery date (June 16). Additionally, although I am keeping this mostly to myself, I decided to talk with a good friend and my sister. They both took it very well and are being supportive.
I have two young girls, ages 8 and 5, and I am afraid my choice to enlarge my breasts will interfere with their own self-confidence as they go through their development. So, I am still struggling with how to talk to them about it, but trust the right time and words will come.
I am not sure what size I will be going for. Honestly I want big. I want like DD cup size. But at the same time, I don't want attention or gawking either. So, I hope to find a good balance that will allow me to play them up when wanted and down when needed.
Today has been a huge day on this journey. I have scheduled my consult/pre-op (May 11) and surgery date (June 16). Additionally, although I am keeping this mostly to myself, I decided to talk with a good friend and my sister. They both took it very well and are being supportive.
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April 15, 2015
Who did you decide to go with as your PS?
April 16, 2015
I feel like that's the only one I haven't had a consult with lol. Even though I've met with only two I have two more scheduled... Kurtis martin, Joel Maier, and Columbus and Allison leid are scheduled for the end of the month... I hope I fall in love with one of the last two BC the first two I'm not so crazy about
April 16, 2015
I have not mean Dr. Loftus yet. I called for a consult but the soonest opening they had was for the end of August! So, when I expressed how I was hoping to get in a lot sooner they told me that if I want, I can do the preop/consult in one visit and get in a lot sooner. But I've already deposited money to hold my surgery date, even though I havent officially met Dr. Loftus. It doesnt worry me though. Ive read her book, read her whole website, read everything I could find online about her and I feel good about this. Im anxious to meet her though.
April 17, 2015
O my end of August?! Geesh... She must be really good! That's good you feel confident with your decision because honestly trying to find the right PS that you feel has the same vision as you and able to give you what you're looking for is stressing me out! I had even considered maybe going out of town... I think once I find someone I really like that will be half the battle. Can't wait to see how your consult goes!
April 16, 2015
I have a daughter, as well. She's 11yrs old...very level headed and mature. I knew there was no hiding my BA from her or anyone else. So...I told her exactly what I was doing and why. I have always been very up front and honest with her about everything; so, I figured this shouldn't be any different. Granted, she's VERY aware of my cousins and the annoying need for chicken cutlets. I've never presented the issue as a problem/concern with my own self confidence. Just me doing something for me. Her objective: know my mommy was going to be okay. Once I included her in the research process and let her watch a few YouTube videos she was perfectly fine with it. She's 100% on board and still has no interest in having boobies of her own!
April 16, 2015
Thank you! That's very encouraging. I have always taken the blunt and honest approach with my girls. I always tell myself, that my own hangups will only be pushed onto them if I allow it. Thanks.
April 22, 2015
I too have an 11 year old daughter and presented it to her in a similar and I don't feel it caused any issues with her self-confidence etc either. She was more like why in the world do you want bigger boobs? She herself is starting to get hers and she finds them very annoying so she wasn't understanding the point at all. lol. I chose not to tell my son who is 8. He knew I went to the doctor and had something done obviously, but because I used to wear push up bras and now I don't, I've actually been able to keep my surgery private for the most part. Only a small group of family and friends even know about it and mine was Christmas Eve.
April 22, 2015
That's good to hear winecountrymama. I am feeling less and less worried about it the more accepting I myself am becoming of it. I plan to wait until maybe a week before surgery to tell them. At this age, a week feels like a month. It gives them time to ask whatever questions they might have to ease their mind before the surgery day. Plus they will be staying the night with their best friends (our neighbors) and so that will be exciting for them and probably more of a focus for them than me getting implants. Im glad I am doing this with them young.
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April 16, 2015
We chose the same ladies for our wish pics!!! @anna1989 & @angel2006 are beautiful woman with gorgeous boobies!!!
April 16, 2015
You're going to look awesome...you've got a good amount of tissue and great symmetry
UPDATED FROM MJOriginal
2 months pre
Obsessing
I am obsessing over boobs! Please tell me I'm not the only one spending hours on this site reading through every review, picture, video...
I work from home and I'm barely getting any work done. My husband has got to be tired of me talking about it....I'm just thankful for this site so I have some sort of outlet.
I work from home and I'm barely getting any work done. My husband has got to be tired of me talking about it....I'm just thankful for this site so I have some sort of outlet.
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April 10, 2015
I remember I was the same way before I had my surgery and "friends" (I don't have a bf) that had theirs done got annoyed with me always asking questions and talking about it. Glad I found this site too, very helpful! What size are you now?
April 15, 2015
I am the same way!!! I feel like I talk and read about boobs so much that i'm dreaming about them too! I have so many wish boobs in my phone that I'm pretty sure that if someone were to look in my phone they would think I was a lesbian! Lol you're not alone
April 16, 2015
haha yep! I said to my husband the other day "come look at these boobs! They are perfect!". He said, "where have you been all my life?". lol
April 17, 2015
Ikr! We will be out in public and I'll be poking him on the low like "aye babe look at her, look at her...you think those are implants? What size do you think she is?" So we are both checking women out. Or I'm sending him naked boob pics of other women while he's at work. So hopefully no one is around when he opens that message! lmao
May 19, 2015
LoL my husband is the same way ,I think I'm stressing him more then myself , when I told him I changed my mind on the size and profile he was like what!! He said I thought you want the UHP I said I did but I saw a few pictures here with UHP Natrelle style 45 and I read there reviews and the look they were not to happy , so I did some research on HP Natrelle style 20 HP and so far I see so many lady's here that they love the outcome and they were so happy on how they look...Anyhow I'm so glad I found this web sight because it has helped me out so much....Good luck I think we are all here for the same reasons :-D
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