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I've been reading stories on here for a few weeks...

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I've been reading stories on here for a few weeks now. I wanted to make sure I was going to go through with it before sharing mine. I've read EVERY review on here (literally) & everyone's story has helped me in one way or another. I would like to say thank you to everyone who has shared because it's given me the courage & strength I've needed to help make my decision & explain it to my family & friends. My name is Gabrielle. I turned 22 this month & I have a four month old beautiful baby girl. I'm halfway through nursing school (I've got two years left) So I've really studied everything about this. From what could go wrong or possibly change my life forever. I've never broken my nose or been in any kind of accident that's effected it. It's just naturally big. I was teased & tormented for it in middle school. In high school I tried to cover it up with a lot of makeup. I'll only look at people from a certain angle when I speak to them (to try & hide it) & I'll only take post photos on social sites of my face from certain angles (until now) I've always felt beautiful on the inside but never the out. I feel like its the first & only thing people notice when they see me. My boyfriend thinks I'm crazy & doesn't understand. He sees it as why do you wanna change yourself & who do you have to impress. My response is always the same. I have no one to impress. I'm doing this to feel better about myself and this is something I've always wanted to do. I couldn't afford it until now or I would've already done it. I had my consultation on December 2nd & had my surgery scheduled for the 10th. I got scared at the last minute & backed down. It's all I've thought about and I've regretted it so much. My new consultation is on December 26th & my surgery is going to be on January 7th (I'm going to the same surgeon as I was the first time) my mother & grandmother are going to come stay with me & help me with my daughter while im healing from surgery. I hope & pray everything goes according to plan and I get the results I've always longed for. Either way it will change my life forever. I will upload my before photos sometime later on today from a computer (since I can't do it from my phone)

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Paul Blair, MD

Board Certified Facial Plastic Surgeon

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December 22, 2012

Thanks for starting your story on RealSelf. I just know the second time is going to be the charm. My thoughts will be with you on January 7th. You can do this!

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11 days pre

The 26th is so close! I'm getting so many mixed...

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The 26th is so close! I'm getting so many mixed feelings. I get excited, nervous, happy and scared. It's all a little over whelming. One thing that helps is coming to realself and reading reviews and looking at before and after pictures. I know that this is something i've always wanted. In a way i'm just ready to get it over with (if that makes any sense at all) One of the only things that scares me is being afraid that my nose is going to end up worse than it already is. I've been having nightmares about it! I don't know if I should take that as a sign or not? Half the time I think i'm ready and the other half I thnk i'm not. Any tips on how to deal with mixed emotions (so close to surgery) and to not be afraid that the outcome will be worse than it already is? I trust my doctor and everything. I've never had a surgery before and i'm thinking that has a lot to do with it. Any advice is greatly appreciated :) Happy Holidays to all!

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December 24, 2012
you are a beautiful girl. Good luck with your surgery!
December 24, 2012
How exciting! I hope everything turns out beyond your expectations! :) Keep us posted.
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December 24, 2012
Thank you :) I feel so ugly with this nose that I can't wait to change it!
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December 24, 2012
Thank you! I hope it does too :)
December 25, 2012
Good luck! My surgery is the 15th so I understand your anxiousness. The closer it gets the more I second guess my choice but I am going through with it. I don't want to spend the rest of my life regret not going through with it. As long as you have confidence in your doctor try not to second guess your decision! Good luck and keep us posted :)
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Hopefully the old saying "third time arounds a...

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Hopefully the old saying "third time arounds a charm" is true. I'm going on a third consult with a different doctor on January 3rd. This time I will be seeing a doctor I found here on real self. I'm feeling positive that Dr. Jeffery Thaxton MD can give me the results I want, especially after looking at his before & after photos. Let's back up here a bit. Earlier today I went to my second consult with Dr. John Brock. Or I should say his nurse and it went terrible. I was hopeful after my first one with him and then I started thinking & got doubtful, because
I was feeling doubtful (and they say to always follow your gut) I called his office and wanted a second consultation and wanted to go over exactly what he was going to do again. When I got there today his nurse came in. She was down right rude and wanted to know what I wanted. When I told her I didn't understand what doctor Brock was going to be doing she very rudely stated that everything was right here in his notes. When she showed me I couldn't read his handwriting (who can read a doctors handwriting besides the doctor their self?) when I told her that she became even ruder and said the doctor can not see you today & answer questions he's in surgery. Then she started going back and fourth from me to him telling him my questions and coming back and telling me his answers. The whole thing was just a mess. They didn't understand why I wanted every little detail. My response was I had to be 100% sure especially if I'm going to spend $7,000 and I wanted to know every little detail because it's my face. She told me the doctor said that if I'm feeling that doubtful to get a second opinion & he recommended Dr. Thaxton. Little did he know I called Dr. Thaxton earlier this morning & scheduled a consult for January 3rd after seeing his reviews on here & reading his website & seeing his before & after photos. I stood up for myself for the first time today in Dr. Brock's office & boy did it feel good! My only concern now is that Dr. Thaxton (if I decide to go with him) can perform my surgery sometime by the second week of January because I return to school the end of January and doing it by then I'm only giving myself two weeks to heal. I guess if it's meant to be it will all work itself out :) I'm just trying to stay positive until my 3rd consult because for once I feel completely ready to do this!

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December 27, 2012
It's really hard not to second guess yourself the closer it gets to your surgery date. Honestly I think that's something we all go through. Good luck to you! & also keep us posted! Many thanks :)
December 27, 2012
I know what you went through backing-out the first time, I did the same thing. I fantasized about it for so long but when I scheduled it, it became very real and very scary! I took another 6 months to really think about it and although I'm still a bit nervous, I feel much more confident this time around and I'm excited to get this done. I hope your consultation goes well and this new surgeon is a better fit for you!
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December 28, 2012
Thank you! & I hope he is too! I'll be thinking of you on the 3rd :) I can't wait to see your results. Keep me updated!
December 28, 2012
I can't wait to see your results when you get the surgery :)
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December 28, 2012
Thank you! Nor can I. I'm looking forward to my surgery date.
December 30, 2012
Our surgery is on the same day! Good luck with yours :)
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December 30, 2012
Awwh! I hope your excited as I am. It's like starting a whole new chapter in your life or a brand new start for some of us. Goodluck with your surgery :) & keep me updated!
December 31, 2012
Is your dr going to have to break your nose? I am probably most worried about that and the tip work.
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January 5, 2013
Sorry I just saw your comment or I would've replied sooner!! Yes, he did break my nose. To my understanding I didn't have a lot of tip work done. He was mostly going to shave my bone down & do some side work as he called it & said that would slightly push my tip up. He showed me a few before & after pics of noses that he did the same exact thing too. They looked great! I'm 1 day post op & I'm in no pain what so ever. The surgery was breeze. I had no nausea, no problem coming out of the general anthes., I have no packing so I can breath out of both nostrils, I have no brusing under my right eye what so ever & very slight brusing under my left in the corner only, and I have a little swelling to my cheeks but nothing major. If you have anymore questions please feel free to ask :)