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Birthday Gift to Self....Much Needed Reduction. Carmel, IN

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I'm a single mom with large breasts that won't...

axelfoley2013
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I'm a single mom with large breasts that won't stop growing! After I had my son (14 years ago) they just get bigger and bigger and bigger. Before kid-> 34C; Now--> 38G/40DDD. Before and during my pregnancy I would get asked if they were fake....proud moment. Not so much. Gravity is no joke! And especially if you have dense breasts. I have neck and back pain and some serious indentations in my shoulders. My PS was even surprised by how deep they were.
So anyway, I've been thinking about getting a reduction for a while now. I have a few friends and my cousin who all say it was the best decision they ever made. So I'm going for it. I started researching and talked to my gynecologist and my primary care physician. They were both very supportive and did everything they could to provide the necessary documentation needed to provide to insurance. I was referred to a PS in my town, which there are very few of, by my primary care Dr. and also referred to another doctor in Indianapolis by my Gynecologist. I went to the local PS first. I really liked him. We scheduled my surgery and he had me meet with his assistant. I realized I forgot to ask for photos of past clients. So she brought TWO in for me to look at...let me just say I was HIGHLY unimpressed. I was actually concerned about his quality of work and worried that if I let him do the procedure I would end up disappointed and depressed. In both of the former patient photos the women were still pretty large afterwards and he cut so far up on the inside and outside there would be no way to wear a swimsuit EVER without scars showing!! I had some additional research done and found out this doctor, who is affilated with the hospital, was NOT Board Certified. I cancelled the surgery.
The PS that my gynecologist referred me to is very well known and does great work. He IS Board Certified. Unfortunately, he is out of network so I would have to pay out of pocket even though my insurance covers the surgery and he wouldn't even see me until my BMI was lower. Well the large breasts has been part of the problem with me losing weight. I can't do any cardio because they hurt too much. I was disappointed that I couldn't even see him before being told that. So I looked to see who was part of my insurance network and then researched everyone. I chose Dr. Barbara K. Siwy. I loved her from the minute I met her. She was awesome. Very straight to the point about how she works and what to expect. I loved and appreciated that. So I said yes to her as my PS. She is also going to do tumescent liposuction on my lateral, medial and inner thighs.
I'm exited to do this but anxious and scared at the same time. I saw her again and she said that based on the scale the insurance companies use, the Schnur sliding scale, they would have to take A LOT out! About 1.75lbs each breast. Based on her guesstimate she said that would put me at a low C or high B...the B and my body do NOT go together! I'll look like a pear! And if I am able to lose weight after the procedure I may end up flat chested! So while I'm happy to be doing this, I'm a bit stressed about it too!

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Barbara K. Siwy, MD

Barbara K. Siwy, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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July 2, 2016
Hi,
I can completely relate to your dilemma! It looks like we're about the same size. I will be having my surge on July 12th and my doctor is not board certified plastic surgeon, but he is dual certified (one) by the American Board of Cosmetic Surgery. I had a few concerns because I wanted my body to be as close to symmetrical as possible. I like having full breasts and curves, I just want them to be smaller and perkier! I don't want to end up with flat [RS bleep] either! I expressed my concerned to him at my pre-op appt. yesterday and he tried to reassure me that I would be happy with my result and I'd probably end up being a full 'C'. I'd be happy with that as long as I have a flat tummy to match. I'll be having a full TT/MR, BR and lift.

Good luck and see you on the other side of the perky, bra-free life! :-)
July 2, 2016
Congratulations! I've been trying to get some weight off by changing my eating habits in the time being. Hopefully when I get weighed on day of surgery she'll say she's taking out less so I end up a C cup! Good luck to us both! Let me know how everything goes!
July 2, 2016
I am very impressed. You are one savvy lady. Board certification is so important, and finding a surgeon who does the style you want. I think some insurance companies put the requirements up ridiculously high, just to avoid paying.

I have those wide incisions but for me they are a good choice. If they did Lipo I would have ended up with bags of skin under my arms, which would need to be removed leaving the same scars. Lipo is probably better for most ladies but I am older with more loose skin than most. He was just going to leave it alone but when expressed a desire to loose volume in that area he said it was best to excise for me and I agreed. It would have been upsetting to just wake up like that without agreeing to it. Good catch on that first doc.


Good luck! I know all will be well.
July 3, 2016
Thank you. I know there is a chance she may have to cut wider to reduce more. But based on the photos she showed me and one of the reviews on her I am confident she will make it so they are mostly hidden. *fingers crossed*
July 3, 2016
Go for it! I don't think you will regret it - even if a size B. And you said that they are continuing to grow ... If they continue growing even after the surgery, you'd be really disappointed if you went through having the surgery, only to find yourself back to the same size in a couple of years.
July 3, 2016
Good point!! Thanks! Its good to hear from other people so I don't over think all of this!
July 6, 2016
Wow yes they are pretty big and saggy, I see the dents in your shoulders that looks painful! You think them being saggy made it worse?
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3 days post

3 Days Post Op

axelfoley2013
So far so good! My doctor was pretty excited about how much was removed from my chest AND my legs. I don't remember much of the conversation because the anesthesia had me in and out of consciousness. But I think she said I should be about a C cup---they look more like B's to me--and she took about 8lbs from my legs--WOW!
Today I have felt the most sore so far. Partially because I started my period today and I get strong cramps. I have to say I'm glad I did this just before my period because my breasts swell a lot just before my cycle and I just kept thinking that my sutures would tear apart if I had done this earlier. So basically I had the surgery while they were already swollen.
They aren't real pretty right now. But I have to say I have no regrets! I feel like a very literal large weight was lifted!!

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July 15, 2016
Looking good! Congratulations!
July 17, 2016
Thanks. Healing has been pretty good until this evening I noticed that my top left areola is lifting. And I am starting to see some sutures now. Fortunately my follow up is on Tuesday!
July 15, 2016
They look good. Did they do lipo of your "bra fat "?
July 17, 2016
No. She didn't think I needed it once the breast tissue was removed.