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Mommy of 4 Hoping to Get Back What Was Lost! Consultation on July 24th. - Cape Coral, FL

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I'm nervous and excited. This has been long time...

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SWFL Mom
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I'm nervous and excited. This has been long time coming but I still have so many questions. I've been lurking on here for a few weeks now and decided it's time I start my own profile.
I'll be 47 in October. I'm hoping to have the surgery done for my birthday. A gift from me to me. It's taken a long time to decide that it's finally time. I'm down to 1 child at home and can finally afford it. I'm just hoping I won't feel too guilty. Doesn't it seem like there's always something demanding your pocketbook? After nursing 4 children I feel like my breast are nothing but mush. Sure I can fake it with a push up bra and cami with a built in bra. Bras work magic. Thing is I'm tired of having to wear padded bras ... it's too dang hot here in Florida! Oh and who has not experienced wearing a padded bikini top and having to discreetly squeeze out the water of the pads or else have a river running down your ribs? I can't wait for day to be able to wear any top I want and actually filling out a baby doll ... without pads!!!

I'm 5'3 and weigh a measly 102 lbs. Yes I've always been skinny. Too skinny. I've finally broke the 100 lb mark! Yay!!! lol. Bra sizes are ridiculous. I can wear anything from a 32B, 34 A or B, and most recently I bought an identical bra from Kohl's and decided since my boobs seem more wide than proud that they actually fit better in a C cup .. although the B cup gives the illusion of more cleavage.
I'm thinking of getting 300 cc's of silicone under. Going under the fold, though I do have a scar on my areola from a biopsy when I was 17 so I'm open to peri areola as well. I'd love to hear from slender women who have saline unders and what their experience has been. Rippling? See/feel the bag? I'm so confused about sizing and mostly about profiles. I understand that concept; but not the results. Some girls (similar body type to mine) seem to have balls on their chest; others look quite natural despite both going under the muscle and getting HP or Mod+. I made rice sizers (300 cc's), I'm not sure if I'm wearing them right and wondering if implants are similar in weight?
Breath! I'm going to be brave and put photos up (very shy) because I do believe it's the only way to get accurate recommendations. Hopefully it'll help someone else with similar body type, age etc. down the road.
I welcome comments and suggestions as that's what I'm hear for. I'll be looking for support and willing to offer the same as we all go through this process. Best wishes to all!!

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John Ritrosky, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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July 16, 2014
Hi SWMom - we r close in age so I noticed your story. I'll be 49 in Feb. I am 5'5" and 137lb. I was always in the 125 range but my thyroid was removed last year and I gained a qwik 13 lbs. I've managed to lose some now that my meds r controlled. I am also eager to gain back what was lost after nursing 3 kids (now 21, 17, 10), weight gain/loss etc. I am considering 325-350 silicone under muscle, just based on what I've seen and read on this site. First consult is Aug 4. I am not afraid of surgery or the recovery at all - been there, done that - but reading about capsular contraction for so many is terrifying! Anyway, don't feel selfish! We moms deserve to look good too! Can't wait to wear nice bras and halter tops; a wrap dress; a bikini with no padding! I've always been built like a boy and want to feel more feminine. Not ready to post "before" pics just yet. Good luck on your journey. Keep posting!
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July 17, 2014
Hi OC48. Looks like we are starting our journey together. I haven't had time to read your full profile yet; but I defiantly will! My "children" are 25, 24, 21 and 12 (yes I started over lol but am DONE!!!! LOL) Have you thought about what profile? I'm not afraid of surgery either; am really nervous about recovery ... mainly how much time I need to take off from work, And the CC scares the crap outta me! I'm trying really hard not to feel selfish. On one hand it always seems something needs to be done or the money could be better spent on something else. On the other hand I do deserve to do something for myself. I've worked hard all my life and am so used to putting others before me. I'm getting older and am feeling "it's now or never" if that makes sense? I too have always felt like a boy .. in fact I grew up a tomboy! But to be straight up and down??? The only reason I have hips now is because of having kids! I had to wear boy jeans since they have no bum or hips. I also can't wait to wear pretty summer dresses, a lacey bra!!! I just cut off all my hair into a pixie cut (you can imagine the comments I get from my kids about looking like a boy or ..... so adding some curves will do me some good! No worries about posting "before" pics ( I had to say "screw it" and just did .. it's still scary knowing there are topless pics of me on the Net!!!! LOL Hope I didn't scare you from doing so in the future. When you're ready ... until then maybe a bikini top pic a little further away would help?
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July 16, 2014
Hey!! We are same height and weight. Read my profile and see my pics of my journey, but I now have 350 HP unders silicone and love them (225 overs for my first BA, then capsular contracture). So if I were you, I'd pick at least 350 and go with hp, for sure, and silicone. Hp is for us tiny gals (implant is not as wide but better projection) who have droopiness from nursing. Too much rippling with saline. I had rippling with my overs, and they were silicone, saline would have been worse. Silicone feels and looks natural. Best of luck. Keep us posted!!
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July 16, 2014
Can u tell me more about the CC? Do you know how/why it happened??
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July 17, 2014
I had over the muscle implants and even tho I knew the risk for was higher for cap con, I didn't think it would happen to me -- I was healthy. Nine months after my BA, I developed a staph infection on my right boob and then 6 months later after the infection was cleared, I noticed cap con on that side. Both of my docs agreed it was prob a result of that infection. I didn't know this then but thru research I learned that any kind of infection can cause cap con (dental, skin, etc) so with my revision, I went under the muscle and had Strattice dermal matrix put in (skin graft at the bottom of the implants) to prevent cc from coming back, and rippling and sagging. Read my review for the whole story if you're interested.
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July 17, 2014
Hi Mamamel! Thank you for your response! I must say though I'm thoroughly exhausted I just had to take a brief look at your profile after reading your comments. I will definitely take the time to read your story when I get a few more moments! I'm sorry you went through the CC .. I can't even imagine. I am leaning toward to Silicone; only reason I'm toying with the idea of Saline is the cost difference. I have two consults next week so I'll see what the difference really is. In your opinion do you think had you gone under with the Saline that there would have been rippling? Btw the new "twins" look amazing so far!
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July 17, 2014
Thanks!! They are soft and squishy already and feel really natural after only 6 weeks!! There definitely would have been rippling with saline, even under the muscle, especially when you bend over along the side boob. The only reason I don't have it now at the bottom of the implant is because of the matrix (under the muscle only covers the top of the implant). The cost difference is only a thousand dollars cheaper to go with saline, but they are harder and if they pop, you have to get them immediately redone. My total for both BAs was over $17,000 (Strattice alone is 3 grand, but worth the money when compared to several revisions?). I will be paying on this for quite a while, so do not try to go the cheaper route, not just with saline but also with a cheaper doc --some do, but you end up paying more in the long run. Best of luck. This is just my opinion of course based on my experience. Even with the headache of 2 recoveries and the expense, it's worth it to me. They are soooo much fun to have!!!
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July 24, 2014
I just realized I never responded .. I might have on your page? Still learning how this site works! You've had quite the journey my friend ... but your results are perfection! I was certain I was going under but after my 1st consult he gave me (what seems to be a great if not reasonable) explanation on why he does unders ... read by update. He stated I had plenty of tissue to cover silicone above the muscle and claims it's very natural looking and feeling since you'll (I or whomever is lucky enough) will be feeling actual breastfeeding tissue instead of a bag. It seems to go against the majority but again their reasoning makes sense too. Ugg and the confusion continues ..
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July 24, 2014
*Breastfeeding tissue not breastferding! Damn Auto correct lol
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July 24, 2014
I had a skin infection on my right breast 9 months after surgery and developed cap con several months after the infection cleared (my right boob had a big swelling at the top and felt harder-- that was how I knew something was wrong and doc then confirmed cc) . With overs you are more at risk, so when you have any infection anywhere, your body may start attacking the implant just because. There's something about being under the muscle that keeps the implant safe from your body's defense mechanism. (They claim the muscle "protects" it by keeping the pocket softer, or something). Check out my review for more info.
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July 17, 2014
Wow hard to believe u had for kids you look great.
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July 17, 2014
I mean four
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July 17, 2014
Thank You Melodywest!!! I have 2 girls (25 and 24 yrs. old) and 2 boys (21 and almost 12 yrs. old). They are my universe :)
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July 17, 2014
Wow you look great, your gonna be smoking hot after you get your new boobies!!
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July 20, 2014
Thank you! I wish i could say i work out but i don't. Although my job is physically demanding i have to give credit to my genetics.
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July 17, 2014
You have inspired me! I'll ask the hubby to help so not all close up "boob selfies". Looking forward to hearning about your consult. Tomboys no more! Keep posting :)
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July 20, 2014
Aww! How sweet :). I'm nervous and excited for my consultations. I'm hoping to bring along a friend because I'm afraid I'll be so nervous that everything they say will go in one ear and out the other! I have so many questions.
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2 months pre

BA without general anesthesia?

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I recently read a profile (forget who) where a revision to go larger was done without being put to sleep. How plausible is this? It saves a ton of money so I'd be willing to consider it ... after all i had a C-section with just a local. Anyone had a BA with a local (and maybe a vallium)?

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July 20, 2014
Hi! I cannot believe you had four kids! I had two in under two years (breast fed one for a year, the other for 11 months) and my boobs are so sad and deflated. I wish mine looked like yours, you have great pre op boobs! Good luck with everything and keep us posted!
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July 20, 2014
Thank you! My daughters are only 15.5 months apart ... it wasn't easy having two kids in diapers. I nursed all 4 for a year .. except the 2nd one; I was going through a divorce and her pediatrician told me that it would too dramatic of a change to stop nursing her. I was like what? I'm just a pacifier to her .. she nursed for 15 months. LOL she's known as the "boobir girl' because she ate all of mine and got plenty for herself ... until she had kids of her own. Funny because she didn't nurse either of her daughters and went from a small C to AA.
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July 20, 2014
Wow 15.5 months apart, that must have been tough. I'm still struggling with my (almost) 3 year old and 4.5 year old. It's crazy how women can go through the same experiences but the results on her body is different.
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July 20, 2014
By the way I feel guilty too. It's a momma thing.
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July 20, 2014
I agree. How do we get rid of it? Lol
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July 20, 2014
lol I don't know. I just keep telling myself I deserve it and we are financially responsible. This isn't an impulse decision and I'm fixing something that is depressing and draining on my heart. I know I'll be a happier person afterwards. We gotta take care of ourselves lol
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July 20, 2014
I agree 100%. We spend so much of our lives putting the wants and needs of others before ourselves. It's time we realize that we have wants and needs as well and that they are just as important!
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July 22, 2014
OML!! Ladies!!! This is a guilt free zone!! Hahaha. Why should u feel guilty? Would u feel that way if you used your money for a trip to visit family or a new ring? NO! This is the best gift you will ever give yourself! I bet your partners will love your gift too!! It's the gift that keeps on giving! Personally I feel that every woman is entitled to as well as a inherent desire to have breasts! It's the main thing that truly makes you feel beautiful. God made plastic surgeons too!! To be honest. I look at and touch my boobs more than anyone! I love them! They just make me feel GOOD! You will too!!
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2 months pre

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So I made rice sizers ... 300 cc and I'm more confused than ever! Are the sizers supposed to be the width of my breast? I don't think they are. How is it possible that I'm a very petite 5'3/102 lbs, 1/2 asian so I have a very small frame and yet my boobs are wide? Are they? I guess that explains back in the day (a very long time ago) that it seems like I had more side boob than frontal. Is this going to affect my results? How do I know if the width is correct and also to pick between profiles based on these things? Also what I really want to know is from the girls who tried rice sizers and have gotten their BA is ... is the weight comparable of the actual implants? I think I'm going to take them with me to the consultations on Thursday to compare them to the width and profile of various sizers they have.

I showed these pics to my bff and she said that I should go bigger .. mind you she is a D cup (which I don't want to be). What do you ladies think? Too big, too small or just right?

I have serious boob addiction. I'm actually losing sleep staying up into the early morning hours despite being thoroughly exhausted looking at boobs and trying to figure this whole thing out!!! I need to get my BA ASAP so I can stop lurking on websites lol. What are the chances that I would go into a consultation and have the surgery done right then and there Lmao!!! Seriously it's not even a possibility since I'm going on a family cruise on August 9th and I don't want to waste my vacation time holed up in my cabin recuperating. Although I will admit; originally I thought it was a great idea! I'm taking the time off already and I wouldn't have to take additional time in September (when I hope to have the surgery performed). But I'm told that I won't be able to enjoy the cruise, the activities and probably wouldn't want to be sitting on the pool deck or beautiful beach just 2-3 weeks Post Op. Thoughts?

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July 22, 2014
Talk to your doc about side boob. I think it has some to do with placement. Tell dude exactly how you want them to look. Did u try 5 and 6 cc ?? I am also small framed. 135 with boobs 5'5 tall and thin up top too. I have Mod smooth saline unders. I think a D cup would look great on you! Try some more rice siZers 5-6cc. Don't be scared. At 400 I think you might have wished u went bigger. A D cup is not that big and totally camouflageable if you ever need to. If I can hide the trip D's, Your natural breasts have a very nice shape and slope. They are very similar to mine PRE op. I think you are going to have very nice results.
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July 22, 2014
And I meant 5-6 hundred cc's. you probly thought I lost my mind. Hahaha Dawna
December 12, 2014
Oh my gosh! What you said in that last paragraph is so true! My mom even called me out on my boob addiction. It's helps satisfy me a bit till I have my ba.