Tummy Tuck with hourglass MR and Breast Augmentation-NO Lipo

Hello! I am a 33yo mother of 2 who needs a tummy tuck bad! I had my first child at 21 and haven't worn a bikini since. My husband loves me just the way I am, but I am not happy. I haven't made a decision with a PS yet, I received a quote with Dra Robles in DR, and I have a free consultation with Dr Gray in Bloomfield MI on April 21. I just found this website last week and thought I would introduce myself! I have a feeling I will be on here a lot as my journey continues!

So I made an appt with family Dr next week to discuss me venturing outside the country for plastic surgery. I can't afford it locally where I'm from. I'm on a border town to the USA, so that's one option. But for some reason, my heart is telling me to go with Dra Robles in DR. Her before and after pics are amazing. And the pics I have seen on here are exactly what I'm looking for!

Here are some stats about me.....
Age-33
Ht-5'5"
Weight-159lbs
2 children

I go to the gym 3-4 times a week. And ever since getting a tummy tuck was an option for me, I decided to only eat clean. I want my body in the best shape I can get it before surgery.

I finally have support from my husband to go to DR by myself. He was hesitant cause it's so far away, and we have never been apart for more than a few days. My family and friends think I'm crazy to even consider it! Anyone else have a hard time explaining to others?!?!

Any advice is greatly appreciated!
How did you tell your kids you were having plastic surgery? I'm not too worried about my 8yo son, but I am worried about my 12yo daughter. She's reaching that age where she's worried about how she looks, and I don't want her to think that the only way to fix how she looks is surgery, cause mommy did it!! Do I keep it from her till she's old enough to understand more? If I go to DR, do I tell her I'm on vacation? The last thing I want to do is keep things from her, but I'm also not being a very good role model!! To love the skin you're in, and love yourself the way you are! I think she overheard me talking to my husband about it, so she might already have an idea. Just looking to hear how you handled it with your daughters!