For Me - California
I was overweight since I can remember. Though I...
I was overweight since I can remember. Though I was extremely athletic, I never felt pretty. In 2001 I had twin boys and my stomach was destroyed. I didn't gain any weight during my pregnancy but I gained thick red stretch marks. In 2006 I had another child and my second C-section. I asked my doctor if I could have a tummy tuck as soon as I delivered but she said it wasn't safe. I gained no weight again during my pregnancy but afterwards I made up for it. I hit my highest weight of 220 lbs. I decided at that point I didn't want my daughter to ever feel the way I did about my body. I lost 60 pounds with diet and have kept it off for three years. I also lost my husband along the way. His insecurities from my weight loss created problems I wouldn't tolerate. Now that I am back in the dating scene, my insecurities about my stomach and my less than an A cup breasts have brought me to this decision.
I met with my PS in April and feel really comfortable with him and his staff. He did some measurements and then took before pictures which he used to show me what he would do. If you have never seen naked pictures of yourself, I don't recommend it. Those pictures convinced me even more that I was making the right choice.
After my appointment I started doing more research and almost decided not to do the tummy tuck portion because the after pictures and scar look so painful but then I remind myself that I have been through 2 c-sections and I have a high pain tolerance. So I have decided to go for it. As for my breast implants, I have never had breasts, not even during or after my pregnancies. I have purchased padded bras since I can remember. For a long time I couldn't find bras that fit because when you're big the bra industry expects you to have big boobs too. Finding a 38 A padded bra was impossible. My boobs are peaks. Tiny peaks and uneven. I want the implants to feel pretty, confident and like a woman.
I have only told a few girlfriends and my boyfriend my plan. I am scared to tell my parents and I don't plan on telling my brother or sister. The two of them are small and have never had body issues like me. And because I am a single mom of three I can imagine all the things people will say about the cost. The thing is, I have always always put other people first and I will continue to always put my children first, but it is time I make myself a priority. And it is time for me to feel pretty.
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I'm all set! It's scheduled! September 9th...
Hoping to break the news to my mom tonight. Wish me luck.
Gotta go post my wedding and engagement ring on EBay. That's how I plan to pay for it.
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In a nutshell, you are not alone here. There are several women who share the same woes as you and we will all triumph in the end! Good luck.
That sounds like a good financing plan! I hope it sells quickly and for a good price!
You go girl!!! I have the EXACT same breast issue --- bigger frame, small tatas. 38 A is IMPOSSIBLE! No one understands when I tell them I want implants... but I'm willing to bet they've never had to endure hours of bra fittings to come out with nothing... feeling inadequate because you can't fill cups... not filling out dresses or blouses because what you need in the shoulders or hips means too much sag in the chest.
I can't wait to see your results -- no matter how far off! And I love the idea of selling the memories of the man who couldn't deal with how fabulous you are, to pay for making yourself even more fabulous. Rock on.
Everyone deserves to feel pretty. It's such a gift to yourself. Enjoy it!
If you get a chance, we'd love to know the name of your surgeon. That information greatly helps other ladies in your area looking to do the same procedure.
Please keep us posted on how it goes.