Know The Risks. California, CA

I can't even wrap my mind around the fact that it's been 6 weeks! My vagina is beautiful! It far exceeds my expectations going into surgery. It makes the horrible journey so worthwhile. Sitting on hard surfaces isn't uncomfortable, as it used to be. I had sex today for the first time since surgery, very carefully of course. I tore superficially at the bottom of the opening where sutures were previously, which I definitely felt at the time it happened. Fortunately, I had no bleeding from the tear. Sex was uncomfortable because things are still healing from the trauma of the second surgery and deeper bruising. Although, I will say that it was a HUGE improvement from pre-op status. I really look forward to the final product. And the more time goes on, the more excited I become. I'm really happy with the results this far!

I cannot believe 5 weeks have already passed. It feels like it's only been 3 weeks. My concept of time during those first 2 weeks seems non-existent. Swelling has gone down significantly around the vaginal opening and labia majora. Bruising is 97% gone. Just a faint purple remains in the prior violently dark purple, bruised areas. Another stitch used to tie off the artery has popped through the outer side of my hood. I have an appointment next week to have this removed. I wore jeans for the first time a few days ago. I was amazed how comfortable they were, with nothing being smashed. I'm able to sit and work a full day. Walking is comfortable, with the exception of the stitch. I was specifically advised to avoid sex until the remaining internal sutures dissolved or broke through the skin, since they were giving me problems--so no sex as of yet. I'm really happy with the results. I found myself nitpicking every little detail for weeks, and I had to remind myself that the reason I did this was because of the discomfort. Aesthetics were a bonus. Once I came to terms with that, I became extremely happy with my results. I not only feel better, but I look like the average woman down there. This has been quite a journey, but I'm very happy I did this in the end.

Today, I'm 4 weeks post-op. I've returned to work this week. Energy levels are plummeting as I attempt to do more each day. But I know this will improve in time. Swelling is almost gone, with only a little more to go. Bruising is gone for the most part too. Sitting is so much more comfortable. Wearing yoga pants is much more comfortable. Still getting used to the foreign feeling.