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31 Year Old , 2 kids, 8 Month Post Breast Augmentation, Want Them Out!!!! - California

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I'm 31 years old, had surgery almost 8 months ago...

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Kat.1984
I'm 31 years old, had surgery almost 8 months ago and I regret it every single day... I am thinking about removing my implants but I'm so nervous and anxious about the after removal outcome... I was always so self conscious about my small breast and even though my husband always told me how much he loved me the way I was and that I didn't need to add anything to my body, I was always unhappy and wanted to get big boobs really bad.... Now I realized that I was a big mistake and this horrible experience has just teach me to appreciate and love my self for who I am and not for what I think I need to look beautiful in people's eyes.
I wish I could go back in time and had listened to my husband, he is amazing and even now he supports me 100% on my decision of removing my implants.
I have 350cc silicone over the muscle, they look nice and sexy but they feel horrible!!!.... They are uncomfortable and hard... I used to work out and dance, I can't do none of that stuff now, its painful, they fill firm as rocks when I lay down and I have throbbing pain and off and on burning sensation on both breast, this has affected me so bad physically and emotionally to the point where I found myself crying every day..... I really want to take them out but I'm so afraid that I will get myself into something worst, I shouldn't even put myself through this in the first place. I hope I can find support and encouragement here as long as any advice you ladies can give me. A friend told me that my breast will look even smaller and probably deformed after explanation, is that true??... I just want to think that she is so happy with her implants that she is trying to convince me to keep mine too. At least I have my husband's support. I'm depressed and anxious all the time.... I need advice please. Thank you

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February 25, 2016
I believe you have already made a decision in your mind and would you really want anyone to talk you out of that decision? I wouldn't be concerned that you've only had them a short time - 8 months or 8 years just to feel that you got your money's worth. Why continue on if you are not at peace. Just do some research about all the explant complications and what can be done to fix each complication. Sometimes knowledge is power and it won't seem so overwhelming if you know it can be improved later. For example, if they are smaller or deformed there are natural options such as fat grafting to improve the shape if it's really something you cannot live with. Getting implants had complications and people still choose that direction and hope for the best and make corrections along the way if necessary. It sounds like you have an amazing hubby who will stand beside you no matter what. All the best.
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February 25, 2016
Thank you!!... i will start doing my research about the different options i have in terms of a good plastic surgeon, if it was for me i would remove them ASAP!!, but i know i have to do my homework first and find a good experienced surgeon.... and of course im putting everything in God's hands.
February 25, 2016
You should read stories of women who have had implants for many years - and they have great results (right surgeon). I wanted mine removed at 25, and I was fed a load of crap by the PS....I was unable to breast feed (I could not produce milk)....had 4 surgeries in total....and have been mysteriously sick with unexplained symptoms that you will find MANY women with implants (silicone & saline) have- and actually are told they have illness they don't, or live on medications for symptoms....
I was fit, active, and the mother of a 9&10 year old girl and boy....their lives changed....I am now 43, and am having them explanted enbloc....THEY are not worth the risk of ruining your health and life!
You've only had them for 8 months- you will look great :)
Please save your health....I wish I could go back in time and not have wasted precious years.....
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February 25, 2016
Thank you Grace, you are so right, its just not worth making my family miserable seeing me suffering for this... I was beautiful with my small boobs, and my husband adore me, its sad i had to put myself through this to realize that ..... Thank you so much for your comment, i will keep you guys post it on this journey
February 25, 2016
If you don't like your implants and how you feel right now...you never will. I regretted my decision from day 1 and it took me 20yrs to do something about it. Don't waste any more time. I am very small and flat chested, but I absolutely love the way I feel without my implants. Read through all the stories on this site and look at the pictures. It gave me the courage and knowledge to do something about it. Find a plastic surgeon you trust and everything will fall into place. Good luck on your journey!
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February 25, 2016
Thank you so much.... thats exactly how I feel, ive been miserable for 8 months, i will probably hate them forever.....
February 25, 2016
I think you need to trust your gut instinct. I think some women love them and others don't. For me it was the best decision. I love and appreciate my small chest more than I ever and I feel a tremendous relief with them gone. Glad you have a supportive husband, that helps a lot. Good luck and you will do great!
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February 25, 2016
Thank you :)
February 26, 2016
Hi! I have mine removed after just 2 months with them inside and I don't look deformed! If you don't like them, it's better to take them out as sooner as possible.
Good luck, and best wishes :)
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February 26, 2016
Thank you!!!!... Im glad you are implant free now... How was your experience ?
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February 26, 2016
aw ouch luvy! ?..you're DEFINATELY doing the best thing, your body's telling you it wants them out... I read your other posts too, glad you've asked some questions I needed answered too like capsule or not?!... I will now ask the surgeons that n that will give me a better idea of who to go with!... Back to you, far out!... You have incredible Breast tissue!...I can't imagine you'll need any more interference, apart from hubby! Hehe... Plus, something to remember, yes scarring but also something that concerns me is more loss of sensation...?... Not worth it, you're young, gorgeous obviously, and supported... But I'm also telling ones about a product I haven't used yet but seems really good for naturally increasing bust size and firming, called naturaful. Im gonna be flat n saggy afterwards, so I've bought some! Hehe all the best, take care n look forward to the rest of your story! Xx
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March 2, 2016
Thank you!!!.... you know, i am concerned about loss of sensation with a lift.... im really thinking about every possibility and i just want the best in terms of health and not beauty..... i already learned my lesson.... i will post a picture i took this morning.
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March 2, 2016
Wow you're so gorgeous no wonder you're worried, but check out most other ladies... I've been freaking about saggy ness too but many return to about their before photos, it takes time to get there...and I'm adopting use of a cream... But yes Ive it on good advice that lifts can ruin more sensation and since my husband is truely not bothered, he's just desperate for me to be well so he can be with me long term!, I'm 90% not going to at first at least...fluffing may occur, then there's the cream, then fat transplant... You look to have pretty supple skin, so you'll probably have way better results than me!... ;) [RS bleep] research, then relax in whatever decision you make... But one lady told me they can't do the best job straight after removal too because haven't seen them settled... So my thought is more chance of them looking weird, loss of sensation and longer surgery and more scars... I'm going to risk the sagginess over that, but you may have a different way of looking at it, only you know what's most important to you deep down. Xx All the best with your choice! [RS bleep]
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March 2, 2016
Thank you your so sweet.... and im so glad that you got your consultation schedule!... please let us know what the doctor says
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March 2, 2016
Sure will! ;) I'm so glad I'm busy between now n then so this week will go fast... Yippee!... My glands are getting bigger!...
UPDATED FROM Kat.1984

Capsule???.... lift or no lift?

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Kat.1984
I think i will probably need a lift after removing my implants but im not sure about it, breast augmentation was so painful that i would hate to put myself on that road again......... why is it that a lot of people prefer not to do a lift after removing their implants, is it because its as painful and complicated as to have implants done?... is it because of the extra cost?... or because of the scars?.... also i have been reading other stories and I've noticed people talking about having their capsule removed along with the implants and others don't even mentioned..... I don't really know what that is?... what is the capsule?....what is the difference about removing the capsule and not removing it

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February 25, 2016
The capsule is your body protecting itself...so it immediately forms a capsule ove the foreign object. It can also enclose any leaks (which is why somtimes all looks well until surgery). Though you've only had yours for months, as they remain in the body, there can be calcification of the capsules, infection, even toxins from the implants themselves (as the materials break down). From all I have learned, there are many women who DO NOT remove the capsules because they are told that their bodies reabsorb them...and they go one to have issues just because of the capsules....PS do not want to bother as it takes extra time...the ones that do believe they need to be removed - will tell you your body does not reabsorb them. The capsules should be sent to pathology.
If a surgeon refuses- find another one!
As far as the lift- it seems women who had larger breasts to begin with, and have also gained/lost volume over the years- choose to do this. The size of your implant...breastfeeding etc all affect the tissue.
Without knowing your preimplant size, you may look just fine, and luckily you are just months after...you will not have years and years of stretching :) It really is amazing how so many women look better after explant!
A good surgeon will be the one to help you decide if a lift is needed.
Look at as many photos as you can, there are so many great results!
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February 25, 2016
This is really helpful!!... Thank you :)
February 26, 2016
You've only had your implants for a short while so if you didn't need a lift before you got your implants, most likely you will not need one if you get an explant. Most women like to wait to see how they look after their explant and see what they have before undergoing a lift because they might not need or want one. Most are pleasantly surprised they do not need one. In my case there was nothing left to lift so that would of been a disaster if they did a lift on me (which one P.S. said I had to have or I would look horrible!) because I would of ended up with just perky nipples and scars. At least I have a tiny bit to put into a bra! There are so many conflicting opinions on the capsule and whether it needs to come out. Some are adamant it has to come out--others say it is totally unnecessary. In my opinion you need to find a surgeon you trust and who has experience with explants. Go on several consultations until you find one you are comfortable with. I also read the stories and looked at pictures of people on this site that had similar stats as mine. I really learned a lot. I had textured saline 300cc implants under the muscle and I had my implants for 20yrs--a long time! I had an explant with NO lift and NO capsule removal and NO drains. I wanted the least invasive surgery that would give me the results I wanted. I had general anesthesia instead of local and that way if more work needed to be done (like on the capsule or drains) he would be able to do it during surgery. I left that up to him and his expertise. I couldn't be more happy with my outcome. I feel great and I love the way they look. Keep researching this site--it is filled with valuable information. Look at my post and others that are similar. Good luck. It is a pretty easy surgery and very easy recovery. Please don't make yourself crazy over this process. I did and it drove me a little insane! It truly is a simple procedure for a qualified surgeon. You have a huge thing going for you---only 8months with these foreign objects. And I can't say this enough. It was absolutely the best decision I have made in a very long time. Read my post. Good luck and you can message me and ask me anything.
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February 26, 2016
Thank you Julie.... I think the surgeon did a lift when he did my BA.... I don't know if the lift stays after they remove my implants....???.....
UPDATED FROM Kat.1984

A few pictures

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Kat.1984
This is how they look right now.... Heavy!!

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February 26, 2016
Thanks for posting the pics. You have a tiny frame and you look really fit and healthy. I think you would be a great candidate for explant only without a lift. You don't look like you have any sag now so I don't think you will if you explant. This is my opinion only (I am not a doctor!). I told myself that if I didn't like the way I looked after the explant then there where options out there. Keep researching and find a great surgeon that has knowledge in doing explants. Good luck!
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February 26, 2016
They do look heavy...They look like my 340 silicone overs....except I am very saggy from my implants and you are not at all. Just compare your photos with mine. I am 20 years older than you but I have a small frame like you. I am 5'1 and normally 125 lbs but have gained 10+ pounds since my implant surgery.
I really don't think that you will need a lift. You have only had them in for a short period of time. I have done a lot of research on removal of the capsule. You should do the research yourself and see if you feel comfortable with leaving the capsule in. After 6 months it is almost a guarantee that you will have formed a capsule. Even though your implants may not be leaking, there can be a transfer or a silicone bleed which can get absorbed by the capsule....so there may be toxins within the capsule. I would HATE for you to have the explant and then later on do the research and then wish that you had an explant with removal of the capsule/scar tissue. There is a video on this site by Dr. Feng who performs the explant "enbloc" which means that the capsule is dissected from your breast with the implant inside of it. You may want to look at that video and look into the information on capsules. Some say that if you leave the capsule there will always be some fluid between the capsule and your breast tissue and some say that if you leave the capsule, it could show up on a mammogram or any type of imaging as a small mass that might mimmick a worrisome spot such as a cancerous entity. Please look into this further. Your surgeon will probably tell you that because it's been such a short period of time that you don't need to and maybe you don't, we will never know for sure if it would be a problem for you in the future but for me, I want all of it out. I've only had mine in for 15 months and I have had health issues which may be related to silicone toxicity so I need to have everything taken out....
I think you should just trust your gut and if you don't like the implants, get rid of them and you will get rid of all your anguish and anxiety and can go back to being your natural self.

Keep us updated on what you decide!
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February 26, 2016
Thank you Ryli... This os very helpfull... I will for sure look into that and research more about the capsule being removed.... Ive heard removing it can increase the risk of bleeding.. Its overwhelming sometimes!!!... And it's so hard to know what the best option is :-(
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February 26, 2016
If you find a skilled surgeon who performs a lot of the enbloc procedures, you should not have to worry... But again, of course it's what you feel is right for you. I,m a worrier so if I leave the capsule in, I would always be worried that toxins are still in my system. I think any risk of bleeding is better than the alternative of the worry in my opinion. Maybe if your health is fine you would be ok but just check it out before you decide! I wish you the best :)
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February 27, 2016
Thank you.... Same to you!!... When is your surgery??.... Did you resolve the heart issue ?
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February 27, 2016
I don't have a surgery date yet only a consultation date of March 31. I'm waiting as fast as I can! Hoping I can get in earlier with a cancellation. The fluid around the heart is not at an amount that anything would be done with it. It's just another sign to me of inflammation and related to auto immune disorder which leads me to think its the silicone that my body is reacting to....

Can't wait to get these things out of me!
February 28, 2016
Hi Ryli6464....just noticed your comment here- have you had illness related to your implants? I've had mine since age 17 (I'm 43)....sigh...finding so many women who have been suffering....is your story posted here?
February 28, 2016
I think there is some really great advice being given here! How I wish I had this almost 20 years ago when I wanted mine out and the PS made me feel like I would be a freak....I also think it is amazing (and brave) that women post their photos of before and after- also SO SO helpful :)
You look really symmetrical, and based on your age and how long you have had them- you will look great after removal. I wish I had known about removing 'capsules' when I had my first silicone implants removed at 25 (replaced with saline). Whatever was left, capsule, scar tissue, or any breakdown of the silicone implants- I will never know....that really bothers me.
I have been sick for years....and the information you have access to now- could have changed my life!

If you have a PS telling you bleeding is a concern (removing capsule), I would be hesitant....if you can, please find a surgeon who has an understanding of 'why' the capsules should not be left....they are out there!
You are so young, it would be a shame for you to go through this only to have further issues down the road.....there are women who have to go BACK for capsule removal or parts not cleaned out properly....that would be awful!

I'm booked to travel from Canada to see Dr. Feng at the end of April.... I want to be done with this all for good !!

Do your implants feel tight? you will likely not have any loose skin at all....you will feel such relief :)
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February 28, 2016
Oh they feel really tight!!!.... I feel like my skin is stretching all the time.... That really bothers me.... Extremely uncomfortable.... I do want to do this soon but at the same time I want to get all the information and knowledge I need before doing anything
February 28, 2016
I know what they feel like- mine have been like that forever and I just 'shut up'.....you will do what is right for you, and there is that inner voice that some are smart enough to follow- and others take years to hear it whisper and then scream. I sort of sound like a 'mother' here, but you don't need those! We ALL need to remember what boobies are suppose to like....yes-research and follow your heart :)