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May 2016 Mommy Makeover in Cali, Colombia

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I've been inspired by other real-self users to...

Mommylovesher3
I've been inspired by other real-self users to write this review. So basically I'm a mom of 3 children 14, 3 & 17months. After having my daughter 14 years ago I was left with extra sagging skin and severe stretch marks on my abdomen. All these years I've been saying "once I finish having children I'm getting a tummy tuck". The baby making shop is no longer manufacturing, So it's time for my tummy tuck! I was looking at surgeons once I gave birth to my last son but since there are lifting restrictions I waited till he was able to walk ( which now I think might be harder). I've also been having a hard time dropping the baby weight despite doing cardio 4 days a week. I'm 35, 5'3 and 170lbs.

In 2011 I had breastlift and saline implants and after 2 babies they went back to what they looked like before. Now I'm scheduled with Dr. Villalobos for a Tummy tuck, Contour Lipo another breastlift but swapping my saline for Silcone and hopefully going a bit smaller. I'm currently a 36DDD. I find with my figure if I'm not wearing a low cut shirt I look fatter. I'm hoping to be a D. I'm naturally a C so it won't be a huge implant.

Dr. Villalobos came highly recommend by 2 friends that recently traveled to him for Lipo and fat transfer. They were very satisfied and they said he does amazing tummy tucks. I also like the height of his nipples (Sounds weird... I know) currently my nipples are too high so every time I wear something low cut I have to keep checking that my areola isn't showing.

I did my research on Dr. Villalobos and feel very confident in my decision. I saw other doctors that I was interested in but I didn't get that gut feeling that made in comfortable. It seems like he plays safe.

The hardest part of this journey for me is leaving my children, I love them dearly but I also been wanting this forever. My husband is the only one I have supporting my decision. I've been scolded by my mother about leaving my children and having surgery prior to my daughter's middleschool graduation ( which I'll be back home for) I guess she sees me dying or something. ( I pray that saying "mother's always right" isn't true). Shes never been a supportive parent. My husband will be taking off work to be with the children and keep them on their regular routine.

I hope this is not TMI but it all plays into my journey.

Mommylovesher3's provider

Harold Villalobos, MD

Harold Villalobos, MD

Plastic Surgeon

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April 13, 2016
Hi so happy for you that you were able to make your decision. I too just recently made mine and put my profile up. My Mother is 92 and still scolding me, it never ends. I'm 69 and just take a deep breath, smile and tell her I am happy for me because I deserve it. So keep your chin up, make sure you've done all your research and before you know it you'll be on the flat side. Beat to you.
April 14, 2016
Awe.. Thank you so much for your sweet words! It means a lot to me! I will be following your journey. The best to you
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April 26, 2016
@goodlookin

Wow and a big up to you..I am 50 and going to be on the same kind of journey soon..Will follow you xx
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April 13, 2016

Thank you for sharing your story with this community. No need to worry about TMI, we want to hear about your journey and what led you to RealSelf. Your husband sounds really supportive, which is great. Let us know how we can help you prepare for this big step. 

April 14, 2016
Thank you:-)
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April 20, 2016
I can totally relate to your story. Are you traveling alone? I initially planned on going the end of May. But unfortunately, had to change my date of sx till September & still looking for a travel partner. Good look on your Journey doll.
April 20, 2016
Yes I'm traveling alone. Awe too bad we could of surgery buddies. Best wishes on your journey as well.
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April 25, 2016
Thank you Doll.
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April 26, 2016
I will be going..hopefully in September.
April 28, 2016
I'm also going in September 2016. So nervous and excited
April 23, 2016
Dr. V is the best. I did TT, Lipo n breast reduction and lift with him. Amazing result. The masseuse Sandra is super great. Paola, his wife, another super great person. I enjoyed myself, I was well taken care of from the anesthesiologist to the nurses. What rh r u staying?. Please remember to go with sanitary pads, nasal spray, cling foil, alcohol, etc. U can contact me if u need any infor. All the best!
April 24, 2016
Hi! Im staying at Salud & Belleza. It's a recovery house they are now using. Thanks nasal spray is a new one item I haven't saw.
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April 26, 2016
Could you please give me the email / web address of Salud and Belleza. Thanks
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April 24, 2016
Hope you are healing well. Post an update when you can please. I'm thinking of going with Dr V myself later this year or early next year.
UPDATED FROM Mommylovesher3
26 days pre

Only a few weeks to go...

Mommylovesher3
Let the stress begin! So I'm less than a month pre-op. I scheduled my physical and routine gyno visit, to make sure I'm in best health. I was having heavy menstrual cycles while being on Paraguard (IUD) so I switched to Mirena. According to Paola this is an acceptable form and my IUD doesn't have to be removed prior to surgery. After I go for my physical. l had blood work and EKG which looked great with the exception of my hemoglobin it was a 10 the lowest it's ever been :-/ Dr. Villalobos will not preform surgery unless you are a 12 (higher is better). I tried talking to my doctor about sending me to a hematologist he just want me to wait a month to see if there heavy Mense was the issue :-< ugh!!! I explained that I'm considering having a tummy tuck he said this will have to be resolved first (duh). By the way US doctors do not want to hear you're going out of the country for surgery (they'll think your crazy and lecture you) Now the challenge is to get my levels up. I was on iron daily and still came low. So now I will try adding blood builders and folic acid. By the way the guy at the vitamin shop explained that if you want higher than 28mg of iron it's sold over the counter at pharmacies up to 300mg.
Now my follow up blood work is 3 days prior to departure..

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April 27, 2016
Try taking Vitamin C, B6, B12, Folic with Iron, the other vitamins help you absorb the iron. I went from 11.6 to 12.8 in 2 weeks. Got them all at walmart. Good luck!
April 27, 2016
Thank you I will try!
UPDATED FROM Mommylovesher3
6 days pre

Less than a week till I leave

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So right now I'm sitting in the doctors office Anixiously waiting. My last visit my heme was a 10 and I can't have surgery unless I'm a 12. Today my doctor was able to do the blood test with immediate results :-| I've been working very hard trying to get these numbers high. I've been taking Iron, Hemaplex, no caffeine and a high iron intake. Hopefully all this worked.

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May 16, 2016
I'm so excited for you! I really want to do this early next year with the same Dr. I can't wait to see your after pics & hear all about your experience!
May 17, 2016
Awe thank you!