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22 Year Old with One Child - Brooklyn

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I've been over weight my entire life I was born...

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Lovely_93
WORTH IT$19,000
I've been over weight my entire life
I was born weighing nearly 10lbs. I never really had a problem with being 'fat' until my teens , I would get boils in between my thighs & under my arms ... By the time I was 19 I would get bumps /boils on a daily basis EVERYWHERE , under my chest , my butt, groin area, thighs , underarms , stomach , back ... And I was also diagnosed with hidradenitis.
At first I was told there was nothing that could be done , some doctors said shave, some said don't shave , shower, don't shower . I am still unable to control the outbreaks . So my last resort is to lose this weight . I've tried diets & gyms but after spending months at the gym and seeing no results I would give up .
So I am planning on having the surgery on the 15th.
I weigh 250 I wear a size 14 in pants . I am VERY top heavy . Would it proportion out after the weight lost ?
Will I be sore & unable to care for my child afterwards ?
If so how long?
Any advice ?
Thank you

Lovely_93's provider

Dr. Rabih Nemr

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September 3, 2015
Hi Lovely_93
I will be having the surgery also on 9/14. If you can get help to care for your child right after your surgery please do so, then again it depends on age and weight of your child cuz you won't be able to lift more than 10 lbs. I have a 3 year old who weighs 38 lbs but my husband and my daughter will take care of him. Good luck Hun!
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September 4, 2015
Okay . Thank you my son is about 45 pounds. I have support but we don't lift him anymore. Thank you ; and good luck on your surgery
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September 13, 2015
Thank you
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September 12, 2015
Hi hun, glad to see you fighting your hidradenitis! I suffered with this for many years, but mostly under arms, once under breast and few in groin. I found that there where triggers for me, sugar was a huge trigger, bread and high carbs. So I changed how I was eating and started washing with Hibiclens anti bacterial soap (cheaper on Amazon) I would also apply iodine to the areas with a cotton ball and let it dry in. I have been free of the dreadful H for a couple of years now. This surgery is also wonderful because the things that trigger H for me, I can no longer eat anyway. Laying weight will certainly help because it will help level out your hormones and make things more regular. As far as taking care of your child, you just can't pick them up right away, I only waited 2 weeks before picking up my 2 year old, but listen to your body. Now if you're sitting down you can hold them. It would be a good idea to have some help around for a couple of weeks, but you will do fine.
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September 12, 2015
Losing weight
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September 13, 2015
Thank you so much for that advice I will surely try that. My doctors never told me about the sugar and carbs...not even about the soap. I've been using dove sensitive skin for the longest with no results . Thanks A LOT !!
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September 22, 2015
You are so very welcome.
September 14, 2015
Hey sleeve sister. Im scheduled for the 18th. Im on week 2 of my pre sur liquid diet. Good luck to you
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September 14, 2015
Thank you and I wish you luck as well
September 16, 2015
Hi, I'm so glad you are doing this for yourself! I had a tummy tuck and breast reduction and lift 5 years ago and it changed my body completely! You won't regret it.
You WILL need help during the first week. So please find committed helper/helpers during that time. You'll be drugged and sleeping a lot for the first 3-4 days. You need to have easy foods planned ahead of time that you can eat and have prepared easily. Soups, toast, jello, eggs, etc.
IMPORTANT: eat as much protein before and after your surgery and cut out alcohol during that time! This will help you heal faster. Find a board certified plastic surgeon and interview at least 3 of them before you chose one.
I joined a great private women's tummy tuck online tummytucktalk.ning.com. You must be referred so tell them Susannah referred you. Those women will answer every question, give you advice, support and friendship. I wish you all the best!
Susannah
January 18, 2016
Hi Susannah. I just had TT n BR in November. I'd love more information about the website. Is there a fee?
September 30, 2015
Hello Brooklyn, I am saddened to hear of your health problems and I hope things get better for you. As for your question about your body evening out. I had the surgery on January 19th, 2015 @ a hospital in Mexico with Dr. Ramos, I must say one of the best decisions I ever made. Know this, once you have the surgery you will loose weight over your entire body I.e. breast, feet, neck, arms everywhere. So whatever your body type is it will remain the same just without excess weight. One thing to keep in mind is loose skin. It is important for you to begin a toning regiment to tighten you excess skin. The average down time is a week, you will be able to move around after the surgery and it is highly suggested to remove gas from the procedure you are having. Gas pains can be very painful, so remember to move around. You will have a normal routine you will just have to take it easy. My only advice is to take a deep breath and prepared for a wonderful new you. Listen to your doctors advise and ask your higher power to watch over you during surgery and you will be fine. I hoped this helped and take special care.
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September 30, 2015
Yes very much. Thanks !!
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3 days pre

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Lovely_93
Some pictures of myself before the surgery

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September 14, 2015
Best of luck today!!!
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1 day pre

All liquid diet help

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Hey tomorrow I have to do all liquids. Is it okay if I buy a soup and only drink the broth ? Or just juice and water for the entire day ? Also... Anyone know any good protein shakes ?

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September 14, 2015
Wow your big day is almost here! I wish you the best of luck! Can't wait to see post pics!!
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September 14, 2015
Yes thank you ! I will post pics and updates the whole way through !!
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September 14, 2015
Wonder slim taste great and they are low in calories and high in protein.
September 14, 2015
Hey ive been liquids for 2 weeks. Today starts week 2. Sx is Friday. I was told. Sugar free jello. Clear broth 3-5 protein shakes per day or other protein powder skim milk can be used and sugar free applesauce. Crystal light. Im a huge fan of premier protein shakes. Chocolate and vanilla. . And Nectar cappuccino latte with hot water. As well as bio nutrional French vanilla creme whey isolate