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Gutsy No More :)) TT with BA and Thigh Liposuction - British Columbia, BC
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Well. And so it begins. I've been obsessively...
WORTH IT$13,600
Well. And so it begins.
I've been obsessively searching this site and haunting the profiles of dozens of women over the past month.
I am and will remain ever so grateful for the experiences they shared with me. I feel moderately more prepared but perhaps a little more freaked out than when I started looking.
So much to think about.
Ok I'll start with me.
Why am I doing this? Because I work my ass off mountain biking and skiing, back country ski touring and hiking, running and walking with my dog. And I feel Great!
Until I look in the mirror. Then my sensitive little ego takes a hit, let me tell you. Oh, wait, I don't Have to tell you, we're all here for the same reason! Sigh. Thank God, good to be amongst people that Understand!!!
I am 41 years old, 42 in January. Two births- 17 yr old son, and an almost three year old God daughter that I carried for my friend.
Bless her little soul, I think she was the end of my erectus muscles (spell that right?!) as I was 39 when I had her. Things just didn't spring back into shape afterwards, lol. As witnessed by some reconstructive surgery I had to put my bladder Back where it more or less belonged after I gave birth to her 0_o
I told myself when I offered to do the surrogacy, that if I wasn't happy with my body afterwards, I would gift myself a new tummy. Then I took a close look at The Girls and thought What the hell. I'll gift meself Those, too :)
I started researching PS in other countries, looking for a more affordable option. I booked a consult with a local PS to glean as much information as i could, and damned if I didn't adore him from the word Go.
He took almost an hour explaining the procedure to me. Initially I only asked about the TT, but at the last second I asked about these so called Mommy Makeovers I'd read about. We were off and running from there. He did not suggest Any procedures to me, just offered info on what I told him I thought I needed/wanted. No pressure or 'upselling' from him at all.
I came home from that appt Determined to find the funds I needed to proceed. Find them I did (let's pretend I'm not freaking out about remortgaging me home, ok? Ok.)
I spent the next month scouring this site and the stories. I found out that Every surgeon uses different techniques, for different reasons. All valid, no doubt.
That left me pretty confused. I composed a list of twenty or so questions and emailed them to my PS. I'm certain some of the information he gave me already in the consult, but I just couldn't remember all the details.
I've read numerous stories of people waiting weeks to hear back when they have pre op questions. Well I was prepared for that. I've seen how busy his office is. What I Wasn't prepared for was a phone call at 8 a.m on a Saturday morning, three days after I sent the email. He spent almost 40 min on the phone with me! We went through every question and he didn't move on until I was satisfied that I understood completely what he was saying.
Did I mention that I Adore him?
Ok. So all the questions are answered. Or most. I'm sure I'll come up with more- I always do! For the most part though, I feel settled and emotionally ready to take this on.
Now. My questions for You ladies that have been there done this, and those like myself that are awaiting our date with the flat side....
I am single. My teen son will be here on occasion but not regularly.
What can I do in preparation to make this journey a little easier for myself?
I am well versed in how to keep track of painkillers etc, having been through three rounds of reconstructive foot surgery in the past five years (and a baby. No damn wonder I'm a little flabby :p) but this surgery scares the heck out of me because it just looks like it would be So Easy to rip open the stitches!
Any helpful hints will be much appreciated, Thanking you in advance!
I'll try and add some pre op photos soon.
I've been obsessively searching this site and haunting the profiles of dozens of women over the past month.
I am and will remain ever so grateful for the experiences they shared with me. I feel moderately more prepared but perhaps a little more freaked out than when I started looking.
So much to think about.
Ok I'll start with me.
Why am I doing this? Because I work my ass off mountain biking and skiing, back country ski touring and hiking, running and walking with my dog. And I feel Great!
Until I look in the mirror. Then my sensitive little ego takes a hit, let me tell you. Oh, wait, I don't Have to tell you, we're all here for the same reason! Sigh. Thank God, good to be amongst people that Understand!!!
I am 41 years old, 42 in January. Two births- 17 yr old son, and an almost three year old God daughter that I carried for my friend.
Bless her little soul, I think she was the end of my erectus muscles (spell that right?!) as I was 39 when I had her. Things just didn't spring back into shape afterwards, lol. As witnessed by some reconstructive surgery I had to put my bladder Back where it more or less belonged after I gave birth to her 0_o
I told myself when I offered to do the surrogacy, that if I wasn't happy with my body afterwards, I would gift myself a new tummy. Then I took a close look at The Girls and thought What the hell. I'll gift meself Those, too :)
I started researching PS in other countries, looking for a more affordable option. I booked a consult with a local PS to glean as much information as i could, and damned if I didn't adore him from the word Go.
He took almost an hour explaining the procedure to me. Initially I only asked about the TT, but at the last second I asked about these so called Mommy Makeovers I'd read about. We were off and running from there. He did not suggest Any procedures to me, just offered info on what I told him I thought I needed/wanted. No pressure or 'upselling' from him at all.
I came home from that appt Determined to find the funds I needed to proceed. Find them I did (let's pretend I'm not freaking out about remortgaging me home, ok? Ok.)
I spent the next month scouring this site and the stories. I found out that Every surgeon uses different techniques, for different reasons. All valid, no doubt.
That left me pretty confused. I composed a list of twenty or so questions and emailed them to my PS. I'm certain some of the information he gave me already in the consult, but I just couldn't remember all the details.
I've read numerous stories of people waiting weeks to hear back when they have pre op questions. Well I was prepared for that. I've seen how busy his office is. What I Wasn't prepared for was a phone call at 8 a.m on a Saturday morning, three days after I sent the email. He spent almost 40 min on the phone with me! We went through every question and he didn't move on until I was satisfied that I understood completely what he was saying.
Did I mention that I Adore him?
Ok. So all the questions are answered. Or most. I'm sure I'll come up with more- I always do! For the most part though, I feel settled and emotionally ready to take this on.
Now. My questions for You ladies that have been there done this, and those like myself that are awaiting our date with the flat side....
I am single. My teen son will be here on occasion but not regularly.
What can I do in preparation to make this journey a little easier for myself?
I am well versed in how to keep track of painkillers etc, having been through three rounds of reconstructive foot surgery in the past five years (and a baby. No damn wonder I'm a little flabby :p) but this surgery scares the heck out of me because it just looks like it would be So Easy to rip open the stitches!
Any helpful hints will be much appreciated, Thanking you in advance!
I'll try and add some pre op photos soon.
UPDATED FROM Snowfly
27 days pre
The Ugh Files.
Forgot to add my stats
41
5'8.5" tall
155lbs give or take five depending in the day!
Very active, but not in a disciplined manor. I get out and do, a lot. But I've never been able to keep a gym routine going. Maybe because it was difficult to See any results? Probably I'm just too ADD to focus on a routine :)
Here are some one month Pre op pics, I will take some of the upper half another day :)
You can Almost tell there's some muscle tone hidden Waaay beneath the 'protective layer' as I've always called it :)
41
5'8.5" tall
155lbs give or take five depending in the day!
Very active, but not in a disciplined manor. I get out and do, a lot. But I've never been able to keep a gym routine going. Maybe because it was difficult to See any results? Probably I'm just too ADD to focus on a routine :)
Here are some one month Pre op pics, I will take some of the upper half another day :)
You can Almost tell there's some muscle tone hidden Waaay beneath the 'protective layer' as I've always called it :)
Replies (14)
October 30, 2013
I love your story so far! You are a GOOD friend for being a surrogate. You have my utmost admiration! And you definitely deserve this. It looks like you're already getting some good feedback from some of the other ladies in this wonderful community. Here's a list of supplies you might want to start gathering for recovery. Less than a month to go!
October 31, 2013
Thank you :)
I really appreciate the list of supplies. It's mind boggling trying to come up with a list on my own!
This really is a wonderful community of supportive women, I'm thankful I found it!
October 30, 2013
Yay! I'm so glad to see that you started your review!!!I'm excited to cheer you on along the way!
November 1, 2013
Howdy! I'm good. I'm actually at my PS office waiting room for a check up. my incision is spitting stitches like crazy and I am sooooo over it! LOL sounds like you're getting all stocked up and ready for your surgery. that's great! take care!
October 31, 2013
The one item I did not see is a toilet riser. This will be a blessing especially the first few days. My doctor wanted me to drink Gatorade by the gallons for the hydration as well as protein shakes. Ensure is a brand we have here in the states and it tasted good. I substitutes some of the Gatorade for coconut water with pineapple for the hydration and personally feel it has helped me. Good luck with your surgery! And welcome to the site. It's a fabulous group of women with a ton of knowledge/experience and best of all, kind words!
October 31, 2013
I think I can get ahold of a toilet riser.
Just bought some coconut water with pineapple to taste test it, I have read its good to combat swelling?
Thank you for the post, I feel So lucky to have stumbled across this site!
October 31, 2013
My number one recommendation is do the research on your surgeon. I even went as far as searching court records. If there is only 1 case that didn't involve death. Then that's not bad for someone with 10 or more years of experience. My surgeon had 0 but even 1 isn't bad.
Must have supplies that I just couldn't have lived without..........
Toilet seat riser with the handles (I had no idea how important this was), Butt loads of bottled water and bendy straws. Straws help you drink more water, pillbox to help you keep up with meds. I was so drugged up the first two days there is no telling what pills I would have doubled or missed without a pillbox. Lol you need a person with you around the clock for 3 days. I say 3 days because honestly the first 3 days are brutal. Paper medical tape ( it sticks better,doesn't hurt to remove, and won't irritate the skin. Thin pads without wings to put over your TT incision, small box of gauze to keep around the drain incision. You don't want the drain incision getting infected, peroxide and bacitracin ointment for belly button cleaning and to use around the drain. Saltine crackers and sprite ( helps with nausea and to have handy to take with meds so you don't get sick) these were all my must haves. I was personally more comfortable in my bed with an army of pillows than I was in the recliner after 2 days...most people prefer the recliner though. Congratulations on your journey. Can't wait to see your results...oh one more thing. I've been taking Arnica Montana religiously since 2 weeks before surgery. I believe this has sped up my healing. I'm usually a slow healer. Good luck! Excited for you!
October 31, 2013
Great things to add to my list!
I am from a small town in bc, and this surgeon has been here for years. He's done around a thousand TT's, and I haven't heard anything Bad about him so I'm pretty sure I'm ok on that front.
Just bought some Arnica Montana and I will start two weeks before surgery, then.
Thank you so much for the post :)
UPDATED FROM Snowfly
26 days pre
and, 28 days later
I will be on the Flat Side!
Let the countdown begin...
Let the countdown begin...
Replies (8)
November 3, 2013
I think that's such an amazingly unselfish thing u did for ur friend. That family must be eternally grateful and u deserve the body of ur dreams. I pray all goes as planned.
November 4, 2013
Thank you for the good wishes and kind words. Though there have been some crazy difficult times, I wouldn't change it for anything. My friend has made a most amazing Mommy, like I knew she would, and I still get to be Auntie :))
I hope I come through surgery looking and sounding as good as You do, lol!
November 4, 2013
good luck with your upcoming surgery sweetheart you are gonna look amazing i did it and i am so so so glad i did xx
November 4, 2013
Thank you So much!
I checked out your profile and pics-oh my what Great results you have! May I ask what size implants did you go with? Silicone?
They look really great on your frame, just right.
Just over three weeks and I'm equal parts Excited, Trepidatious, and Impatient! I can't wait, but my nerves are already starting. I read in your profile the same thing more or less, so I'll just ride it out and know it will be so worth it in the end :))
Thanks for the support, I appreciate it...
November 4, 2013
23 days till the flat side for you!!!! Yay! when is your pre op appointment?
November 4, 2013
.....you know, I don't know, lol!
I don't see the surgeon again but I'm pretty sure I need to get some lab work done.
November 5, 2013
LOL Well I'm sure the PS office will let you know what needs to be done. I hope the time goes quickly for you. You'll be the new, improved you in no time!!!
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