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Beware. This Man Should Be Stopped...

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Beware. This Man Should Be Stopped...

CarissaSM
$385
I got Botox on Wednesday the 20th. Thats 5 days ago. I still have insane bruises on my forehead and under my eye(only one was treated).

I was nervous and had talked to EVERYONE about finally going to have something done about the “11s” between my eyebrows. I have never done anything like this but felt like I could trust the office I have been going to for more than a year for my skin checks. I LOVE the nurse that checks my moles and she was the first one i had discussed Botox with. She confided that she got it and was eager to share when I decided I was ready, never pushed it.
Day of botox Iwas nervous but excited. I went in to see the dr and he asked what i was hoping for. “Relaxed, refreshed and unnoticeable” were my requests. Focusing on removing my 11’s, my ‘happy lines’ dont bother me. He proceeded to pick apart my face of all the things i “needed”. From my “tired eyes” to my “uneven lips”, my “incredibly uneven tone”, “sunspots and scaring”... i had not asked for an opinion of what was ‘needed’ because im not interested in restructuring the face that I an learning to love as it ages. I just dont like those two wrinkles that look angry. He laughed knowingly saying 'ok well my assistant will write it all down because i know you will be back'. The actual treatment took less than 5 minutes and was very frantic and ‘stabby’ as he injected thru my forehead and 1unit under my ‘uneven eye’. He told me i might have some bruises and a ‘mosquito bite’ bump. When I looked in the mirror i saw more but I didnt know what normal was so I texted friends who have had botox and every single one said this is not normal.
After hiding under hats and glasses for 5 days I went back.
The front desk girl told me in the 8 years she worked there she had never seen anything like this. But offered that maybe Arnica gel would be helpful, i thought that was kind and i felt supported by her which i appreciated. But, when i was shuffled back into his office it was a completely different dialogue. He refused to look at my pictures showing the progression of my bruises. Or the bump that sat on my forehead for well over 48 hours. He talked over me saying “its a bruise! Its a bruise” numerous times. Totally discrediting my feeling and what i KNOW isn’t normal. No compassion was paid towards my upset state. While sitting in tears he said “put make up on and get over it” and reminded me that I signed a paper that states there may be bruising— which when paraphrased to me was “bruises for 24-48 hours”— we are well past that time frame. So, if you sign a paper does that mean no care needs to be taken in my treatment and you are PROUD of this outcome?! If my only bruise was my forehead I would be massively disappointed but more accepting of the outcome. However, I don’t believe this is just me being ‘a bruiser’, am I a “bump-er” too? How do you define a goose egg on my forehead? He said that clearly this isn’t the treatment for me and that I “was never going to be happy” and when I told him that he was being arrogant to think he did nothing and this was normal he said I was “aggressive” and needed to ask one of ‘his girls’ to come in. I’m assuming as a witness to my aggression. Mind you I had three kids with me one of which was on my lap. While I have never had Botox injections before I have had needles used on my face for things like mole removal and a cyst but I’ve never had a reaction like this.
Today, 6 days since treatment I am still bruised. the tenderness in my eye has become a constant ache, I have a heavy/droopy lower lid and now my eyes actually ARE uneven!

This was shoddy work by someone who thinks he is above the medical degree he probably(hopefully) holds. This is someone who believes he doesn’t have to answer or be held accountable for what I TRUSTED him with. This us someone who thinks he is above explanations and who hides behind a signed consent. Yes, i agreed to some bruises but this is not that. This is a bruise that literally cant be covered by makeup. Im embarrased that I trusted this person. Im hurt that he thinks I deserved this. Perhaps if ANY solution had been offered— even over the counter gel, or an apology — Maybe I wouldn’t feel such a firey anger. Yes, the price tag hurts. I had been asking to rearrange our budget to stretch it so I could get this treatment and he reiterated there would be “no refunds” as if that was the only solution. I think even he knew i had overpaid to look like THIS. but this is more than money. this is unacceptable. Unacceptable treatment as a customer by a business i trusted. Im more than just a woman that had a bad botox injection, I am a voice and this experience has to be worth something. I know we rely on recommendations and I wish i had known what i know now before trusting DR Palceski. He was rude, arrogant and condescending , that alone would keep me from going back but these pictures speak louder than my disgust in his behavior towards me.

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Dimitry Palceski, DO

Dimitry Palceski, DO

Dermatologic Surgeon, Board Certified in Dermatology

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Replies (5)

December 5, 2019
I've only had botox once, so don't have massive experience, but I'm a bruiser and I only had very, very faint yellowish bruising. At least to me what you are experiencing looks in no way normal, more like the aftermath of a fist fight. And you are gorgeous by the way! It makes my blood boil whenever I hear of these 'consultations' when plastic surgeons start talking about absolutely non-existent flaws. If this happens to someone who has a healthy self-image/boundaries, you can file it as annoying episode. But I just imagine what it does to a vulnerable person! Irresponsible!
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December 5, 2019
Im sorry you had such little compassion shown to you!
Im a bruiser & ive also experienced a bump in the same spot only once, when i went to a different dr, she was very different in her bedside manner to your dr though & explained that sometimes this happens if a blood vessle is hit, i presume this might have happened to you? But im sure he'd never admit that!
Your beautiful and i dont think you need any of those things he mentioned to you! I hope youre healing well and dont let this jerk totally put you off botox, research & even interview you dr/nurse before you let the poke anything in your face, you deserve a perfect experience xxx
December 6, 2019
Put vitamin e on it right out of the jelly capsule little cleared up in a day
January 16, 2020
Let me first say that your review is very well written. I enjoyed reading it. I do see that the bruises are quite severe. Maybe the doctor poked a bit too deep or.maybe it was a bad reaction to the product. It's hard to say. I bruise easily and when I had jouvederm and I did a lot of research before hand. I knew that I was likely a bruiser and knew to buy arnica gel and even use before the procedure the prepare the tissues. maybe the staff could have been more upfront about the possible impact of having this procedure done. Maybe even had images available. Or provided the cream. Probably bedside manner was lacking and maybe compassion. But unfortunately it seems it was just a bad reaction. Sometimes these things are the price of beauty.
March 5, 2020
How is everything now? Has the asymmetry improved?

I had a similar result but with different doctor, 30 days ago.