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Waiting for This Since I Was 50. Now Am 68. I'm Ready ( I Think) - Bluffton, SC

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Later, haven't had surgery yet......2/9 @ 8 AM. I...

Ihtak46
Later, haven't had surgery yet......2/9 @ 8 AM.
I have been wanting to have work done for over a decade. Seems lately I've been looking so tired though I am not...it was my eyes, the baggy eyes took a toll on me as well as the wrinkles on my cheeks when I smiled. OH and my 'lovely' marionette lines at the mouth. Oh yes, I've decided. My surgery is 2/9/ 15, this Monday. I'm a bundle of nerves!
Photos are a week old, just returned from OUR FIRST CRUISE. Definitely a BEFORE pic.

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Frederick G. Weniger, MD, FACS, MBA

Frederick G. Weniger, MD, FACS, MBA

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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February 8, 2015
Thinking of you and sending (((hugs and best wishes))). Please share with us when you feel up to it!
February 13, 2015
Hi Nananna I posted a couple of updated pics. Did you see them? I can't seem to find them now. I hope I did it right. I'm just beginning to feel better. I haven't looked into the mirror yet. Thus is the third full day with Monday being my surgery date. I go to the Doc tomorrow. I'll try go reform my reviews. I doing know why I can't find it? Can't wait to get my sutures, draining tube and stitches out. Very uncomfortable!!!!
February 13, 2015
Good to hear from you. You will feel so much better after sutures, drain removed and then on to a SHOWER sent from heaven.
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February 13, 2015
I did. it's so good to hear from you... I'm sending you all the good energy I can. Please take your meds and rest, rest, rest! When do you get your drains out? I'm praying for your speedy recovery. Post only when you feel up to it. I will send you messages but don't feel obligated to respond until your feeling better. Just staying in touch to let you know that I'm thinking of you Sis.
February 13, 2015
Well your right - now the healing --- looks good believe it or not
February 13, 2015
Don't forget side shots for us :)
February 8, 2015
Wishing you much luck and an uneventful recovery process.
February 8, 2015
Wishing you a speedy recovery process. Can't wait to see your pictures.
February 8, 2015
Just wanted to say that I hope you have a brilliant result and that everything goes smoothly !! I have an appointment with my plastic surgeon in April and want it done ASAP .will follow your journey all the way.please post pics when you are up to it !x
February 8, 2015
Please take this as constructive as I am not intending to insult. You chest skin is badly sun damaged and it would look weird with a smooth face. Look at your first photo. Is there anything they can do to help that, like laser it or maybe some other treatment. Good luck.
February 9, 2015
No problem......your right my skin does look bad on my chest in the one photo. I think a lot of it is due to the fact I am crossing my arm over myself a bit.
February 9, 2015
ON SECOND THOUGHT....YES I DID TAKE OFFENSE TO THIS!!!!!!! You have a lot of nerve !!!! I was trying to be nice but SCREW THAT. YOU ARE RUDE!
February 10, 2015
I agree with you, ihtak46. There was nothing to be gained by posted such a inconsiderate comment. You are through your surgery now and you will look absolutely beautiful. Hugs
UPDATED FROM Ihtak46
3 days post

ITS OVER, now the HEAL!!!!!!

Ihtak46
Had my surgery Monday. This is the third full day!! I have not looked into the mirror yer, I think I'll wait!!!! I'm not in pain but just a discomfort: the pulling of my face so swollen, the feel of my draining tubes, my sutures and stretched lip area making it difficult to eat. I'm eating soft foods.
This is the first day I could focus (with ointment and eye drops it's hard to open my eyes fully)

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February 13, 2015
So glad to hear from you Girlfriend! I'm sure you are uncomfortable. Just take your meds and rest, rest, rest! I'm praying for you. I know your gonna heal fast and be so beautiful.
February 13, 2015
Looking great in these pics. Thanks for posting them. Wishing you well and rapid healing.
February 15, 2015
Thank you Universegirl. I appreciate the positive thoughts.
February 13, 2015
Please take care of your self and take it easy. Hugs
February 13, 2015
Just thinking about you. How are you feeling? You are going to look so beautiful.
February 13, 2015
Thank you for the caring comments. You have no idea how good it makes me feel. I am feeling OK now. My draines are out and half my sutures. I go back to Doc on Monday. I feel stretched! HA, I guess I was, uh? Doc says I look good, everything is good, etc. Just gotta take the time to heal. I just pray I'm OK by March 1. Hubby and I go to Florida to visit cousins then. I can't wait for my face to lose the lively swellness and black and bluing.
February 14, 2015
Achy, tired and sore today...weak!!!! I think i need a solid meal!!!!! My face does look less bruised and swollen though. Time, i guess. Thanks for your comments Peaceheart. @Moorea.....thank you. I just need patience.
February 14, 2015
Hi,I think you are an inspiration and I can already see a huge difference !!!! You are going to look amazing,just wait and see! did you just have a facelift ? You are over the worse now! Take care and rest lots x
February 14, 2015
Hey Buddy, arent you sweet. Thanks for the nice comments. I do feel im healing but not as fast as id like
February 14, 2015
I know when I go for my facelift that I'm going to be the most impatient patient they have ever had !!!! Pity help my hubby!!! Did you have your eyes done ? X
February 14, 2015
Hi, Happy Valentine's Day! Have you tried either buying or making a protein smoothie? Straws are your friend. Someone (Hubby LOL) can whip up a delicious smoothie with fruit and a protein powder. Lack of protein will make you weak - we can't have that. Good Luck.
February 15, 2015
I had the bags under my eyes done Buddy. And my cheeks as well as the marionette lines around my mouth. My stitches are from side temple area around behind my ears down to my neck. ""((((ouch))))""!
February 13, 2015
Can already tell u r going to look brilliant!!
UPDATED FROM Ihtak46
4 days post

Friday, Feb 13

Ihtak46
Generally feeling OK. Draines are out and this is GOOD. Half the stitches and sutures are out and I GOT TO WASH MY HAIR TODAY, EVEN THOUGH I NEED TO DO IT AT LEAST THREE MORE TIMES TO GET RID OF ALL THE GELS AND OINTMENTS.
I am resting Nananna, thanks for writing. I had a problem putting the pics on here. Glad u were able to see them. I did look in the mirror today since Doc showed me a massage technique.
Nan, you getting excited about your surgery? Wont be long, uh? Prayers for you. Talk later, I'm going to eat????????????????

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February 13, 2015
Here's a pic from yesterday and today. My hub got a chuckle out of my hair so he 'needed' to take my photo. I am looking better today, of course still swollen
February 13, 2015
Dinner in a straw? You sound very happy and had good PS checkup. Drains out AND hair wash - sometimes life is good. Take care
February 13, 2015
Ahhhh, thank you.
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February 13, 2015
Hey Girlfriend! Pix are great! I so glad your drains are out and that your a little more comfortable. Please know that I'm praying for you and your speedy recovery. Please take care of yourself, take your meds and rest! Only post when you feel up to it! Love ya! Nan
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February 14, 2015
You look younger already even with the bruising. Amazing.
February 14, 2015
Lay in tub -baby shampoo -- just put your head in water and gently clean - if you have 4x4's squeeze shampoo on them and gently do behind ears - afterwards -pain pill and sleep - you will feel better
February 14, 2015
Cold ice water - just dip 4x4s in and put on eyes -refresh when needed